When you first have sex with a girl, do you want her to be quiet, or moaning and screaming loudly?

When you first have sex with a girl, do you want her to be quiet, or moaning and screaming loudly?
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  • If she is moaning and screaming loudly that’s hot as hell , she doesn’t really have to scream loudly but if she does it’s still hot as hell , but definitely hearing her moan is the turn on only if she isn’t faking it of course lol so yes, her moaning is a huge turn on to me , it’s hot as hell knowing I am getting her off and hot knowing she loves the way I fuck her , When I have sex with a girl my intentions is to have her coming back for more and more , I am not the type of guy that can just bang a girl and move on to the next , for me to even have sex with her I have to feel chemistry and connection with her and feel like it’s going somewhere , so my intentions in the beginning is to have her coming back for more , But sadly that isn’t always the case some girl’s are just good at lying and getting what they want so it’s the 50/50 chance we take when meeting someone new. I just prefer having sex with 1 girl , I feel like it’s cleaner and safer , people that run around having sex with multiple people is dirty to me and they are sadly taking a higher chance of catching an STD , something I never want to have period , cuz I seen some shit that makes me SMH on how stupid people can be but people are stupid so they dig their own grave , Friends of mine would just end up in bed with random girls and now they are kicking themselves in the ass cuz now they have STD’s for life , I feel bad for any girl that ends up in bed with them , it’s so disgusting and wrong

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  • I don't mind if she moans. If I'm on top, if the girl moans and breaths heavily while putting her arms around me and wrapping her legs around me, I know I'm making her feel good and getting her off.

    Now if a girl screams, to me, depending on how she screams, she might be faking it. I've been with more moaners than screamers. If I'm doing her doggy style and I see her toes curling and she's moaning a lot, I know I'm making her cum. I try to pay much attention as I can when I'm inside of a girl.

    One girl I was with came so much one time, she got so wet and wrapped her legs around me so tight, she moaned really loud, and made me cum really good. I think all girls are different though.

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  • I want her to be her self. And I'm going to be myself
    And myself is going to make all about her.. and if she's is a quiet person it's my job to make her moan and scream like never before it's my job to make it intense and out of control it's my job to make her want more I just want her to be who she wants to be and it's my job to make her turn into somebody else LOL and out of control intense and more than one time

  • Moaning loudly is how I would prefer it.

  • Since this is our FIRST time, I want her to BE her TRUEST 'self'.
    I WANT HER 'happy'... I WANT to LEARN how to BE her 'best ever'.
    If she's 'freaky' let's GO THERE! I want to BE her preferred 'go to'---
    I WANT HER to KNOW I can honor, appreciate and keep her intimate Self's secrets.

  • Panting is usually a good sign. If the screams are fake, that's disconcerting.

  • I want authentic honest feedback. I want to know if I'm hitting it or not. Sex for the first time with a woman is more like a high stakes reconnaissance mission.

  • Augh... I hate when women are ridiculously tired, like... It's not a porno! It makes me laugh so I get turned off.
    Nah, moaning is a turn on if it sounds real, if you're a quiet girl that's also okay, but no "OH MY GOD, DADDY, OH YEAH!" 😂😂😵

  • What matters is that its real. Fake noises are a complete turn off.

  • I tend to prefer something right in the middle: Whispered comments, Soft and gentle moans, a few surprised gasps, building up to some intense moaning. It doesn’t need to be loud and wild.

    But, of course, one of the best things about sex is the intimate knowledge of a side of someone that most people don’t see; and first time sex is an adventure of discovery. So, I’m excited to learn what you are like in bed and what noises you make. I want to meet the naked you—in every way.

    So, whatever she is like will be a pleasant discovery.

    • Well, maybe not WHATEVER. I was with one girl, in college, who had this crazy annoying high pitched laugh—like a surprised cartoon character (and not in a good way). The whole time we were intimate, that laugh kept exploding out of her. When she got really excited, she started making a crazy squeaking wheezing noise. I couldn’t handle it. I decided to let her down easy and move on. …then I got thinking how hot she was and how willing…and I tried it again. I couldn’t even finish. It was too much for me. So, there ARE some intimate surprises that aren’t so exciting, I guess.

  • I want her to do whatever comes natural to her. If it feels good, nothing wrong with expressing it.

  • Depend on how many neighbors are listening in.

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