When u first had sex, who cum first the person u were having sex with or u?

[imbeingmyself]

[Anonymous]

Definitely me. Not even manage to put it yet but already cum from blowjobs. That do not stop me from go for second round which actually cum after few stroke from penetration. Tried for third but did not manage since its take longer time for mine to erect back.

[CharlieBadger]

Honestly, neither of us did.
I had performance anxiety and went 45 minutes without cumming. She had never cum during sex.

[Jooying]

That was first time for both of us. We kinda have no clue about what to do exactly Lol
And I remembered he finished really quick, even though I didn’t know what happen.

[imbeingmyself]

Yea becs you were virgin and didn't know how to control while having sex I guess

[lucero213]

He cum all over my face

[imbeingmyself]

i don't think so u must have liked it lol

[MarkyMark77]

@lucero213 what did u think? did u like it?

[loves2learn]

Him. Duh. He lasted about 30 seconds. Lol. Virgins. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[KimmyB]

Definitely him lol :o)

[ChrisMaster69]

Me, I was 13 so it was always going to be me cumming first, 2nd and 3rd lol

inside and over her face n boobs

[1stranger]

The person who feels most relax is usually cum first.

[imbeingmyself]

Ik as that's a fact but what I asked was what happened in your case

[whatdoyouwantt]

I never came lmao he was horrible noob 😂

[imbeingmyself]

Lol everyone is a noob specially when its the first time

[Inexpensivefurniture]

I always make my partner cum, I rarely finish though

[exitseven]

I did not cum at all.

[Exterminatore]

Her.

[KatherineJ]

He came, I didn’t.

[imbeingmyself]

Thats the most common answer of every girl here lol

[Wiredone]

She came first. I always make sure she cums first

[Twalli]

I always make sure my girlfriend cums first

[Sana_88]

I didn't cum first time

[imbeingmyself]

Thats the most common answer of every girl here lol

[Loolucy]

He did.

[NYlatefun]

I’d think 99% of the times it’s the guy! In my case it was me of course! I was able to get maybe a good 5 or 7 pumps!!! Lol

[misstripleem]

I did.

[Anonymous]

Well being a boy he came first of course.

[Anonymous]

Definitely me, I couldn’t hold back, too quick

[Anonymous]

Was raped so I guess only him. He's dead anyway.

[imbeingmyself]

Sorry to hear that 😔

[imbeingmyself]

But I'm happy he is dead now tho

[imbeingmyself]

Hope u having a great life...

[Opinion Owner]

Going through a divorce currently but yes, I am living a great life because bad things have good things in them too.

[imbeingmyself]

but I don't think so there's any good thing in rape and divorce too...

[Opinion Owner]

Thank God for divorce

[imbeingmyself]

wanna talk in pm if u don't mind...

[Anonymous]

Only him. I did not cum with a partner till years after.

[BarryLiverstone]

Bet you were happy you learned how!

[Opinion Owner]

@BarryLiverstone sure, but I had accepted not cumming and just leave that for my alone time ;). I still don't cum every time now and I enjoy sex enormously anyway :). I'd say my sex partner has been a lot more happy about it than me xD

[BarryLiverstone]

I’m not sure a majority of women cum every time during intercourse. That’s why foreplay and oral are so important before. Lol do you mean your partner is happy you are Cumming now?

[Opinion Owner]

@BarryLiverstone I mean my sex partner is more excited and happy about me cumming than I am myself. I am also not talking about sex as only intercourse. Though I only cum with intercourse with a partner, not by oral :P. Maybe that will also change in time

[BarryLiverstone]

Thank you for the clarification. Oh if you aren’t getting good oral then now I’m connecting the dots. Def hope that will change! When it does likely your happiness will increase.

[Opinion Owner]

@BarryLiverstone I had good oral haha.. I repeat I do enjoy sex without cumming (I know it is difficult to understand, especially for men xD) that is not it, it is a mental thing. I think it is because focus is on me and I have to 'perform' by getting that orgasm. During intercourse the man also focus a lot on his own pleasure and then I relax and can cum :D

[BarryLiverstone]

Lol you didn’t have to repeat that, I already knew women can enjoy sex without Cumming. Many reasons why they wouldn’t cum and guys should learn to not put that pressure on them. It’s called making love for a reason.