When I say I’ll never give a guy a blowjob, why do people doubt me?

[insecureperson]

All my life I’ve been friends with some really nice people, but they’ve always been more experienced when it comes to sex. My friends would talk about how they gave their boyfriends a blowjob for the first time and they said it wasn’t that bad. Then when they talk to me about it I always say if I do get a boyfriend and we’re together long enough I’d still never give him a blowjob. But when I say that, they always say I’ll slip up and end up doing it anyway. Why would they say that? They know how I feel about that kind of stuff yet they always think I’m that type of person.

We even play those games where you’d say which person would be more likely to do this or that. And when my friends say most likely to become a stripper they always point to me. Do I give off a slut vibe or something?

[Emmy_98]

To be honest, I felt this way for a while too. If I ever thought about putting a dick in my mouth I cringed and when I would watch porn I hated seeing blowjobs. It didn’t interest me at all and I just thought t seemed gross. However, I started seeing this guy and I guess we began discussing sex. He told me how badly he wanted to pleasure me. It made me rethink a bit of what I thought. It made me want to be able to pleasure him too, just the thought of being able to pleasure him turned me on. And I was skeptical the first time I gave him a bj but it turned out okay and like your friends have said, it’s not that bad. Now I actually enjoy it, i enjoy hearing his breathing and his moans and it’s just really a turn on for both of us.

[jason222]

@Emmy_98 how old were u? glad it worked out

[Emmy_98]

@jason222 I was/am 21

[jason222]

@Emmy_98 oh so it just happened?

[Emmy_98]

@jason222 Haha yes, recently, like last month.

[jason222]

@Emmy_98 lol nice! have u sucked him just once or have u done it a few times now? was it also his first time recieving a blowjob?

[Just_a_human]

Some people just believe that everyone will have certain sexual experiences, they tend to think that it's inevitable for everyone, which of course isn't true. It's a mindset that they have.

[Twalli]

If she said no anal I could believe it, but not even licking a dick, honestly?

[Just_a_human]

@Twalli I believe it

[Twalli]

I believe that she hasn't yet and doesn't plan to, but I don't believe she never will

[Just_a_human]

@Twalli she may or may not, but it's possible that she never will

[Anjali090]

I don’t do it either and it’s because they want to push their nasty habits on you so they can feel better about themselves. Just ignore it. Oral sex is nasty!

[Twalli]

Have you ever done it?

[Apple1996]

Do you really think your gonna go your whole life, date, get married and never suck dick? Its gonna happen eventually. Especially if you really love him

[Twalli]

If you have never had sexual relations with a guy then you don't realize why so many girls do it. I think it's scary to contrmplate, but not that much of a problem once you do it. Most couples are willing to try something they may dislike at least once, so when it comes don't be blindsided

[Grobmate]

You are 15. While it is alarming to read this from a girl your age, I would find better and classier friends to associate with. Sex is serious, and not something to be lightly tossed around in a silly attempt to increase social status.

[pawwwc]

Because you will never mske a guy happy or expirence how amazing it is to please a guy with your mouth and have him reward yku

[Dchrls78104]

I think that you sound wiser than many on here. Oral sex is an unnatural practice and unnecessary.

[Anonymous]

ur definitely gonna suck on some cock lol. just make sure his penis is clean