When guy likes a girl does he only fantasise sexually about her?

[Anonymous]

Without emotions, just sexual like in porn?

[Anonymous]

The opposite for me. I like to think of all the lovely dovey things like going out on dates or cuddling up and watching movies or something. Just kinda thinking about what our time together would be like.

[Asker]

Do you like to look at her often?

[Opinion Owner]

Mainly just passing glances so I don't get caught looking 😅 but yeah I do.

[Asker]

Is it to remember her face for fantasising or is there any feeling behind it?

[Opinion Owner]

No, I'm pretty good with remember faces so it's definitely not to remember it for fantasizing. But there's definitely feeling behind it. I kinda like to think of it like looking at a beautiful piece of art. Sure you've seen the art and can remember what it looks like but there's just something special about seeing it in person ya know

[Asker]

Wow sounds too good to be true :D I do believe though. I thought guys stare at girls always to remember what she looks like, especially if she’s hot, so they can j... off to her mind images later. Glad you’re not that type 😊

[Opinion Owner]

Hey not all guys are degenerates 😂

[Cellestial]

I fantasize about her emotionally and sexually

[Asker]

Any specific examples?

[Cellestial]

I have too many fantasies but here's one that mixes both emotional and sexual thoughts. I start by thinking of her being my wife. She's being busy at the kitchen, so I come from behind and hug her tight, I tell her how much I love her and how much she means to me. Then I proceed to kiss her ears, neck and back and slide my hands under her clothes and run them all over her body. And finally pull her panties down to her knees, push her to the counter and pound her till I fill her pussy with my cum. Again that's one example of many, there are some vanillas and there also darker and naughtier ones, it depends on my mood.

[Asker]

Wow that escalated quickly LOL

[Cellestial]

uhmm.. yeah xD

[ManOnFire]

A guy who's only caring about her body or what her mouth can do will always only fantasize about her sexually. But those of us in a serious relationship, or who seriously like a girl, think deeper. We fantasize about places we would like to take her or things we might want to do together. Just today I texted my girl and told her I wished we were back in the Midwest (where we vacationed this summer) snuggling up and watching movies. That's what was on my mind and I wanted to share it with her.

Not all of our thoughts or texts about our girls - or ones a guy likes but isn't actually dating - are sex-based or dirty messages. We do think about her in plenty of non-sexual ways.

[bowenw]

Usually about a situation that involves emotion and sexuality, similar to how a real date with her may progress.

[Giggltr0nn]

Hahaha... nope!

[AmeerX]

I like the emotions and don't feel lust at all. And it feels so great when sexual pleasure is out of the equation

[Valnac]

I simply smile at her, if she smiles back, it’s done!

[Anonymous]

Not only her, no. There are times, sure, but fantasy is seldom so limited. Would defeat the purpose of fantasizing.

[Asker]

Oh I meant if you like a girl. Do you fantasize about her in a sexual way only without emotional or romantic stuff?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, I see. Sometimes, sure, but not always.

[Anonymous]

yeah I fantasize about her sexually

[Asker]

Only sexually?

[Opinion Owner]

No both

[Opinion Owner]

And I've been doing it for a long time

[Asker]

Could you elaborate? What do you imagine specifically maybe?

[Opinion Owner]

Gulf of time she tells me things about her sex life and then I imagine it in my head and masturbated

[Opinion Owner]

I guess I just like thinking about her getting fucked

[Asker]

How about the non sexual stuff?