When the sex doesn’t satisfy you?

[Anonymous]

We been have had sex 4 times. We have foreplay, kisses, he touches me, etc.

But sex.

I used to loove giving blowjobs to my ex because he let me do as I want and when I want, that led to me wanting to give him one almost daily. I hate deep throathing as I have the worst gag reflex.

But this guy, everytime we have sex he pushes my head down, also halfway through, asking me how far in I can take it, removes my hands so I can go further and forces my head further down. He doesn’t give me oral.

I haven’t orgasmed any of the times we were together. He asked me after the 3th time what position I prefer and if I came. I told him no. But that didn’t change anything for our 4th intercourse. And he talks like a robot during sex, can you give me a blow job, do like this, do like that, never if I like it.

arrgghhhh. He is otherwise I nice down to earth guy, but I can’t stay if the sex isn’t satisfying.

[Dargil]

He is otherwise I nice down to earth guy.No, he isn't. Overloaded by hormones, he is showing you his true nature
A nice, down to earth guy (like me) would make it his mission to give you the best orgasm possible by any means available. Both skilled fingering and oral can work wonders.

[Asker]

Yes like he asked me, but during sex didn’t do much to make it good for me. I like him, but sex is a big no thanks, not Even, sorry to say, horny for him because i know it is gonna do nothing for me. On paper he is perfect, but i don’t know if i wanna keep going out with him when the sex is like this. Makes me dislike giving bj’s, used to enjoy it

[Dargil]

Follow your instincts. A good man will love your heart and your body. And he will be grateful for you validating him sexually. And about skilled blow jobs:

We should feel about them and treat them like you would a dozen roses.

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice. And yeah, i get it. With my ex loved giving him head, and surprising with just going down. But like not fun if forced deep throathing and on demand when not giving back ever.

[pierre7i]

What are you even doing being in a relationship with this guy? He's obviously selfish, arrogant, self-entitled and cares only about his own pleasure, doesn't give a damn about yours !

Throw him away, find someone who cares about you and is more skillfull sexually !!

[summiter]

I think you need to tell him what you like. It is not all about him and his orgasm!!! If you give him oral I hope he returns the favor every time? Is he insecure? Was he a virgin before you met him?

[Asker]

He never returned the favour, hasn’t gone down on me. He doesn’t seem insecure the way he is telling me how he wants it and putting me in positions. He wasn’t a virgin, he is 30.

[summiter]

Well you deserve some great orgasms also. Tell him you like receiving oral also. If he does not give it then stop giving him oral or sex for that matter. What is fair is fair. Let him get use to jerking off again if need be.

[Zealashton]

beacuse the man is not intact he is Genitally mutilated, no forskin, your litterly screwing sandpapper, also just look up blood stain men doo reserch good luck, if he refuses to streach and restor, I don't know

[Asker]

Yes he is circumsized but other guys i have been with who was also cut wasn’t like this. But I will try to look it up, thanks

[Zealashton]

trust me, intact men require less stimulation, also MGM has affected me mentaly, i have all the clear signs of PTSD, it seems, i never asked, nore wanted, people hate you for speaking out. i see everywhere, mens mental health, but no one cares. bloodstain men on face book brother K. nature knows best, not doctors or religion.

[Asker]

Yeah i am against it and don’t see the point or medical benefits to it. I am sorry to hear you are suffering from it.

[Zealashton]

thank you, last note, for anyone that suffers, dose not matter how much or how little, it ain't good im still alive, yes at times, im in great pain at times, but im still alive moveing forwords, and those of you out thier, if your younger then me, which i am 30 , dont stop walking no matter what, you have plenty of time after your 80 too sleep in the grave, no point in rushy the story of life

[JoyGirl]

Talk to him.

[bowenw]

Discuss with him what you like and don't like. Tell him you do not like him pushing your head and not to ever do it again. If he doesn't respect you it may be time for the two of you to go for counselling or to send him packing.

[RandomLoser]

Dump his ass.

[Massageman]

If you are going to have a good relationship, it's important that you both consider the needs of the other. You have, he hasn't.
Clearly state your needs. If he continues to ignore them, move on to someone who will.

[Jerre]

You are right. Leave the guy and find some who enjoys fucking you and make you cum multiple times.

[Valnac]

He is only thinking of himself, you can try pushing his face down there.
If that doesn’t work, kick him to the curb.
Find yourself a real man.

[gandolph3]

Get a new guy

[Anonymous]

Try masturbation.