Guys, when you cuddle/ spoon a girl in bed, do you get hard/ turned on?

Also:
Where do you out your hands when cuddling her?
Where do you like your head to be when cuddling in bed?
How do you initiate sex from cuddling? What techniques do you use?
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  • It depends on my mood and whether if I'm doing it purely for comfort to get intimate with my girlfriend or if I'm trying to initiate sex.

    Usually when I'm cuddling with her, my hands are around her tummy and her back from the angling. If I'm hoping to turn her on, I'll place one hand on her private part and gently rub it as an indicator of what I'm looking for! If she wants it, she'll follow it up by rubbing my private part to show she's ready for it!

    As for my head, if you meant my actual head, somewhere around her neck for comfort and gives me an easy time to lick it since she gets turned on so easily every time I do that. If you meant the other head, right up on her bottom, if not a little bit below that for arousal reasons. It's so easy for me to get hard from this because of how close I am to physically penetrating her for sexual pleasure!

    If I'm planning to initate sex from cuddling, I'd either tease her by gently rubbing her nipples, licking her neck and/or rubbing her down there to increase sexual tension for her! Normally, she's really good with letting me know if she wants it or not by visual cues and movements! It varies from guy to guy but I could imagine most of them would simply touch her privates to get the mood going! Just make sure you have her consent before moving forward for a fun, sexy time!

  • I definitely get hard, yes.

    I usually just put my arms around her, and hold her. If I'm trying to initiate sex, then I'll do something like tease her breasts/nipples, or let my hand make it's way down between her legs.

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  • First yes, I often get hard during cuddling. Its not a decision it just kind of happens and honestly sometimes I'd rather it didn't because I actually like non sexual cuddling.

    That being said, I have initiated sex from cuddling a fair few times, mostly by rubbing just above and then inside her underwear and kissing her neck and working my way to her lips while pushing my lower body against her (assuming she responds well to the above) so she knows I'm hard.

    As bad as this will sound, I've had sex with a girl just to be able to cuddle her without my mind wandering to sex and without having a hard dick in the way because I actually really liked that girl.

    Its often easier to avoid it being sexual if the guy is the "little spoon"
    No stimulation on his dick makes it easier.

    As far as positions go, assuming I'm taking the role of the "big spoon"
    I prefer one arm over her just at her hip and underwear line with my hand sitting comfortably around her other hip/thigh/stomach but close to her underwear.
    The other arm is often under her and up the other side in the reverse of the other hand, because if I'm cuddling with a girl you can be damn sure it's worth losing the blood in my arm to hold her.

    As for the head, I just kind of normally sit it at her neck or on the pillow beside her. Not choking on her hair is the tricky part.

  • Yea it is easy to get turned on hey you never returned my PM

  • Yes I get hard on cuddling
    I like put my head in front of her face so I can lick her ears or kiss her passionately
    One hand slowly moving down on her chick to neck to her boob while other hand on her inner thigh slowly moving up until I feel her wet pussy that's the sign of her desire , I kiss her passionately while playing with her wet pussy

  • How do i initiate.. Well i usually get a raging boner. And since we're spooning she feels it and will either comment or do something about it. Both will lead to sex

  • i am big spoon with one arm under her uo to her solarplex and the other hand on th other side thay comes down on the under side on her stomach biting her neck and teasing her with out touching her vuvla or other parts but whipering naughty things in her ear

  • Yep, but it gets embarrassing.

    • Why is it embarrassing

    • There I am just enjoying spooning and my penis is like, “I will now demonstrate my ability to poke this girl in the leg”.

  • We cuddle after sex which usually ends up with another round.

  • yes i do.. well did when i had a girl friend

  • Stomache. Or arm. Or shoulder usually

  • A lot of times i do end up getting hard. Usually my hands are on theirs waist or across their chest so they are snuggling with my arm

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