Guys, when you have sex with a girl, is it a purely physical act or is it also an emotional experience?

Guys, when you have sex with a girl, is it a purely physical act or is it also an emotional experience?

Some girls think they have guys "all figured out." They believe that when a guy engages in sex with a girl, it is purely a physical act with no emotions involved. That is certainly the caricature of a player, but I know that isn't EVERY guy, and I think that many guys have emotions aroused as a result of sex and they become emotionally closer as a result of the physical closeness. . . but maybe I'm just full of it, so tell me. . .

When you have sex with a girl, does the experience make you feel closer to her emotionally?

I'm a guy under age 22. Having sex is just a physical experience, nothing more.
Vote A
I'm a guy under age 22. Having sex is also an emotional experience and it makes me feel closer to my partner.
Vote B
I'm a guy age 22-30. Having sex is just a physical experience, nothing more.
Vote C
I'm a guy age 22-30. Having sex is also an emotional experience and it makes me feel closer to my partner.
Vote D
I'm a guy age 31 or older. Having sex is just a physical experience, nothing more.
Vote E
I'm a guy age 31 or older. Having sex is also an emotional experience and it makes me feel closer to my partner.
Vote F
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  • I went with the last option.

    With a random girl it's just sex. It's just lust for the purpose of cumming, but you don't care about each other. You are just using each others bodies. It's impersonal.

    But with a best friend, it's lust combined with genuine caring. There is a connection. It's more intimate. You want to please each other, not just use them to get yourself off.

    When I'm with a partner, I am more focused on her pleasure. In fact, I think bringing her to ecstatic bliss is the biggest turn on of all. And I wind up feeling closer to her.

    Also, when you are in a steady relationship, you get to know what each others likes and how to really push their buttons. Plus, you trust each other and are more willing to play and spice things up. Some of the sexual interactions can be absolutely ecstasy.

    That's why I always preferred having a steady girlfriend instead of just hooking up. I liked having a female best friend to hang out, go places and do things together, and have conversations. We could hold hands, walk with our arms around each other and be tender. I could be more genuine with them than I could with my bros. And the sex was really special.


    • Thanks for the MHO, brother.

  • It's always an emotional experience for me. I need to reach a certain level of closeness to the woman before having sex with her.

    I would never have casual sex. I could get attached to the woman really quickly and would suffer when she moves on to the next guy.

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  • For me, it depends on that girl. If it's a casual hook-up, then probably not because I don't know her well enough to feel anything for her. Now, if it's someone I've been having sex with for awhile and we decided to sop using condoms and she's OK with me cumming inside her, I do feel like I'm sharing a part of me when I'm cumming in her, plus by her getting me wet with her juices, she's sharing a part of herself with me.

  • this is a question that is very close to my heart and took me on a lot of journeys and soul searching to find out. Till 22 to 24 all fucks were great, but after that I found myself finding something was missing but I did not know what. I was in a serious relationship and she was never the best lover so I thought it was her. After we broke up I decided that I needed to fuck only straight 10 girls and that was the problem. So I did , but it was the same, that something is missing. So then I thought they should be 10s and of a certain type. But it was the same, I even tried different races, all the same shit. In fact I was so angry and frustrated I tried not fucking for months and then trying. And it was the same shit. So I just got fed-up and decided to give it another break. It was in these breaks that I began to think and there were some fucks that I could say were full total fulfilling fucks. These were not even my main fuck since while setting up a 10 , trophy, bitch took time sometimes, and I would just have a girl who came my way. And it was in these fucks, whenever I connected with the girl for some reason and she and me hit a certain vibe, our sex was magic and she was only say a 7 or 8 . But the sex was 15 on 10, just super. It was then that I realized that a 10 is for a beauty pageant, not a fuck. For a fuck u need that vibe, connection, the emotion, that is what makes a fuck or for a guy who is not sex starved, Cumming becomes an effort. Your mind (and soul), is the first sex organ, it has to come along in order to go to the top floor. Guys believe me, this is true, Happy fucking !!!

    • Dude, how many girls have you fucked? 😂

  • I mostly see it either as a way to make her happy, or to generate children.
    I'm not big on those things, for me the truly emotional moments are others.

  • I liked voting E, but it's meant to be emotional and physical simultaneously to my mind 😃😋😃

  • It's both, honestly. Very physical with list and desire, but it means nothing and isn't the same with someone you aren't attracted to.

  • my experience was depends some girls also had an emotional pleasure.

  • Sex can be just a physical experience but it's much better with an emotional tie.

  • Emotions and hetero sex with women are gay.

    Unfortunately I am very emotional and very into hetero sex with women.

    That’s gay bro.

    • So you are troubled by your emotions, but not all men feel that way.

    • I was actually being facetious.

    • Humor doesn't transmit very well in the digital world!

  • The thing is that the male/female reasons are inverted, relative to each other. Males have the sex which leads to intimacy. Females want the intimacy which leads to sex!

    • This wins

  • Both.
    I love girls.

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