Guys, when do blue balls occur?

[Anonymous]

Do you get them from being hard, or foes it have to be stimulated? For example I want to kiss my guys chest to get him hard then not touch him and leave him, mean yes I know, but would this give him blue balls?

[Anonymous]

Blue balls will NOT occur if you turn a guy on an leave him hard. If you did this every day for a few weeks and he didn't masturbate during that time as well, then he would get blue balls.
But there is a very little chance that he wouldn't masturbate to get the pressure release, so blue balls is unlikely.

[countrydude]

Only prolonged erections without ejaculation cause blue balls. But also we have to be close to ejaculation and then deflate.

[countrydude]

Thanks for mho

[TJM27]

Why do you want to give him blue balls? Anyway I don't think what you're planning on doing would be enough to give him blue balls

[Asker]

No I don't want to give them to him, I'm trying toavoid giving them, but I want to make him hard and then leave him

[TJM27]

Why would you want to make him hard and leave him? It's awkward and sad when that happens

[Asker]

I just want to have a little excitement before work, and he won't want to have sex as cumming makes him extremely tired.

[TJM27]

I would be kind of upset if my girlfriend intentionally got me hard then left me hanging but if you don't think he'll feel that way I guess it's fine

[No_Drama_]

It happens after a prolonged time of being erect without release. Hasn't happened to me since High school but it SUCKED!

[Asker]

Ok. So getting hard and then getting distracted to get ready for work wouldn't do it?

[No_Drama_]

Not unless he was hard for like 30 mins or something

[chnapo]

Well, what is blue balls?

[pavlove]

I've never gotten it. I think you'd need to give him an erection, keep the erection going for awhile, but then never satisfy it. If you give him an erection and leave, he may quickly lose it. That's why the tease has to go on for a while...

[sandytoes]

Getting turned and not cumming definitely makes my balls hurt. Also, not cumming for over 3 days.

[Asker]

Really? My guy only cums twice a week, he says that he can't even do everyday, which I would like, he says that he gets really tired. Sometimes we lay in bed for like an hour and just make out, he rubs it on me but he doesn't want to cum, so does he get blue balls from that too?

[sandytoes]

I don't know. I guess everyone is different. I would get blue balls from that! I usually jerk off every other day.

[Anonymous]

i had blueballs for 24 years before my fiancee and it was terrible punishment so dont give him blueballs

[Anonymous]

Blue Balls happens when we are highly aroused for a long time. It's two things together. First, the prostate and ejaculatory ducts become engorged with semen (pressure) Second, the thin muscles suspending the testicles become strained from pulling up on them. Ejaculation relieves the pressure but the strain fades slowly.

[Anonymous]

If a handjob/blowjob/sex is started but not completed basically

[Asker]

So stimulating him somewhere else to make him hard and not touching him wouldn't give him pain?

[Opinion Owner]

I dont think so.