When did you learn that male and female genitalia are different?

[Smartman5]

When I was little I thought women had penises like men. Since I sometimes saw the women of my family naked, I saw that the genitals of the women were different. This hWhen did you learn that male and female genitalia are different? as fascinated me since I was little and I have always wondered what kind of organ the pussy is. I'm still wondering because I haven't had sex yet and haven't even seen a pussy yet. I try to make do with the pussy I see in porn. It is true that I have seen the women in my family naked, but this is not long-term, it is not enough because it is only for a few seconds, so I do not count it.

[Dargil]

I played Doctor with a gal pal in fifth and sixth grade. We were both not sexualized and got to see and touch everything. When I saw what she had I wondered how she peed without a penis. So she sat on the hopper and showed me.

[Smartman5]

what else did your do?

[Dargil]

A lot of exploring including hands.

[Smartman5]

Sex?

[Dargil]

Nope

[Mansearching]

I was about 7. The neighbor girl (same age) and I played dr. But also played that old game, "if you show me yours, ill show you mine". That's when I learned. Also who i really lost my virginity too and bj cherry too.

[BeMuse]

It’s kind of self explanatory. As a baby your going to end up in the shower with your parents daily because they have to bath you when you’re too young to bath yourself.

[Smartman5]

but they get dressed

[BeMuse]

I mean when you're like 2 or 3 years old they're just going to take you in the shower with them and teach you to bath. Most people don't have time every day to stand there and watch a kid bath poorly for like 30 to 45 minutes and then take a shower themselves while someone else watches their kid. It's easier just to drag the kid in there with you and tell them to do what they need to do while you do what you need to do and supervise them. As the kid gets older and you can trust that they're not going to eat the bar of soap or whatever, then you can leave them to bath and just check on them ever 5 or 10 minutes to make sure they didn't drown in the tub (basically if they stop making noise from playing) while you cook breakfast or something. It's pretty typical for toddlers to be naked with their parents when learning to bath. Someone has to be a role model.

[Smartman5]

what you are describing has never happened in my circle. If a man sees a woman naked in my environment, the woman is very embarrassed and closes immediately.

[BeMuse]

So you weren't breast feed?

[BeMuse]

*fed

[Smartman5]

I was breastfed as a baby. what else do you mean?

[BeMuse]

You said women cover up and are never unclothed around babies in your circle. So you've contradicted yourself... It's pretty typical for mothers to take care of their children and teach them some basics. Kids can't take care of themselves. They depend on their parents to do that for them.

[Smartman5]

yes parents take care of their children but they don't stand naked next to them. I don't know such a family

[BeMuse]

Yet somehow your mom too out her tits and put them in your face... You really had your eye on the prize on that one. Do you even listen to yourself talk or does bullshit just fly out your ass and you're eyes can't see it...

[BeMuse]

*took

[Smartman5]

OK, that's all. There's no problem with that, but the thing is, a small child doesn't understand much about it. it is more effective if he sees it mainly when he starts to enter puberty. and no parent walks around naked next to their teenage child. It may happen when the child is young, but this situation is meaningless for the child. not yet developed enough to distinguish it.

[BeMuse]

I don't know where you're getting all these teenage child fantasies of parents naked with children when I specifically stated as a baby you are bathed with/by parents when you are like 2 or 3. Obviously you will be breast fed, they will change your diapers and clean your ass, etc. That was openly stated. Beyond that infant/toddler stage you're learning to bath yourself and have a little bit of autonomy at like 4. You've been potty trained. You've been taught how to put your own clothing on. So one you get to that stage you step up and do things like that yourself and gain a little privacy. That said in some cultures like the Japanese, they do bath with parents much later into childhood.

[BeMuse]

*once

[BeMuse]

You're obviously not learning about sex as a toddler, but you do notice that you have a dick and so does your Dad. You mom doesn't have a dick and she also has boobs. Your mom and Dad use different bathrooms in public. There are bathrooms marked boys and girls with different signs. So there is a clear anatomy difference between boys and girls. Most little kids are going to pick up on those differences before they even make it to preschool.

[Trackboy]

@smartman5 When i was like 10 years old then my Mom used to show my penis to My sisters to make them understand about it that how boys are different ! Mostly when she used to give me a bath

[Smartman5]

How old are your sisters?

[Trackboy]

2 of My sisters were like 11 & 13 years old !

[Anonymous]

My mother has always been very direct and open about those sorts of things when I asked, and I, quite by accident, saw my dad's penis several times growing up... I remember having walked in on them having sex when I was 12 and they didn't notice for a bit, and just being absolutely amazed that my mom could handle my dad inside of her like that, it looked so incredibly painful and I couldn't believe he would make her do that! When they finally saw me and he pulled out in a panic it seemed like it just kept coming (pun not intended)... That's when mom had to sit me down and explain to me that it felt good.

Aftet that it wasn't too long until I started finding penises of my own to play with... But that's when I learned the details of the human male.

[Smartman5]

So you first saw a penis at the age of 12, correct? Do you like penises? how old are you now? yes, a child who sees a couple having sex thinks it is painful but realizes later that it is very enjoyable.

[Opinion Owner]

I saw flaccid penises by accident at a younger age but my first exposure to an erect one was at 12

[Smartman5]

Who did the first penises you see belong to? how did everything happen? Did you see your father's penis fuck your mother?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know, and I don't know, and yes, as i said from the look on her face and the noise she made and the size of the thing it looked awful painful.

[Smartman5]

How old are you now? do you like penises?

[Opinion Owner]

25, and they still scare me

[Smartman5]

Why? Have you ever had sex?

[Bricealan]

Dad must have had a very long penis?

[Opinion Owner]

Only with other women