When you need a good dicking but are taking things steady with someone?

[Anonymous]

I haven't had sex for a while, I broke up with my ex a few months ago and I'm currently dating someone else. We are no where near the sexual stage yet though. And my sensible side tells me that I definitely shouldn't have sex for a while if I'm building a relationship that I want to last with someone.
But I fantasise a lot about getting pounded and I hate this overwhelming urge. What can I do to just make it go away? Masturbation helps very temporarily, I just need it to go away.

[Anonymous]

Are you exclusive with your new man yet? If not then go out of town for a weekend and hook up with someone at the club. Otherwise you'll have to decide which is more important too you, guy or cock?

[Asker]

I've never been the casual hook up type, and that would make me feel like pure trash. I guess i'll just have to try and ignore this feeling 😣

[Opinion Owner]

I guess the other option would be an old ex who lives a long way away but there's always the danger of giving him the wrong idea

[AWiserFool]

Good... otherwise the ONLY fair thing to do is to tell your boyfriend he gets a free pass weekend also.

[Longtim89]

Masturbate use a vibrator play with your ass do both at the same time and have multiple orgasms till you can't take it anymore! Sounds like it would work to me!!!

[Anonymous]

If you're exclusive with the new guy, just start fucking him. It won't hurt the relationship.

[Asker]

We're not exclusive, it's kind of like we're "friends" but we know it's more than that, we just haven't labelled it as anything. I also want to wait a while before sex because I don't want to make things complicated and emotional for myself, because I didn't break up with my ex that long ago and I loved him deeply. I just…want this feeling to go away, so that I won't do something stupid that I know I don't truly want to do in the long run.