When I ride him sometimes it hurt 🤕 why?

We have wonderful foreplay and I wiggle and grind on him before but sometimes it goes inside and just hurts!

We love it but I miss it!

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What if he says that he does not feel it hiring my cervix? I'm all so soft inside?
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  • That position, especially if you're completely vertical is going to make it real easy for him to hit your cervix dead center instead of glancing off of it. Several trips to the OBGYN later that's what my ex found out, so maybe this'll save you some appointments. Especially if there's soreness afterwards like an internal bruising. If it's a sharp pain, that could be a ruptured cyst. Get that looked at. There isn't going to necessarily be blood.

    • Thanks But ruptured yay! Sounds so worrying! Like would that hurt other times too? Maybe so how can I change my cervix position?

    • Would it feel different then bruising? Or my being sore?

    • It's hard to say in text how to change your cervix position other than "lean one way or the other"... maybe look at an anatomy cutaway, get an idea for where it is (everybody is shifted a little from center symmetry but you'll get the idea). Then when you're on him you can rotate and swivel your hips, try to figure out which way YOURS is angled/shifted, see if one way is better/worse than the others. With my ex it would hurt anytime i went all the way in or nearly all the way in, but she called it a good hurt. Doggy is another position where it can really get that going on, but if it's angled doggy because you dropped your back then seems to be less so, which makes sense when you think about it. She described the next few days as having a bruise that someone is lightly putting pressure on.

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  • Well if it's only happening sometimes you might want to take the keys out of his pockets first maybe even make sure you pull off his pants there has to be a simple explanation if it only happens when you're grinding probably gotten too much of a hurry

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  • I think you need to bend forward a little more until it reaches the position where you feel comfortable. You can usually tell when you just enter lol. If it feels like “sharp” even before you ride, means that’s not the right angle.

    • Thanks and thanks for sharing more on it! Others have said the same thing so in a few days we will try it out

    • @desidoll experienced teacher! Nice!

  • It’s either his dick is too big and he’s hitting your cervix or your riding him too straight and you need to lay down on him lower.

    • Really could it be I'm just to straight?

    • Yes, because the straighter you are, the lower down your cervix and uterus are and if he’s got a massive dick then he’s gonna hit them with every thrust. Either lay down lower when you’re riding him or try different positions.

    • Thanks that really helps! We love this position but it just hurts when I try

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  • Use lube.

    • We do

  • lay down on him more

    • Thanks for the actual good suggestion! Could being to straight hurt? Something to try

    • yes that will help 😘

  • Try using a lot of lube every time it really helps and it feels great.

  • Probably hitting your cervix. Try bending forward while riding to offset it a little

    • Thank you apple that will help and I can't wait to try again!

  • He need to licks you more longer till you wet and it will not pain.

    • But I did not want more licks I wanted him

    • He need to make it little bit wet so it does not pain you after that he can fuck you nonon-stop

    • Even with lube

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  • Is he big? You might be hitting your cervix.

    • He is that is why I married him

    • how big?

  • You may need more foreplay to be ready for him. I suggest speaking to you doctor to be sure there are no physical issues.

  • You just like it rough! Who can blame you? 🙂

  • Go to your ob-gyn and let the doctor see what’s going on with your vagina 👍🙂

  • Does his cock have a normal shape? I've heard if it's too big or curved like a banana that bthat can cause some pain.

    • Gross 🤢 no normal

    • Sounds like you're having a lot of fun at least! Like when he goes inside that's when it hurts? Maybe the pain would be fun, too. Not always a bad thing 🔥

    • Single and red flag right there

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  • Use coconut oil if you have painful/ difficult sex.
    It’s natural, better than any lube and very safe to use.

    It makes you very slippery down there so there might be decreased please. But it won't be painful or difficult. Once u know that it isn’t painful then I’m sure you’ll naturally become wet and feel confident that it won't be painful. Vagina is an intelligent organ, if its scared of then pain then it will make sure nothing enters it lol

  • Does it feel like you're all dead inside?

  • does he have a big dick?

    • Yes and thick My sister said my cervix or my uterus are being hit.

    • ya h thats why it hurts y'all gonna have to find a new position

    • But before we could why did it change? So I need more time being teased or something?

  • Yet another prostitute or whore advertising sex as work. Go cannibalise in India where that's from.

    • Ty free report as hate

    • Lol your lvl 1 going to get kicked probably the 3rd time

  • I don't know.. did u get wet enough?

    • I think so and we use lube

    • do u finger urself with long nails?

    • Why should I not? They are not really long?

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  • your angle, position and speed not blending well. learn it more.

  • Wetter is better. Try putting some almond oil on him and then go to town!

  • You mentioned you married him bc he has a big dick, isn't that the reason why it hurts?

    • Maybe but he said he did not feel my cervix! I don't know if it is

  • Did either of you lose or gain a lot of weight recently? If he had lost a lot of weight it could be that his manhood is now slightly longer, harder and might also be more curved. Otherwise it could be that the angle of penetration has changed and it isn’t a comfortable one for her. I had this issue with my longer term friends with benefits, she gained some weight and I lost 80lbs. It began to hurt her when she was the one on top or in missionary.

    • Did you two ever figure it out? What if he does not feel like he is hitting my cervix?

    • If he's not long enough to hit your cervix then he's not hitting it. It's hard to miss that feeling of your cock hitting a wall, even if it is a soft-ish wall. Not like it's the same as hitting your g-spot and rubbing your inside your vagina. If you don't know what that feels like, at least he should. If neither of you think that's happening then it's probably not happening. You could be allergic to his semen. Are you using a condom?

    • @BoopBoopBeep No so not allergic or I'd be dead lol

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  • Maybe the dick is too long