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When a guy is cumming during a bj, what do I do?

what is the sexiest thing I could be doing? let him come on me? in my mouth? I've never had come in my mouth, so one time when he said he was cumming I just gave a super fast hand job until he finished... but do guys want it super fast WHILE they're cumming? i was thinking maybe if I get comfortable having it in my mouth, I would have the tip in my mouth and suck and lick really hard, and be giving a hj to the rest of the length while he's cumming... would that feel good though? guys what are some things you want done to you before/ while you're cumming..? what are some things (besides teeth and other obvious things) you don't like, but girls seem to think is good?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Unless he tells me what he likes or prefers, I mix it up each time and try to watch his facial features, body language, and force of orgasm to try to figure out which ones make him orgasm stronger, longer, or with more or less response. I might slow down a little as he's cumming and bob my head in time with the cum spurts, then the next time I might take my mouth away and jerk him off with my hand until he cums, and then I almost always take the most convenient option into account first, as well. If I'm on my knees and he's standing up, I like to jerk him off onto my tits. If he's on his back and I'm on all fours on the bed/floor or whatever over him, then I like to let him cum in my mouth, but instead of swallowing I let it ooze and drip back down the length of his penis and use the slimy, sticky cum as a really great lubricant as I jerk his cock with my hand, and if I'm on my back and he's on his knees straddling my chest or abdomen, then I like to blow him without using my hands and when he's about to cum, simply stopping everything all together and letting him jerk himself off onto my face or chest, and no this doesn't usually "ruin" his orgasm if I stop sucking because if you sort of start slowing down as he's about to cum, I've yet to blow a guy that doesn't instinctively grab his dick and start jerking... So I usually take my mouth off a few seconds in advance and say something like, "Face or tits?", and then when they pick I stop and say something provocative and empowering like, "That's my favorite, too... Let's see what kind of aim you got big boy..." and then keep sucking until they pull out of my mouth and jerk themselves to orgasm wherever they please.
    I find, more often than not, that doing these sorts of things spontaneously is better than just doing the same thing over and over, even if it's his "preferred" way to cum. If you always finish him in your mouth and swallow then he knows what's about to happen and knows what to expect, but if you suddenly pull his dick out of your mouth while he's laying on his back in bed and you jump on it and ride it like a crazy woman, he's going to cum so hard he's going to forget that he ever preferred cumming any other way. It's also helpful to just ask him before you start getting too far into it something like, "I bet you can't cum on a new spot on my body every day this month... Bet? Where do you want to cum today then, hot shot?" I also like using this blowjob game: "I bet you can't last 10 minutes in my mouth without cumming. If you cum in under 10 minutes, then I'm going to stop blowing as soon as you start cumming, but if you can last longer than 10 minutes, then you get to pick how and where you want to cum. Bet? By the way, I'm gonna tie your wrists together behind your back for the first 10 minutes, so you better hope you don't ruin your own orgasm by cumming too soon!" Then you can always apply the same thing in reverse where you let him pick a 10 minute mouth challenge where he has 10 minutes to make you cum, and if you go longer than 10 minutes without cumming then you get to pick how he has to make you cum, or if you prefer, you get to pick how he cums the next time you jerk him off or blow him instead of giving him the authority of choice. For some reason guys really like having these empowering challenges, bets, and "proofs" of their sexual prowess and versatility, and they especially seem to like having the power of choice, so if you just say something as simple as, "Mouth or tits?", about 112% of guys will immediately know what you mean and automatically do whichever one they're feeling that day.

  • Just so you know come doesn't really taste that bad :) I do that to keep my man happy and gag/try to take it al in because I don't have a gag reflex so just swallow it its really not that bad and they seem to love it

  • Don't stop stroking and the sexiest thing you could do is get your mouth over the head of his penis and suck all that man juice right in and down the throat.

Most Helpful Guys

  • For me, what I like best is to come while deep in her mouth. I love it if she keeps sucking while I come and after I cum. I love to feel her swallow while her mouth is still around my cock. Right after cumming I am very sensitive so it is good if she slows down right after I cum, but definitely keep going.

    It is also great if a girl is also gently massaging my balls with her hand while she is sucking, and while I cum.

    With you hands try to milk all the come out of him, all the way from his balls, as you keep sucking after he cums.

    Sometimes look up at him with soft loving eyes as you suck.

    Ask him what he likes. Encourage him not to be shy, you want to give him pleasure. If he is inexperienced he may not know. Experiment.

    There is a great little book from Amazon called How to Tickle His Pickle, with lots ideas for great BJs and HJs.

  • If he already started cumming, the sexiest as most people are saying is to keep your mouth on his cock and caress him all over. No need to keep on sucking hard or moving your hand. Just keep your mouth on it and touch him sensually all over.
    What we don't like... well personally there's not much besides the obvious. The only times I didn't enjoy a blowjob was when I felt the girl didn't enjoy it, that's a major turn off. Vice versa some girls think that men do not enjoy giving them pleasure with their tongue, so they cannot enjoy it either.

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  • I love to come in her mouth - I love to see playing with my come and then taking it down her belly. At the same time I love her to stroke me hard while the tip in her mouth. I also love to squeeze her breast hard when I am reaching to the final destination.

    be comfortable with bj and take it in your mouth. Boys love that.

  • Swallow and keep sucking for a minute or so after.

    • I don't know about minute. I'd say about 15 seconds

  • You could lick the tip while you stroke him off..

  • Guys love it when you swallow the cum

    • Do you always swallow

    • Not always

    • You like it when lads swallow your cum

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  • look in the people eyes or after i cum lick off what left over on my dick

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