Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health When can a guy assume he can cum inside a girl?
Anonymous
If girls have sex with a guy without a condom and telling him they are on birth control, can he assume to cum inside of or should a guy always ask? Some of my friends say its granted that it is okay to finish inside her.
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25 24Do not “assume” anything! Have that conversation with her. If you are mature enough to be having sex, you are mature enough to have that discussion, and both of you can decide what you both want.
Never assume. Always ask.
Never assume. Always ask or plan beforehand.
You are right, I am not sure why a guy would think its okay to just randomly do that? Has that ever happened before to you?
Nope; I haven't had intercourse yet, but I have had sexual interactions and it's always best to communicate and plan.
I would agree with that! Would you be comfortable answering some of my questions as well? I am looking for a female perspective on some things.
If she says "I'm on birth control" she's saying "... so it's ok to cum inside me."
When he can trust her.
Nope. You ALWAYS have to ask her.
by the way. have you ever heard of a thing called STDs?
I'd say only after she tells you it is okay, or you are married.
It is always polite to ask because she could be lying so you could be her baby daddy. The guy could be lying just so he can cum in a naked pussy This is one time you ask. Let the big brain think instead of the little brain
If you're telling a guy you're on birth control it's assumed that you aren't opposed to him cumming inside you, otherwise why does he need to know. If I"m having sex with a girl, I'm cumming inside regardless of whether or not she's on birth control. I know she'll be clean before we have sex and I can't get anyone pregnant, so it's not a huge issue. My girlfriend went on birth control when we decided to start having sex and then after I got my vasectomy she stopped taking it, because there was no point anymore. Fact is, cumming inside feels better, so if given the option (even unintentional) to do so, guys will always choose to cum inside.
Guy's unless you're willing to be a father and everything that entails assume NOTHING, DON'T BE AN IDIOT USE BIRTH CONTROL!
When she’s on birth control and okay with it
Why try and assume anything... just ask her.
If she doesn't tell me not to, then I go ahead and cum inside her.
No! Always ask! Or talk about it before had! Never assume!
I think it’s hotter if a woman asks for it in the heat of the moment.
when we say ok for do it without condom
You're allowed to cum in her but I would recommend to cum in her mouth
Assuming is risky. Asking before you have sex is the best plan. However, if you don’t do that and don’t know, it’s probably wise to pull out until she says otherwise.
Please ask.
With most girls you'll probably catch an STD with no condom.
As you will with most guys.
@areitan Then don't sleep around, I don't. I don't have sex with a girl unless it's a long term relationship. That's why I don't have any STDs.
I'm loving your sex shaming views and your assumption that you know anything about me. Carry on 'anonymous'. Keeping looking at the world through your gray tinted glasses.
@areitan You said "As you will with most guys" so you are saying the same things. Sure there are loving and faithful girls, they don't have STDs. The ones that sleep around do.