I have seen that a lot, it’s very one sided.
A guy who has a foot fetish wants to suck on them and get footjobs. A girl who has a foot fetish wants her feet sucked and give footjobs.
it’s never the other way around.
What makes you so sure it's never the other way around? Women tend to be much less open (publicly, at least) about their sexual kinks, and given how so many people react to hearing about rape fantasies, that's not surprising- how, then, would they react to a woman who gets off on using her feet, given how they react to a man who gets off on a woman using them?
Most sexual kinks are, at least in the way they're commonly talked about, about the woman (or some part of her) being the object of desire, and the man being the one who does the desiring (this is part of why you rarely hear about DESIRES, rather than ACTIONS, in popular depictions of homosexual couples- once you notice that, you can't unsee it)- natural enough, but it belies the fact of women having sexual desires beyond wanting to be wanted, and men having sexual desires that ARE wanting to be wanted. While that may indeed be the majority of what happens, it's by necessity an incomplete picture; sure, you want to have sex with her, but you want her to WANT to have sex with you- you may not see it as a *requirement*, but it's definitely a plus. Every other man feels the same way.
The core of your question, of course, is WHY it's depicted this way. And the answer is... I don't know. Lots of theories, no real evidence for any of them. But it's something to bear in mind if you're ever in charge of a TV show or a video game or what have you.
Aren’t most girls super into guys’ hands and forearms? Wouldn’t that be an object of desire for girls?
Sure. And many of them DO desire said parts, and others as well. What I was trying to say is that foot fetishes aren't unique in this regard. Women are rarely *portrayed* as being specifically sexual desirous of men, but that doesn't mean that they *aren't*. It's just not shown. The kind of fascination you see from men in media (and doubtless feel yourself, if you're into women- and probably even if you're not) may be more common among men, but it's not unique to us. For reasons I don't really understand, culture- pretty much all of them, really- are very reluctant to show women as being sexually assertive. It's fine if she wants him to want HER, but she's not allowed to be seen wanting him in the same way.
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Foot fetishism seems a little strange to me image to say
I don't know any girls who want that. I will do it to make a guy happy but I could go my whole life without it.
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