When you go out to bars or clubs do you have a "goal" in mind?

Last night me and my friends were trying to hookup with some guys but they were all really mean so of course we weren't going to hookup with any of them. But anyways since we didn't really complete our goal it kind of lowered my mood. But luckily my friend Eryn doesn't give a f**k and still went out and had fun and made sure I did too!
When you go out to bars or clubs do you have a goal in mind?
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  • Why guys’ were being mean to the both of you is a shock to me to be honest , unless you were both being obnoxious , but I wasn’t there , so I don’t know why that happened to the both of you? cuz you both look like very attractive girls that look like a lot of fun , I know my ass wouldn’t be mean to both of you what so ever, if you were both talking to me and flirting , I don’t really go to clubs anymore , I still go to bars on occasion, but when I was younger and single , I enjoyed going to the clubs and bars , mainly to mingle and hopefully meet a beautiful girl that wanted to have a fun night , Most people go to clubs and bars to mingle and drink and to hopefully meet someone and hook up and get laid for the most part. I had some damn good times going to clubs and bars with friends , it was during a time , I really didn’t have a care in the world , I was single and just having fun and hooking up with attractive girls , until I finally met one that wanted more than just getting laid , if her and I had a great connection. And chemistry together. It’s always a 50/50 chance when meeting someone new. But when I do meet an amazing girl and we both agree to be in a committed relationship with each other , out of respect for the relationship, I distance myself from places like that , mainly because I know what goes on in most clubs and bars, trust me lol so to show respect to my partner , I wouldn’t put myself in those environments , unless she was with me. The truth is people do dumb shit when they are drinking or doing drugs , I had random girls come up to me and try to make out with me out of the blue and sometimes when I was feeling buzzed and horny , I would just go for it , if I thought she was attractive , going back to my place or hers and having amazing sex all night long , not thinking about anything else , sadly some of the girls I did end up bringing back to my place to have sex with , didn’t tell me they were married or were already in a relationship until after we had sex so that’s why I feel those places aren’t good places to go , if you are in a relationship with someone. Most People do dumb shit when they have alcohol in them, I know I do at times lol

    • Thanks for MHO , and to be honest with you if I did meet the both of you at the club or bar , I would of tried to get The both of you in bed at the same time , just saying 😜

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  • Age 20s single. I met girls in bars but women are mostly fussy won't take a chance on a stranger. I often would hear after asking for a date "I don't even know you " . Nor do i know you who cares. Goal? I would go with friends mostly, meeting aa girl would be nice but friends were more fun. I go for music or karaoke.

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  • Usually my goal is to get a guy number or be so drunk a make out with a guy in the corner like the movies lol but every time it never happens, i wasn’t the girl to fit in the my friends girl group because all the guys want them and I wasn’t the “it girly” for them or whatever, but after realizing I’ll never be that girl, I get drunk and dance the night away not giving a fuck. But one time I did end up in someone VIP section but have no idea how and what happen after that.

    • @beautyjoyfover200 kind of adventure!

    • Wish I met you in bars. Most women in bars treat men with disdain. I only recall two lovers I met in bars one waas a 2 nighter the other lasted 6 months but she had other guys I am sure.

  • Ew 🤢🤮🤮 I don’t spread my legs all the way open to complete strangers that could give me STDs.

    People like you 🫵 are the sole cause of Co***19 🖕

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  • Well it's about damn time Tay. Lol

    I really don't think you let too many things hold you back I know I never did

  • Im extremely selective , so I never go out with some " hook up " goal , never ever have , just run with the flo... Slutty is not sexy , go for more unattainable and watch what happens.

  • The "goal" was to unwind with my partner and our friends.

  • I always have a goal when I'm out for fun

  • I haven’t been to a bar in probably 5 years. I only went with friends because they wanted to go. Never had a goal of any kind.

  • Usually, to play a gig or shoot some pool or both.

  • If I'm going out on the pull then I won't accept coming home alone.

  • Just to have a beer or too. That's my only goal

  • i go for free drinks

    • And why not

    • whatchu mean?

    • If someone folks want to buy you drinks then good for you girl. 👍 Nothing wrong with flirting lol

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  • To have fun

  • No I go to have fun.

  • Yeah most people have a goal meeting someone and maybe getting lucky when going out to the club or bar. Me and my girl sometimes look for a girl to I’d she’s up for some fun with us and take her home with us for a threesome.

  • When I did go, it was to find someone to date. It wasn't a hook up I was looking for.

  • Yes, of course. I don't even go out for groceries without a plan.

  • If you and your friends can't get laid at a club you all must be total disasters.

  • I never went to a club since i dont see the fun in it, but if i go to a bar, its either to have a good talk with a friend or to just have a drink, that's it

  • My goal is ALWAYS to enjoy the company of my friends, except when a buddy and I would go "hunting"!

  • Are you either one of the girls in this pic?

  • Not really I just go with the flow and take it from there

  • Yes I do I love to dance so I just want to dance and have a good to but when you introduce alcohol it always guys further that I want it too. If you know what I mean

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