When will my virginity go?

im 23 n feels like I been waiting forever,
I've wanted sex since I was like 13 but no girl has ever come up N tried to take away my virginity from me, I'm starting to think I'm ugly,
I mean I never leave the house so no girl really knows I exist, I been sitting in here for over two years straight, but still. If I was hot then some girl would knock on me door n ask to take my virginity by now, surely, why has it not yet happened? When do you think it would happen?
When did it happen for you?

Also, did virginity take you? Like you jus let it happen... Or did you have to lose virginity yourself and virginity doesn't jus go by itself?
Confused...
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I must be ugly if I'm still a virgin at 23
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What I'm asking is do you jus have to wait for virginity to take itself away, Or do you have to take it away yourself? Does it nevr happen if you jus sit around n do nothing?
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  • No, your game completely sucks. Instead of doing the work to be a highly desirable MAN, you whine like a girl.
    Go here and read at least the first two years' blogs by Rollo: www.therationalmale.com

    Then go here for your man-makeover: www.theartofmanliness.com

    • not whining, jus thought it's kind of cheating if I go and look for girls n get laid that way , I thought only ugly guys gets laid that way, I thought most guys jus have girls attracted to them and takes his virginity away from him, I didn't know it was common for a guy to persue pussy... But since most guys do that (so I've heard) I guess it's time to change my method...

    • Yes, it's desperately time. And yes, guys go after what they want. No dates - no pussy.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Girls never come to you. You have to Go to the Girls be nice to them and build a Connection and getting in Love with her and you get a nice relationship and finally sex

    • Ok I will go to them instead

    • If u think that's the right thing to do ok take your advice

    • I am not a virgin since I am 15 ( I am 32 this app made a mistake and I can't correct it) I was nice to them and had a nice relationship with a few girls and they wanted sex but only If you have something special girls come to you to ask for that. Most guys never get even a compliment in their whole live

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  • The reason are is in your sentence...

    I've wanted sex since I was like 13 but no girl has ever come up N tried to take away my virginity the idea is you take the lead and you know talk to girls...

    • But if I make it happen all by myself and took lead, doesn't that make losing the virginity less valuable... Cos like... I was so unnattractive I had to force myself onto a girl with charm and flirting before she does anything with me,,, that would make me feel bad about myself If I was handsome I wouldn't have to do anything, jus sit around and a girl would come to me... Right?

    • Maybe I jus sit around outside of a Caffe where girls can see me, instead of at home where they don't know I exist

    • Maybe I should*

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  • If you stay at home all day, if course no girl will come out of nowhere just to have sex with you. Get outside, talk to girls, make girl friends (not girlfriends, girl friends) and then you'll lose your virginity.

  • At first I was like how can u be this dumb then I saw it was a troll

    • The sad thing is this ain't a jk tho. These thoughts I have are true. I'm very dumb

    • Even if it sljnd like a troll k am actively still virgin. Lol I'm mildly inbred hurhur

    • Ur a virgin because u ain't trying to have sex

  • How many female friend do you have? How much time do you spend with them as a friend?

    • Hours as a friend. And one. Or two. But they always friendzone me

  • Mine went when I was 19.

  • You will die a virgin

  • another reminder of what i can't stand, its always on the guy to make the moves to get laid, not the other way around