When it comes to sex, do you have to have a strong bond established before you can sleep with someone or can you sleep with someone with no strings?

I have to have a strong bond and really love the person before I get intimate with them. Otherwise it would feel dry and hollow.

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  • Connection of course. My girlfriend and i now have a stronger connection than we did when we started having sex.

    Back in the day, an old best friend (a girl) we had a physical attraction. When she and i did have sex, it was a hot pig sex type. But the very first time, lotus position, I don't know how long we lasted or how it took for us to cum together. But I tell you we were soaked in sweat, slobber, and my pubes were wetter than being in a shower. She got so wet only thing keeping me inside was her weight. First girl who felt my cum hit her cervix. Talk about a physical attraction.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Strong bond/love has to happen first.

    I don't need that bond to see her naked or find her attractive (I actually need that and a mental connection first to even fall for her), but I need it to feel safe doing anything physical, even just kissing.


Most Helpful Girl

  • I don't need to have a strong bond per se, but I cannot have sex with no strings either.

    I do need to have feelings involved and feel that he has too, that we're exclusive, and that genuine respect is there. I need to trust them and them me.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I want a strong emotional connection and bond. I want there to be commitment. I want an obsession like level of love toward each other. That makes the sex out of this world amazing because it solidifies and consummates that love and adoration

  • For me strong bond is needed i can't sleep wid anyone

  • I have done both. When I was single and a horny teen and 20 something I just wanted sex and did not need to have a strong bond. However when I did have an LTR I did enjoy the sex more.

  • Definitely a bond.

  • I'd be happy with no strings

  • I need a connection

  • I have the ability to do no strings, but I prefer not to. I find that most people don't have the communication skills to have good casual sex.

  • I prefer no emotional connection, If she's great and pleases me, that would all I would want.

  • Its better to have a bond

  • Honestly it’s dealers choice. Sounds like from your question you’d like to bond first, as I do. I never had a one night stand or hit it and quit it. It’s always been relationships and sex was incidental.

  • I prefer a bond, cuz the sex is WAY MORE intense!

  • I need to feel something to that person first, otherwise I don't feel anything...

  • I dibt need strings to want to duck a girl

  • Nope, I can bust a nut and not even know her damn name.

  • I do. I don't feel comfortable sleeping with a woman until we are in a committed relationship and I have feelings for her. I know not all guys are that way, but I think there are a lot more of us than people realize.