When does a hug turn sexual or cross the line of just being friendly?

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  • I have one friend who walks right up and gives a full body hug and sometimes a kiss on my cheek. Another does the same, without the kiss. From knowing them, it clearly not sexual, they're just warm, friendly, out going women who are very good friends of mine. Yes, my body often touches their boobs, but it doesn't come across as them meaning anything sexual. The one's that are a little confusing, are the women friends who sometimes give a full body hug face to face, and other times a side body hug. I can't figure out why one way, then the other, and back again. No rhyme or reason for which type, except I always get a side hug if I'm at their house, nonverbally saying you realize these hugs are not sexual. These women are very good friends of mine, and I very much appreciate our relationships, and their hugs. I do have a little fear that they will think at some point that I'm not being appropriate, as it's common for them to press their boobs against my chest when hugging. They are dear friends, and I don't ever want them to think that I'm trying to be inappropriate. I've thought of holding them back a little as they hug, but I don't want them to think something has changed in our relationships. So, I just appreciate the hugs, and feel a little foolish at the times when the boobs are particularly felt with the hugs.

    • by the way I never get an erection from the hugs.

  • When there is a lot of groin contact and you can feel his boner pressing into you. Or when his hands are on your ass. If there is good groin separation and hands are just on the back, and it doesn't linger for too long, then it's just a hug.

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  • I think it depends on the type of feelings you have for the person hugging you.. I’ve been turned on by a hug before... the way he held me and how I had my head on his chest.. the longer we stood there the more intense I felt.. it was actually pretty exciting and sexual though we weren’t “doing” anything. But then there’s other people or hugs where it’s just a hug and that’s it.

    Of course if someone hugs you and they linger with it, I think they’re trying to say something or be sexual about it.. also depends on where their hands are!

  • i guess if they slide their hands up and down your back and then to your but. And you're ready to let go... but they don't.

  • when you put your hand on their lower back or super close to or on their butt.

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  • Hand placement and where he puts his face when he hugs you ( like on shoulder or into your neck )

  • Crotches pressed into each other, cheek to cheek contact. Any sexual arousal that is felt.

  • Hand placement and if one person holds after the other starts to pull away

  • When there is grinding, lip contact, hands roam in erogenous zones, etc

  • When it’s extended or hands roam.

  • When the person starts caressibg your back or the back of your neck while they're hugging you.

  • He will smell your hair. Then press his pelvis against you. Then his boner will poke through

    • what about putting his head on top of yours?

    • @ missmilliondollar Not enough for me. I do that to older aunties with soft pretty hair beacause i like how it feels. Maybe if he's hugging super tight and his head is on top. But its the super tight hug determines it

  • Think of when you hug your mum or a friend conpared to a lover or someone you've slept with. A friendly hug you lean forward with your chest, but your crotch stays back. If its more than friendly your crotch comes forward close to theirs.

  • I don't believe it can.

  • When he holds you too close for to long.

  • when the guy gets a boner/ touches the girl's butt.

  • i would say if he started squeezing ur but a lot not just like a cheeky squeeze that ur friend might try to pull to be funny

  • When it holds on for too long or too close or when either person starts dry humping the other

    • how long is too long and is too close a full body hug?

    • @MissMillionDollarMan A 20-second hug, reduces the harmful physical effects of stress, including its impact on your blood pressure and heart rate as hugging is known to lower levels of stress hormones like cortisol. Any longer and I am uncomfortable

    • 20 second hug seems extreme for someone you're not dating

  • If it lasts a bit longer than it should, or if the hands drift too far south.

  • Hold on for too long or there's an ass grab.

    • how long is too long

    • @MissMillionDollarMan 3 seconds or more.

    • Welp usually 6 or longer 🙌

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  • When you feel something in his pants poke you

  • When dude gets hard, when the girk gets wet, when It's sexually charged

  • When the he grabs your ass

  • Held for longer time then needed, hands on button pulling them closer.

    • OR if your both naked...

  • When she notices something hard in my crotch

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