When does sex stop hurting :(?

I’ve tried it twice more like 1 and a half.
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He couldn’t even go in all the way :(
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I only had sex the day that I lost my virginity
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  • Unfortunately, It takes many many many times for some. And for some doesn’t hurt at all. For those who can orgasm it hurts the least. During Orgasm and the build up to it , you rehearse all kind of endorphins that rates your pain tolerance to some huge degree but I don’t want to miss quite the %%%

    Do you think you guys can maybe alternate like do all the favorite non inter course stuff some days and try again on others. You legit prob tore some tissue so you need time to heal. It’s normal to hurt if tissue was damage and it’s not wrong to take time to recoup 💜

    • Aw jeeez you’ll get more answer soon I’m sure of it. There are exercises you can do on your own as well to stretch things with more ease and patience then is possible during actual sex. Also rubbing their clot helps the walls relax and endorphins released. And it doesn’t matter which of you do that. Personally I’d say it helps Take away 75% of pain.

    • Bit of 🍷 is nice too 😂😂

    • Yeah we wait of course. Last time we tried it was this Sunday and tomorrow I get to see him again

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  • This is a little disturbing. Like I said a couple days ago, you might be unusually tight or your hymen might be unusually thick. You should talk to your obgyn.

    • I haven’t tried again after that day

    • I just tried it that day that I lost my virginity

    • So it should be normal right?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • It is your hymen area just inside your vaginal opening which is the place where it hurts.
    Part way in is enough. Your cherry doesn't pop. Your hymen stretches.
    Some tech: When stretched beyond it's physiological limit, skin undergoes an irreversible area growth triggered by the mechanical stretch. So repeated sex stretches your hymen and the body responds by growing it to be looser. Some girls may also tear and bleed, however. The soreness will fade back to slight burning after several sessions.

  • Im by no mean an expert but some things are common knowledge.
    One it's ok for him not to go all the way in it's only once and a half you're not wide enough yet.
    As far as pain goes I don't really know if it ever completely stops hurting but just like any other activity it's always more stimulating the first time because your brain is still trying to understand it but once it's common the pain will be secondary.

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  • Find a boyfriend without a monster penis?

    Is that a viable solution?

    • Well I only had sex with him the day I lost my virginity so maybe that’s why. I wouldn’t say that he’s a monster he is 6 and a half inches and very thick he’s a good size I personally wouldn’t want a guy bigger than that

    • He's gentle or starts thrusting right away? How many times NOw? Hate to say it but as soon as you guys start to go at it more frequently I'll bet it eases pretty quickly.

    • He was gentle but it still hurt because I was a virgin. It was just that day that I lost my virginity. We tried twice but the second time he stopped

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  • It’s most likely because you’re young and you don’t regularly have sex. I would recommend you try some lube. Just remember to stay safe!

  • Have him finger you till you’re on the verge of orgasm.

    then have him try inserting.

    • ☝️ ☝️ ☝️

  • None of my business I would try using some lube and see if that helps you two out It could take quite sometime , just take your take and things will fall into place -Best Wishes :)

    • We tried lube

    • @sweetandshyxo Yeah I see

  • when u get used to it

  • Just take things slowly, sounds like your body isn't quite ready yet, which is nothing to feel bad about,,,
    Masturbation is a great way of connecting with your own body,,,

  • My sister said she had no pain the 5th time.

  • I’d see a gyno about that.

    • I thought you said you tried it twice? How many times have you had sex and it hurt? If it was multiple days, yes it’s an issue. If it was only one experience but multiple times, minutes apart, you’re prob fine.

    • When i asked this question we had oy done it that day. Today was our sefond day doing that qnd it hurt a lot at the beginning but we continued and it felt good as he went fast and hard. I bled a lkttle too but not as much as the first day

    • When i asked this question we only did it on that one day i meant

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  • Well, you may be too stressed so your vagina is not relaxed. Also your guy may be too big, that makes things more complicated, I had that problem with two high school gfs and a couple other girls.

    • He is 6 1/2 and very thick

  • You are 18 and tried it just one and half time? Strange

    • How so?

    • Because Nobody else has felt like the right guy to me

    • I feel pity for you

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  • Perhaps your hymen is still intact.

  • Eventually. You may just have to try to relax a bit more

  • slow and easy with lube. maybe get a smaller dildo and get use to that

  • When the guy does it right and takes the proper time to get you relaxed and properly aroused.