When you and your partner spend the night together, what is your favorite position. . . for going to sleep?

My favorite position is spooning, with me behind her, my arm around her and my hand resting on her boob. I call it my "sleep handle."

I can't imagine sleeping in separate beds!
When you and your partner spend the night together, what is your favorite position. . . for going to sleep?
In separate bedrooms
Vote A
When you and your partner spend the night together, what is your favorite position. . . for going to sleep?
In separate beds in the same room
Vote B
When you and your partner spend the night together, what is your favorite position. . . for going to sleep?
In the same bed but on opposite sides of the bed
Vote C
When you and your partner spend the night together, what is your favorite position. . . for going to sleep?
Spooned together, with guy behind the girl
Vote D
When you and your partner spend the night together, what is your favorite position. . . for going to sleep?
Spooned together, with girl behind the guy
Vote E
When you and your partner spend the night together, what is your favorite position. . . for going to sleep?
Him on his back, her next to him with her head on his shoulder
Vote F
Other
Vote G
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well, my wife and I cuddled A LOT. To be honest, I often think cuddling is the equal of sex itself.

    When we cuddled, we would either spoon, and I was always the big spoon, or we would cuddle with her head resting on my shoulder/chest.

    However, as much as I longed to cuddle her all night, I simply could never fall asleep doing so, so at some point, I had to gently scooch over and fall asleep. I didn't *like* it that way, it was a necessity.

  • I am like Francis from Stripes when I go to sleep. I don't like being touched (it wakes me up). She is allowed to sleep in the same bed but no touching

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/iN-aXzpQUdw
    • Lighten up, Francis!

    • exactly

    • Francis for the Win !

Most Helpful Girls

  • I have enough trouble sleeping with someone hanging over me. It sounds romantic to cuddle when going to sleep, but reality is another story. Short time might be okay, but when it comes time to actually make ZzZzZZ it's back off and let me sleep.

    I'm trying to sleep here fuzz ball. Keep your paws off!
    I'm trying to sleep here fuzz ball. Keep your paws off!
    • I'm like you in that regard. I am curious though, suppose for the sake of argument that you had absolutely no trouble at all falling asleep while cuddling. Would you want to fall asleep in each other's arms then?

    • I agree

    • @Bluemax I used to be heavy and was a side sleeper because it was too uncomfortable to sleep on my back or stomach. After I lost a lot of weight I just sleep on my side by habit. But I roll over and from side to side when I sleep. I also have to get up to use the bathroom a couple times a night so it is hard for someone to sleep in the same bed as me because I disturb their sleep by my moving around. Even my sister wouldn't sleep in the same bed with me, only my cat. So like I said, it would be good to snuggle for awhile but I'm pretty certain no guy would want to sleep in the same bed as me. :(

  • D or F for the most part, C when the hot flashes kick in or we'll both burn up 😂

    • Thanks for mh 🙂

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  • omg i love spooning sm😭😭

  • Before going to sleep: big spoon or facing each other. I prefer to separate before going to sleep. That makes it easier for her to steal the blanket though.

  • Back when I was with my ex, I got to realize how incredibly uncomfortable it was for me to cuddle while trying to sleep. I thought I would love that, but I TOTALLY HATED IT. So I would say in the same bed, but on opposite sides. I think that's close enough to the other person, but still leaves me room to sleep in any position I like

  • I like Option F. But more on his chest then his shoulders

  • In every position that we're in the same bed😏

  • Voted C, D, E, F
    F being most common...
    get into bed, he reaches over and I snuggled into his chest... chit chat about this and that... eventually goes to C, sleeps peacefully. He likes to butt into me for the security feeling that I am there... at some point, i most likely go on my belly... he still keeps a hand on me... either holding hands or his hand on my back.
    waking up... F again and chit chat a bit then D, E... then out of bed. He makes me tea...
    starts over again next night...

    • Can you further elaborate about F again, I'm confused...

  • I don't ever sleep on my back, so it is her choice, spooning, to cuddle in, and let me hold her close, or she can hold me, from behind, if she prefers.
    Every one has chosen to snuggle, and let me cuddle around her.

  • I live in Japan and both my boyfriend and I have single beds in our apartments. The only way for two people to sleep in a single bed is like literally on top of each other.

    • I imagine if your apartment in Japan is anything like an apartment in Tokyo, you are living in basically a closet. It is probably as big overall as a king size bed.

    • @Daniela1982 I live in Tokyo haha 😅😅😅😅 yeah our rooms are tiny so we only have space for single beds.

    • I don't know why the emoji looks like that lmao

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    • Either C or D.
  • I don't have a partner but just because I live in a really hot and humid place I think I'd actually hate embracing my man while sleeping, I'd feel so hot and get sweaty it's gonna be extremely uncomfortable.

    • But look at the bright side, it will require less lube.

    • Is air conditioning not commonly available in your city?

    • It is but I never sleep with it on. I catch colds very easily. If I have the ac on I turn it off right before going to sleep and keep the ceiling fan on instead.

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  • 2 preferences: d and e

  • Option F but since I like to sleep on my side a lot if she fell asleep first I might gently roll her over into option D and spoon her or something like that.

  • Voted D
    With his hands on my tits n preferably dick in my pussy lol

  • I like spooning behind the girl... but only had one woman that I was able to stay that way all night with

  • Our sleep patterns are very different, so we do use separate rooms.
    Since my shoulder surgery on one side, and possible surgery needed on the other, I have a very hard time positioning my right shoulder so it doesn't hurt, and I have to be able to move it around freely, much though I like the idea of spooning her.

  • I love to lay on my back and have her head on my chest!

  • her head on my shoulder just makes me melt. i feel so protective and loved.

  • facing together and having the arms and legs wrapped around each other.

    or me resting my head on her shoulder or somewhere around that are

  • With option F, she's going to have serious neck, back, and shoulder pain when she wakes up.

  • Position d is our favorite.

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