whenever you decide to and have the ability to.
virginity only means something when you are a virgin. when you lose it you realise it means very little. at least to guys.
to girls its all about having a gentle lover to make that hymen busting a bit less traumatic. so try and do it with someone nice when you are ready for it.
oh and usual legal disclaimer stating you should do it only when it is legal to do som
Legal? College i would be at least 18
dunno. your profile says under 18, and i don't know the laws wherever you are ;)
Why plan it? Seriously. Virginity is not sacred, and you don't have to be coy about sex, but why make doing it a life goal?
I always thought I would never date, kiss or have sex, until I turned 18 met a lovely girl and had 1,5 wonderful years together. It'll come, and if you try, it can even be worthwhile.
I don’t plan I just have certain I guess you could say rules I mean I am still and have been in relationships and I have had my first kiss and all It’s just sex it’s different For two reasons I don’t feel like I’m responsible enough or at all ready under 18 That’s why I wanna wait a little
Good thing you're thinking about it! As long as both your heart and head are on the same page whenever you decide sex is what you want, you're good :-)
thanks and for the records I’m leaning towards relationship
I can't recommend loosing it before 18 I lost mine at 13 and it was horrible, I was afraid of sex for about a year and a half before I even considered trying it again. And to be honest I still wish I waited.
Just make sure it's someone who you can trust and cares for you. Ideally someone who's inexperienced himself so there's no worries whether you were good enough being inexperienced. You can learn together.
I think you should give it to 'the one' I mean virgin are so rare now a days, if i were you i would give it as a gift to the man that could take me to the altar 😚
First off no offense but it’s a little fairytale ish And I used to believe it But actually the virginity isn’t that special or meaningful And it isn’t the most precious gift a woman possess That’s just stuff from different religions About not having sex before marriage And so men could make sure women didn’t have diseases or get pregnant with someone else’s baby That’s it’s And personally I want to be free a little while before I settle down Plus I could never sleep with just one man in my entire life Especially if sex is as great as it sounds
The virginity and stuff about waiting to marriage is another reference to the olden days When women were there to have kids and serve the husbands needs And you know what needs I’m talking about It represents how women slaved to their husbands
I totally agree with ynnah
Everyone's different so whether it's casual sex or a relationship is all up to you. Do what you want whenever it feels right.
When you find the right person you'll know it's time, and wouldn't need to question it
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!If you a girl actually sex is not that pleasurable for girls unless you get orgasm miracle. I hope you keep it for the real one. Not some dickhead fuckboys. Till then u can just cuddle hehe
Make sure you really care about a person. Make it special, i haven't even had my first kiss yet. Make it worth something.
You haven’t had your first kiss Had mine at thirteen
Nope, i never really had someone that i liked enough to give it to.
It’s not like it’s a lip virginity or anything
After You Get Married, Best Time Ever👍
Why is that
Whatever you are comfortable with.
If you want to be in a relationship, do it that way. If you find a guy you are interested in, go the causal route
Lost it at college to someone who at the time meant a lot to me. I had a great experience and don’t regret it in the slightest.
Exactly what I want
Relationship because you might regret in future If you choose casual sex
The best time to loose your virginity is when you're ready
Obviously I should have said what’s the best way My bad
I think the way depends on whatever the person wants
Wathever that feels best I'd say. It isn't such a big deal. But of you want to be on the safe side you'd choose to do it in a relationship. It's where you often have the nicest sex. But it barely matters how you do it.
It depens on what kind of sex life you want in your twneties
Steamy hot hook ups, see whats out there
Or
Romantic Relationships, few guys as possiblw
One night stand for former and in a relationship in the latter
When you're in a mature relationship with someone who cares about you and who you care about.
I think it's best to wait until you're at least 18
Lose it when you're emotionally and mentally ready. Don't pressure yourself.
Relationship is the top voted right now, but, let's face it, you'll probably have an awkward one night stand.
Losing virginity now a life goal smh
After marriage its better and safe
Relationship?
I was in a relationship.
Then whem u feel ready for it 1time is alwasy not good i think 😂
I wouldn't recommend losing ur virginity with a one night stand. Rather with someone u love and he loves and respects u for who u are. Remember once youve lost it. Its gone forever... so make it count. First time is something you will always remember so wouldn't you want it to be special?
I will say when its acceptable from both sides either in relationship or not
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