When going out first time do most guys want sex?

I went out last couple times with a guy for first time he wanted sex. One guy was expecting it and other guy asked if I would give him head. I even had one guy first time we had sex just cum in me like it was nothing.

When going out first time do most guys want sex?
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Superb Opinion

  • All guys wired normally and naturally are going to have the biological urge and someone such as myself will want it even more if I connect on emotional level with a woman. That said however there is the question of should I? I believe we have the capacity to control our desires. For me, it’s paramount to respect the girl I’m out on a date with. Let her know she is safe with me from both all other guys in the world including myself. That I’d give my life to protect her from harm or anything inappropriate. To have her know that she doesn’t owe me anything sexually or otherwise. When a track record of trust, love, and two-way respect is developed over time, and when the time is right, then we give ourselves based on love, consent, and commitment.

Most Helpful Guy

  • We guys have a bit of a dilemma.
    If we go out with you (especially if the guy is the one that initiated contact) it sure as hell means he is already attracted to you.
    Ofcourse while preparing you'll put on your best dress, makeup, perfume and looks.
    That makes you even more attractive.
    Then you guys spend the night together so that the guy can continue looking at you and drool all over you in his mind.

    What do you think he's going to want at the end of the night? :-)

    Just take it as a compliment.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I think all men want sex when they take a girl out. The difference is the decent ones hold off until it’s appropriate in the relationship. The users go for it right away because it’s all they want.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Most men want sex when we can get it. Not all of us expect it on a first, second or third date. I have dated a woman for six months before having sex and I was patient waiting for her to be ready for it, but I don't think she ever felt pressured. And I have had a few one night stands when I was younger. But I never asked for sex on a first date. If I sensed that she was not receptive to that, I settled for a good night kiss.

  • It is nice but before I was married I never expected it or demanded it. Sometimes it takes a few times going out until a comfort level is there. In high school and college sometimes I got handjob the first date and that was always fun but I never asked for it or demanded it.

  • EVERYONE is different...

    God created Our Universe with Love and Free Will. Use your Free Will to Love!

  • It's not something I'd expect. If I were after relationship I wouldn't care if it didn't happen for a few dates. I think after a while I'd question why things weren't progressing, but would be after more than 5 dates say.

  • I don't. I like to give the connection time to develop and feel things out.

  • I've never done that. But did have a girl (first date) ask me at closing time, "Your place or mine?" It ended up a o-n-s. But she initiated the sex not me.

  • A lot of guys do, unfortunately think that way.

    I'm not one of them. A hug and maybe a kiss after a first date is pretty normal but nothing past that.

    I will say that I have gone all the way on a first date but that was a special circumstance. We'd met online so when we finally met up months later the tension was unbearable and we just went at it.

  • If the date goes well, I normally get some oral sex

  • I would want to wait until we've declared exclusivity than to expect it on the first date.

  • They are there just for sex nothing else

    • I think so I don't know

  • All depends on how you both feel…
    Hope that helps

  • Ok, you clearly have self-worth issues. If I really like a woman, or a milf or a girl I wanna have and I will have sex with her on the first date.

    • I don't know I like that they like me but why so fast?

  • Yes.

  • Not where I come from

  • Yes first date