When you have unprotected sex is it messy?

[Anonymous]

I just don't understand how this works. If you don't have a condom on, then you're going to make a mess all over the bed. And I feel like having a bedsheet is not enough to protect the mattress, and it's just really messy. What do you do to deal with it?

[Anonymous]

When a man comes without a condom inside a pussy, he normally leaves about 1-3 teaspoons of sperm in her pussy. If the woman does not squeeze that out immediately, and the man does not keep thrusting after he came, then that sperm pretty much stay inside.

So what we normally do, is have sex, most of the time make sure she comes, then I make sure that I come (sometimes at the same time), after I came I keep my dick inside her pussy while we kiss and cuddle.
Then I pull out, grab a roll of kitchen-paper, wipe my still leaking dick clean. Wipe her pussy a bit, she squeezes, the rest comes out, I wipe that too. And then we cuddle while she is lying on her side.
Sometimes there comes more out, but it will just stick to her leg. Than a bit later she will just go to the bathroom to was her pussy/legs/butt/...
Sometimes after I didn't have sex for a while, I can shoot a lot of sperm up to 2 tablespoons. Then I simply put some kitchen-paper folded up between her legs on her pussy, because it will just keep running out.

Sperm is not liquid like water, it is more like a thick thick yoghurt. So even it messes a bit, we just wipe it away. It will not run through the sheets into the mattress so quick.

[MrOracle]

Most of the women I've had sex with have left a puddle of their own juices even if I was wearing a condom and didn't directly contribute. So, yeah, if you're concerned about that, put a towel or two down before you start. It doesn't have to be all that difficult.

[Nylena]

it's not really messy. if he cums deep into you then it doesn't get out immediately. and it also depends a little bit on your position, missionary or if you or on top of him then it's fine. if you are still afraid then just let him cum somewhere else.

[Creole_Flavor]

It won't be that messy unless you're squirting damn where and if that's the case it will happen condom or not.

[AustinMan]

Get a good waterproof mattress cover and go to it. Some women leak a little, some don't. Make him sleep on the wet spot. It's the gentlemanly thing to do.

[Neko_Chan]

Why would it mess up your bed?

[Asker]

I feel like the sheets aren't thick enough for mattress protection?

[Neko_Chan]

Are you afraid of semen getting on your sheets?

[Asker]

sheets, and the mattress underneath it because i just find it kind of gross thinking about a mattress smeared with years' worth of semen

[Neko_Chan]

Your body doesn't expel the semen immediately. You can just go to the bathroom to clean up.

[ricke92m3]

Lmao. Over complicate much? Do you even enjoy sex? ( honest question)

[kheserthorpe]

The semen doesn't normally end up on the mattress. Occasionally. but not usually.

[rthomas43]

Andddd this image is applicable once again.

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[COCOCHANEL]

omg ew

[Jumaru138]

I think vaginal juices are more messy... While i'm going down to my gf, then there is always like a small "lake" on bedsheet..
If you are concerned about sperm, tell your bf to keep his aim low and close, so he won't leave marks everywhere... Sex will always be messy, so couple of towels would be really helpful!

[Dargil]

Most of the "mess" is vaginal mucus. There are also "pee accidents" which are more common than you think, That has nothing to do with condoms.
Even "porn" champions rarely ejaculate more than a couple of tablespoons full.
Keep a hand towel at your bedside to mop up. After he comes and pulls out, you will drain. Have the towel handy.

[molan]

Yes sex is messy, deal with it.

[COCOCHANEL]

it's not that messy

[ND4SPD31]

Not necessarily. It all depends on what you do. Like you could put a towel down on the bed so you don't have to worry about messing up the sheets.

[Anonymous]

Typically if you're having unprotected sex, you're wanting a baby. Meaning, he stays in you

[BstBrs]

Typically if you switching from using a condom to not using a condom, it is because she is using a birth-control-pil, and the relationship has come to a point where you are not afraid of risk of STD. The baby planning part comes way way way later.