When you finally get the guy/girl why do you still want nudes?

When your dating and don't get so lucky I can understand why you may ask for a nude because well you probably won't see it in the flesh. But once you're dating and sleeping together, why do you still want them to send you pictures?
Surely the real thing is more exciting than receiving pictures?
And if the person has already made it clear they're not comfortable doing that type of thing surely you'd drop asking as it's a boundary they don't want to cross...
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  • I don't, before or after.
    But if I have it, why not use it?

    • I don't understand what you are saying to me. Because that's not the question. I'm not interested in what you do with nudes because I imagine in some instances its for seedy use. What I'm trying to understand is if you have a partner why doesn't she become a person, why does she still remain a object purely for desire and sexual pleasure and not your partner in life? There's something explicitly dehumanising about nudes that I'm am trying to get to the bottom of. We seem unable to separate life from fantasy... Or at least that's my understanding. If others say different then I'm trying to understand them

  • I think, no need pictures if you go in practical, but some like to show their friends that how much attractive you are physically

    • Sad really that nothing is sacred anymore

    • @lilyanony1, ok, it is your choice

    • I know that it's just the fact that someone would share it without permission

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  • because its sexy its enticing dont you like to look at pictures of the food on a menu before you order!

    • I must admit its rare to go to a restaurant with a photo menu. Those tend to be commercial restaurants. Expensive and exclusive restaurants rely on word of mouth and personal experience. I value myself like high class stuff if you want it. You gotta be worth it. Its not out there for all and any.

  • Gives him something masturbate to when he’s not with u

    • Some men need to release more than others so always good to have an aid

  • It's called teasing

    • I'm not entirely sure what you mean by that...

  • Well of course the real thing would be better but we would still ask for them so that way when we are at work we know can see them and get us going for when we’re home. Or if we are on a business trip we can see them things like that. But of course we would not push further with asking

  • Cruios

  • Perhaps the female partner is on an adventure away from her male, and perhaps she is searching for a bigger, Blacker penis (and balls). Perhaps.

    • I don't think you read the question. This isn't a fetish or sexual exploration or conquest question.

  • He could be posting them online and needs fresh material.