When he pays random girls for nudes and videos when he has a busy sex life with you?

Me and my boyfriend have a sex life. I put on outfits , I do whatever position he wants, I know how to ride. Why does he continue to seek out randoms girls on raunchy websites and pay for nudes and videos to masturbate to? Is he bored with me? Why does he still stick around?
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  • The question is:

    Why do YOU still stick around? What motivates you to stay with a person that cheats on you? Why do you even accept and tolerate his behavior rather than to have given him the boot?

    What he does is indeed cheating. He is emotionally cheating on you and that is the very first step towards a full fledged physical cheating. It is just a matter of time until it happens.

    You owe it to yourself to kick this guy out of your life because you deserve someone that accepts you the way you are.

    However, I feel that it will not happen because of convenience. The longer you stay, the more you will hurt yourself emotionally.

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  • He wants more. I think you should want more and get out of this relationship as you cannot satisfy him. That's a pretty low blow but this will only cause anger and frustration and you won't be able to live up to his expectations.

Most Helpful Guys

  • He sounds like a real sad sack, yes I completely understand still masturbating even when you have a sex life and a partner as it's different from sex, it's a personal thing you do for yourself. But paying for porn with or without a partner is just sad.

  • Unfortunately I would suggest you leave him. If he is paying for pics and videos and you know about it, what is he doing that you don’t know about?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Some men just don't appreciate what they got

    • True. They run around and pretend they do. Thank you

    • Yep I see he even has a family, that's messed up

    • If your going by my profile picture, those are my kids, not his. He hasn't fathered any kids.

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  • He is a sex addict

  • Have you asked him why?

  • He's got addiction issues.

  • Because he's a piece of shit and you're not as crazy as other women. Believe me, If he were to just be trusting and upstanding to you, all respect would be lost.

  • he's got issues. Who pays for porn in the first place anyways? Girlfriend or not? Thats pretty fucked up in and of itself.

  • You should dump this guy

  • He just has a very high libido and sexual appetite. Suggest role playing with him that he calls one of those girls, but the girl is you and you show up being and doing anything and everything he wants

  • He pays just for nudes? I thought porn is only for when your girlfriend doesn't feel like sex at the time?

  • How frequent is your sex? Maybe it's not as often as he would like it to be? But only he can answer that. Worth talking to him about.

    • Thank you

  • same girl everyday for months/years. yea that'll never get old.