When becoming sexually active again for the first time in a while, does it take you longer to cum or do you cum faster than usual?

Specify if you’re basing it off of having sex, oral, or simply masturbating for the first time in a long time.

In terms of actual sex, I definitely cum faster. But last night I watched porn for the first time in a while and man I had one of the best orgasms EVER. 😂 A few things were said to me last night and last week that mightve got me worked up a little early. I guess that crap built up because damn. So, I found this vid where the guy still had his pants on but whipped himself out the zipper slit to screw the girl. Brought back memories FORREAL of some shit that used to go down in public 😂 Man I came instantly. But then I just kept on having orgasm after orgasm. That was prob the quickest mentalgasms ever worked for me. I had a migraine afterwards because my forehead wouldn't stop pounding as I came and then I lost count. I had to force myself to go to sleep otherwise I’d have still been up steady goin. 😂

That mentalgasm had my ass shaking like 🤣
That mentalgasm had my ass shaking like 🤣
When becoming sexually active again for the first time in a while, does it take you longer to cum or do you cum faster than usual?


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When becoming sexually active again for the first time in a while, does it take you longer to cum or do you cum faster than usual?
I personally cum faster than usual after its been a while
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When becoming sexually active again for the first time in a while, does it take you longer to cum or do you cum faster than usual?
I personally take longer to cum if its been a while
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  • After a hiatus that first interaction is so intense. My dick is so big and hard and sensitive! It’s as hard as a bat but always ready to pop like a overfilled water ballon. After that first explosion, the second one takes forever to bust.

    • So so hot. I wonder who that paragraph above is referring to lol... squirtstarter 😂

    • 🤷🏾‍♂️😉😎

  • My mileage can vary but if it has been a while I'm... on a hair trigger is the way to put it.

    I might find I have been stroking the cleft between the computer mouse buttons again.

    • Stroke it zaddy 😝

    • :) Its just not as contenting. The next girl is really gonna get it :)

    • Oh i can relate

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  • oh definitely faster. Masturbation has been part of my daily routine for over ten years now, and it feels weird to go a day without touching myself. Of course there have been periods where I don’t touch myself - either to deny myself an orgasm for a week, and finally get that crazy explosion, or simply because i can’t.
    I still remember going to Cambodia on a church mission trip. We all stayed in a village for a week and this was the first and longest time I’ve gone without having an orgasm.
    The moment I got back home, I took out and toys and I literally came in under 30 seconds. Yeah it was that good.

    • Lmao

    • You need to take a break my guy, western mentality has made it seem it’s healthy to masturbate everyday, which it isn’t of course because you can’t go a day without touching your meat….

  • I think it can go either direction and I think it all depends on the girl that you're with well at least for me it does I mean does she want to come fast how many times does she want to come is she going to let me control things so I can manipulate my coming patterns so I can take her place I want to take her or am I going to get undressed and take my sock off and shoot my load LOL for me it doesn't really matter except for if I do shoot it too quick hopefully I'll have another chance to prove myself but usually I'm pretty good control and controlling myself my goal is to get past my precum and then we're on for the marathon

    • You cum in a sock?

    • No I would never do that I like to come freely LOL

  • If it has been a bit, perhaps a week or two which does happen due to travel and other physical circumstances, it takes me a bit longer unless there’s a significant amount of foreplay. We are usually not that patient if it’s been a while, which means less foreplay

    • AWww i understand

    • Don’t feel bad, it’s just one factor of our life that we have to work through :-). It’s certainly easier to deal with than many other challenges of a marriage.

  • I think you would cum faster just from the buildup of time alone.

    • Probably

  • I honestly can't really say. I've mentioned before that I practice edging, so even if it's been a while since I've had sex, I still edge when I masturbate.

    It may be a little harder to hold my nut when I start having sex again, but it's still not so difficult that I cum quickly. I just might not be able to edge quite as long, 'cause a vagina feels way better than my hand.

