When you have BDSM fantasies, are you usually a sub or dom?

When you have BDSM fantasies, are you usually a sub or dom?
I don't have BDSM fantasies
Vote A
In my BDSM fantasies, I'm always a dom, never a sub
Vote B
In my BDSM fantasies, I'm usually a dom, sometimes a sub
Vote C
In my BDSM fantasies, I'm 50/50 sub/dom
Vote D
In my BDSM fantasies, I'm usually a sub, sometimes a dom
Vote E
In my BDSM fantasies, I'm always a sub, never a dom
Vote F
I have no idea
Vote G
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
Girl Guy
2 5

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

23 48
  • I'm always a submissive

  • Always sub, never dom.

  • BDMS is not my cup of tea.

  • Not just in fantasies, but in relationships- I’m always the sub. I was in a relationship where we were both sub and it didn’t work out. Being sub is WAY more fun!

  • I usually love to be dominated but I wouldn't mind to be the boss once

  • Always a sub no matter what

    • I like that, when did you realize you were sub?

  • Straight up sup. i always do as my mistress says without question.
    I don't know why but having a female be in complete and utter control
    of me sexualy really excites me, even more so when they
    discover that i really only have a couple limits such as
    no EXTREME pain, no blood, no scat and no leaving
    marks that clothing can't cover

  • More times sub. Sometimes dom.

  • 80%-85% of the time, I am the sub hehe

  • A bit of both.

  • In BDSM I'm a dom every time lol. I'm only a sub in other fantasies like getting arrested and handcuffed by a hot lady cop or getting a blow job from a nurse. But even in the teacher fantasy I'm the dom.

  • Usually the sub but I can do both. Although it's much more enjoyable to be the sub

  • Dom 99.99999999999999% of the time

  • I prefer to be in control.

  • In my BDSM fantasies, I'm always a sub, never a dom
    Vote F

  • I'm more often a sub, but dom could be fun too.

  • Sub sub😋

  • Peaceful Dom
    You will do what I want... Or else 😊😏

  • Submissive.

  • Option C, usually a dom but sometimes a sub. Just one is no fun

  • Show More (31)