When is the right time to tell a guy about saggy breasts?

I’ve been with this guy for a few months and we haven’t slept together however a few months before I met him I needed to get a tumor removed from my breasts and even though they’re not scarred at all anymore they are now saggy and one is noticeably bigger than the other.
We aren’t considering sleeping together just yet but he has also made a couple of comments about what kind of bodies he likes lately. So when do I need to tell him? Should I have before it was a relationship? Do I wait until we are ready to take things to the bedroom?

Guys would this be an issue to you if a girl was hot but then had this issue when she took her clothes off?
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  • before I say my opinion I have to say it shouldn't matter to him if he actually loves you but if he said it between your conversation tell him as soon as you can when you are in a great romantic moment like when you're watching a movie or walking in a park, and I don't mean saying "I have saggy boobs" in the middle of another conversation, talk about your how you like sex how you like him and then tell him you have saggy breasts

    although if you love him and you, yourself don't like what you have you can make it better with some exercises, follow these sites, and put them in your schedule:
    www.health.com/beauty/how-to-lift-saggy-breasts
    postpartumtrainer.com/.../
    beauty.onehowto.com/.../...mer-naturally-6154.html

    I hope these help you

    • Thank you so much 😊 I’ll have a look at these exercises

    • You're welcome, hope you and your partner have a great relationship together Good luck

Most Helpful Guy

  • Well it wouldn't be appropriate to start talking about your breasts unless you were at least in the beginnings of a relationship. But if you have been dating for a while and really like each other, you could say you need to tell him something and then explain that you had surgery on your breasts to remove tumors. They aren't scarred but they are kind of saggy and one is bigger than the other. See how he reacts. If he likes you for who you are, he will empathize, wrap you in his arms, and say it doesn't matter. All you can do is take a chance. You have to face it eventually.
    If I really liked a woman, I wouldn't care. There's more to her than her breasts.
    On a side note, have you considered reconstruction?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Not an issue, an ex had burn marks on her boob and stomach.

    all guys should be accepting, if he is not, then pointless wasting time on him.

    gravity will win out with pretty much all boobs.

    it’s worth discussing it before any undressing, explain about the operation and gauge his reaction.

    the main thing is your health is okay,

  • Never. You don't have to disclose self-diagnosed flaws in your appearance. They've seen you and that's all the disclosure that is required.

  • Say nothing. Let him explore and decide.

  • Don’t stress. If he truly likes you it won’t make a difference. If he isn’t concerned about your health and your feelings he isn’t the guy for you.

  • My girlfriend’s breasts are saggy but they don’t bother me. I never had any issue with her taking her clothes off. I wish she loved my butt too.

  • I wouldn’t worry about it

  • Wouldn’t bother me because I’m not really a boob guy.

  • Not at all they are natural and that’s hot.
    Be proud of them.

  • What is visible from out side cannot be always same from inside. You have a unique situation and I wish you get some good answers here. I have similar problem which is about female body and particular body part whuch is not breast. I will ask that question some other day here on gag. I am not sure if and when to tell. It may look good from out side. How bad you think it is? I don't think it can be that bad. And I am not the one who have to deal with it so.

  • He might feel upset that that happened to you. This is not something that would ever hurt a good relationship. Just tell him and be who you are. If he's that shallow of a person, you're with a horrible guy.

  • He will see it

  • Don't tell it just show it up