    • I will never understand edging when some dudes can't cum at all. y'all should be happy to cum 😂

    • Oh, believe me, I am happy, but edging makes me cum harder. 😂

    • You see the other post got removed lol

  • If i don't masturbate for more than 48h and something "sparks" my Arousal, Erotism, Desire, mainly on (vintage/italian) movies, when i 💦, even i am amazed...🤣🤣

    • 😂😂👌

  • Longest dry spell I ever had (after becoming regularly active) was a month, and the orgasm I had after that was mind shattering. I do notice if I go more than 3-4 days without it my orgasms are a bit stronger

    • You dont wanna know how long u can go

    • I actually start to get cranky if I go too long lol. It was that time going a month and I was irritable

  • It's biology. You finish faster if you're out of practice.
    Personally I tend to rub one out the morning of a date if I can, it helps me last longer and getting the girl to finish

    • The polls say not for everyone

    • As of not it's 79% for "I personally cum faster than usual after its been a while" which kinda makes my point

    • But my point was “not everyone”

  • I often take longer.
    …and I never want to stop. I’d stay up all night with you if you were feeling it. :)

    • Awww :)

  • next time I'll bring a watch with me... lol

    • You know you gotta time it. Get a stopwatch haha

  • No difference honestly. I am a little more sensitive on the underside and the head, but otherwise no change in how long it takes me to bust.

    • I see I see

  • I guess it depends on how sexual your own self is , if I go a long time without sex I start to get moody and feel depressed and then I start to feel like a virgin again because I haven’t had vagina in awhile lol Once I do start getting sex again I have to think weird shit in my head so I don’t bust a nut to fast , cuz I want her coming back for more. But if I have to resort to masturbating that is just a quick release for me, when I am single I do masturbate more just to make sure my dick is still working lol but when I am in a relationship I barely masturbate cuz I save it for her.

    • I like a dude to jerk off for me

    • I don’t have a problem doing that for her , just like I like her playing with herself for me knowing I am going to finish her off

  • It really depends. I've had both happen to me, but taking longer to cum is probably more common. In any case, I ejaculate more semen and with more force if it's been awhile..

    • Ooo i see

  • Damn that first gif though.. 😍.. But I can't say much about oral, I've only come a few times off of that, but with six I feel like it depends on how much into my mind is and how long I haven't masturbated.. Usually, I take a while to cum though.. With Masturbation, I usually cum quick..

    • Maybe you should jerk off a little before sex to speed it up haha ;-)

    • Oh no jerking off makes it last longer.. My dick is not as sensitive.. Hahaha.. Women seem to love/hate when a guy last long.. LOL..

    • I like the guy to cum quickly on the first round because it shows how badly he wanted me. But i need him to hold out longer in the other rounds

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  • I tend to cum faster when it has been a while but when I’m really worked up I tend to cum more and harder.

    • Yumm

    • I try to keep the t that way for sure! Lol!

    • Sounds like you had some yummy moments too last night.

  • That's not always predictable. But then, it only happened once that I didn't orgasm for a full week, because of the circumstances of a journey... The last day I tried to masturbate, and it was rather difficult, as if everything was gone to sleep for some time.

    Otherwise, as well solo, as with my wife when she was still alive, I can cum nearly every day rather easyly, and if one or two days went by in chastity, the orgasm afterwards is often stronger and easyly quicker, a second round being possible.

    By the way girl, thanks for your own testimony. Most interesting. I'm interested in everything in that field.

    • Haha thank you

  • If I take a break I'm usually a lot more worked up when I get back to it and can't take my time to go slow like I like to

    • You can always go slow the second session

    • Oh I definitely do after I finish the first, desperate session lol

    • 😩😂😂

  • Faster definitely

    • Same

  • Its quick... Very very quick especially if I haven't been masturbating.

    • Hawtt

  • Its faster but i take my time to build up to make my orgasms better. And how did i miss that sight lol

    • Hehe

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