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When you go to a mall and visit clothing stores with your wife and girlfriend, do you sneak peaks at other girls in the changing room areas?

I went to a mall with my girlfriend, in one of the stores. A girl hasn’t fully closed the curtain. I stayed on the spot in front of my girls changing room door BUT through the crack… I could see the mirror in the changing room next over and could see the girl get down to her panties and bra

would you have looked away?
No, I mind my own business
Vote A
I always notice if girls haven’t closed the curtains fully and casually take a peaks through from where I am standing
Vote B
From my standing spot I’ll let my eyes look under the door to see their feet
Vote C
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'll admit that's pretty fucking disrespectful to your wife or your girlfriend unless you guys have an open relationship and you're checking girls out while you're with her and she enjoys that not in the fitting room that's kind of creepy. But if you're in a good committed relationship you have respect for your wife or your girlfriend you may glance at a woman that walks by you but you definitely don't turn your fucking head and continue to check her out that is just fucking bullshit and a lot of guys I'm sure do it I'm sure women do it to their boyfriends and they look at other guys your girls but there's no fucking need to do that that is totally fucking wrong

  • I would prefer to be able to go into the fitting room with my wife. That would make it more convenient for both of us. She would not have to come out in front of other people to show me how she looks. She is always able to come in the men's fitting room with me and nobody objects or cares.

Most Helpful Girls

  • No, I would never peek into the privacy of a person that is in a changing room.

    As a matter of fact, if I would see that the curtain is not fully pulled, I would take the initiative to pull it full closed in order to avoid perverts and other voyeurs to have a look at somebody against their will.

    There is nothing that tells me that the offender does not hold a miniature camera in the palm of his hand and then publishes these stolen videos on some dark porn site.

    It is totally disrespectful to the victim and possibly even reprehensible to pry on a person without her/his knowledge.

    • Thanks for the MHO

    • I respect your answers regardless of the stance you take, and that is what MHO is about. Well written, mature answers that also elaborates/explains the reasoning behind the stance. I feel like I can use your answers to become a little better of a person as well. We’ll done :) Some other decent answers.. and then some people whom I legitimately wonder if they have had any schooling at all

    • Thanks for the feed-back. It is appreciated. When I reply to a question, I always make it a point to give a full answer and the justification for it. My replies often meet disapproval but those are the risks of giving an opinion.

  • Gross. Not only is that disrespectful to your girlfriend/wife but also is straight up voyeuristic and an invasion of the other woman's privacy.

    Just be better and look away.

    • I guess I can just walk a little further away next time. Telling them that their curtain is slightly open still seems like an awkward encounter to me. And if it’s viewable from the spot I’m standing then once I happen to notice it, my head keeps snapping back in that direction repeatedly (I tell myself not to look and my brain somehow forgets why and I looked again repeatedly)..

    • Then stare at your shoes or a phone or walk away. All easier options than looking at another woman in a state of undress like that

    • That’s true as well. So do you never check out guys in public? Say he’s wearing grey sweatpants and you maybe see the outline of his penis. Because I would argue it’s a similar situation

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • That is really respectful to your girlfriend, isn't it?

    • To be fair I wasn’t searching for this. I am bored waiting outside the door where my girl is getting changed. I glanced to the right and notice through the curtains I can see the reflection of another girl in her bra and panties. My eyes got fixated for a few seconds before I looked away/ as I’m waiting I guess I found it thrilling because how often does this happen? And so.. I could resist but to keep glancing back occasionally. And my heart was racing. Am I really a bad guy? You wouldn’t have a hard time not looking if you were in my shoes but it was a good looking guy and you can see a big wiener dangling down his legs?

    • Okay, so the fact that you kept glancing back tells me not respectful. No, I wouldn't look into a guy's (or girl's) dressing room. I try my stuff on and go.

    • I wasn’t trying anything on. My girlfriend made me stand outside her door so that she can show me and wants my opinions on some things. That’s the only reason I’m standing there even though I’m not trying anything on myself. Other guys waiting for their girls too. I told my girlfriend that it happened and she laughed it off saying “awkward”

  • Ew, Hell NO.

    If I ever catch my man doing that I'll castrate him with my bare hands.

  • No that’s terrible.

    only a Complete low life would even think of it.

    I normally find a decent place to sit and just ask for a coffee from the staff.

    • Ask, are you so rubbish at reading, the work is ASK. that is fairly common in clothes shops, you go in, sales takes care of the girl and they offer you a coffee. Not really hard concept if you are spending a chunk of cash on clothes. Also don’t try taking the high ground when you are just a simple low life pervert. Zero respect for either your girlfriend or the girl changing. Also you are Anon, not exactly when men do, well okay perverts who don’t have any idea. What a Cockwomble

  • Creepsville

  • Yeah I have a sly look, I'm a gentleman but I'm not a fucking monk!

    • Finally an honest answer. I swear guys think they can land girls by acting like an angel. Pathetic

  • Nope I sit on my phone talking shit on here

  • That would be creepy and a violation of their privacy. You could even get arrested.

    • At 54 years old you’d think your brain would have developed a little more by now. Standing in a spot that the staff finds appropriate won’t get you arrested just because some other customer doesn’t know how to properly close curtains and therefore exposing him/herself to anybody within the area. Smarten up dude

  • No way

  • Honestly if I saw I would probably watch. However I usually stand outside the entire changing area.

  • That’s creepy

  • hmm. nice. yeah, i've seen those porn videos too.

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