I have to have a strong bond and really love the person before I get intimate with them. Otherwise it would feel dry and hollow.
Connection of course. My girlfriend and i now have a stronger connection than we did when we started having sex.
Back in the day, an old best friend (a girl) we had a physical attraction. When she and i did have sex, it was a hot pig sex type. But the very first time, lotus position, I don't know how long we lasted or how it took for us to cum together. But I tell you we were soaked in sweat, slobber, and my pubes were wetter than being in a shower. She got so wet only thing keeping me inside was her weight. First girl who felt my cum hit her cervix. Talk about a physical attraction.
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Strong bond/love has to happen first.
I don't need that bond to see her naked or find her attractive (I actually need that and a mental connection first to even fall for her), but I need it to feel safe doing anything physical, even just kissing.0 0 0 0
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I don't need to have a strong bond per se, but I cannot have sex with no strings either.
I do need to have feelings involved and feel that he has too, that we're exclusive, and that genuine respect is there. I need to trust them and them me.0 0 0 0
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1 14I want a strong emotional connection and bond. I want there to be commitment. I want an obsession like level of love toward each other. That makes the sex out of this world amazing because it solidifies and consummates that love and adoration
1 0 0 0For me strong bond is needed i can't sleep wid anyone
1 0 0 0I have done both. When I was single and a horny teen and 20 something I just wanted sex and did not need to have a strong bond. However when I did have an LTR I did enjoy the sex more.
1 0 0 0Definitely a bond.
1 0 0 0I'd be happy with no strings
0 0 0 0I need a connection
1 2 0 0I have the ability to do no strings, but I prefer not to. I find that most people don't have the communication skills to have good casual sex.
1 0 0 0I prefer no emotional connection, If she's great and pleases me, that would all I would want.
0 0 0 0Its better to have a bond
1 0 0 0I prefer a bond, cuz the sex is WAY MORE intense!
0 0 0 0Honestly it’s dealers choice. Sounds like from your question you’d like to bond first, as I do. I never had a one night stand or hit it and quit it. It’s always been relationships and sex was incidental.
1 0 0 0I need to feel something to that person first, otherwise I don't feel anything...
1 0 0 0I dibt need strings to want to duck a girl
0 0 0 0Nope, I can bust a nut and not even know her damn name.
0 0 0 0I do. I don't feel comfortable sleeping with a woman until we are in a committed relationship and I have feelings for her. I know not all guys are that way, but I think there are a lot more of us than people realize.
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