When giving a guy a BJ or handjob, at what point do you stop?

[Anonymous]

When giving a guy a BJ or handjob, at what point do you stop? Because I know guys get really sensitive after they cum, but I want to make sure I finish them.

[BearsAnswers]

You want to speed up as they are getting close to cumming, but then slow down as they actually cum, basically in rhythm to the squirts. Keep some pressure on it after he finishes, but don't really 'stroke' too much at that point, just slowly for 30 seconds or so. This is for the shaft of the penis anyways, which can handle it. The tip can be way more sensitive, and you want to leave that pretty much alone completely once he starts cumming. Stroke the shaft as he is actually cumming, don't play with the tip.

[broadsword]

This differs from guy to guy. Usually about 5 seconds after his last pump of cum. Don't let go or take your mouth away wait for a bout a minute stay still be cause from both a BJ and HJ you are simulating your pussy and we like to just stay in for a bit. The other thing we all love is to be squeezed and tugged gentley making out you want ever drop out of us.

[Anonymous]

Always make sure they cum make sure they know u love to have their penis in your mouth do not just get up and abruptly finish swallow and look u at him and lick your lips as if his cum and penis is the best thing u have ever tasted

[MrOracle]

You stop (or at least, slow way down and be more gentle) after he's COMPLETELY finished ejaculating, but NOT immediately after the first shot, because THAT is a HUGE no-no - it's super-frustrating and often even painful if he doesn't get a full ejaculation, and for that, you need to keep going until he's done, plus maybe 5-10 extra seconds.

[XRabbitHeartX]

Till they finish... then I back away... :P

[KimmyB]

Like, a few seconds after he finishes? :o)

[kheserthorpe]

Basically when no more is coming out.

[summiter]

As soon as his orgasm subsides it is time to stop.

[stevie123]

Every guy is different, like girls are.
I like it when she keeps going, even a minute after I stop cumming.
I have had some girls keep sucking for a minute or two after, looking for every drop.
One girl would keep sucking until I gave her a second mouthful. That was fun.
At least 10 seconds for me,20 or 30 seconds would be best.
Keep on until I go soft, if I do.

[normalice]

depends on the guy. some want you to hold it in for maybe 30 seconds or so after they are done - once their 'face of concentration' clears up. Others, like myself, would prefer she continue to suck it for seconds, thirds, and so on until she is too tired to continue.

[TadCurious]

At least for me, if you keep going until I start getting soft you're doing fine, and I'm not too sensitive yet until I'm soft. But good for you for knowing that you want to keep going all the way through the orgasm.

[DaisiesGalaxy]

carry on like 30sec after he has finished

[Ihav2fart]

As Michael Jackson once sang: "Don't Stop 'Til You Get Enough"

[carnix]

after the cum.

it hurts if you keep going.

[jmmmfi]

as soon as he's done cumming stop

[momome]

Hahaha i know it hurt after cuming not for every man

[dakingfisher]

After we shoot our load and the penis softens again then it is time to stop

[Anonymous]

Apparently I am really weird, but after I cum I am usually up for a second go at it, depending how long round 1 took obviously.

[Anonymous]

Don't stop until he is begging you to stop, when he is coming look in his eyes too, guys love that.

[Anonymous]

For a BJ, stop all mouth and hand motion when ejaculation starts and resume only hand stroking when the squirts weaken and slow down. For a HJ, keep stroking only the shaft, not touching the cap, when ejaculation starts.

[Anonymous]

you will know because he will tell you

[Anonymous]

It never ends :O