When you first get intimate with a girl, how do you feel about her “going for it”?

[Anonymous]

By “going for it” I mean reach down and touching your dick. I always have a problem doing this without asking the guy if its okay. I feel like I need to get permission to touch his dick. The reason I ask such an odd question is because I felt timid touching my last guy (at first) because I felt awkward asking. He eventually took my hand and moved it, so in a way, that was like giving me permission, non-verbally. Can a woman just touch you there if you have been dating for let’s say a few weeks?

[tofamous]

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[BarryMcKohkner]

With guys just go for it, if it feels right. If he doesn't want to he willl tell you no. Much like guys with girls. If it feels like it's going in that direction, we'll reach and if she doesn't want to she will let us know and we respect it and don't push the matter. Just got to know the situation

[MrOracle]

It's fine with me. I'm definitely going to be touching her, and she's free to touch me all she likes.

[RemoErdosain]

If you expect him to ask you to touch yours, then the most reasonable thing to do will be to ask so that he understands how you work. He will probably imitate your behavior in that sense

[MrCommodore]

Yeah of dating etc, then its usually fine, as long as its not in public.

[Red_Arrow]

If your relationship is one where such intimacy is expected, go for it! Regardless of how long you are dating, if you would be fine with him getting physical with you, then he is probably ready for you to do the same. And sometimes guys are afraid the gal my think she is being taken advantage of if he makes the first move. Go for it and set the atmosphere to make it acceptable for both.

[summiter]

Of course she can touch me if we have been dating for a bit. You can usually tell by body language or if he already has a boner that means he would like to be touched. Does this usually lead to sex or a handjob? I say go for it. Guys love their dick to be touched and it feels way better than jerking off which all young guys do often... they just will never admit it. Your thoughts?

[Asker]

Yeah I agree. It just feels weird because I would want a guy asking me for permission to get in my pants

[Berethor]

Many women can get away with raping a man, touching a dick is minor in comparison. :)

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/DoubleStandardRapeFemaleOnMale

[aftermydemise]

Why would you need to get permission to touch his dick? That's not necessary.

Wouldn't bother me if she went for it, whenever she wanted lol

[Mikelaughs]

While communication is good. there are times when it's not needed.
You just know !
Hmu if you want to talk about it

[TadCurious]

I like it when she does that on her own initiative. But in my experience some girls are shy and it's like they feel like they need permission so gently moving their hand down there is a way to break the ice.

[LiamSawyer]

Please do, I'd love you sliding your hand in my jeans and feeling my dick, you'd probably feel it grow and get hard in your hand.

[LiamSawyer]

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