Where's the limit on dirty talk during sex?

[7771999]

Question is inspired by @Lostguuy



Do you find dirty talk exciting?

Is there a type of dirty talk you're really into?


Also. Where do you draw the line?

[loves2learn]

I don’t like to be called names or degraded. The best dirty talk is talking about what you are doing, going to do and how you are feeling in the moment.

[7771999]

Yes. That's where I think the difference is. Some women find it exciting to be degraded. Others really disapprove of it

[loves2learn]

That’s why communication is so important.

[7771999]

Exactly 🙏🏻

[ChrisMaster69]

With any relationship, you discuss things openly, not just sex but everything, during that you get idea of limits and boundaries.

now, the fun is how much you can push those limits and boundaries.

some hard and fast and you can’t push or even cross, others are ones to explore together.

not everyone has the same limits or boundaries and they are never the same throughout the relationship.

short answer, it depends what limits you have BOTH set and agreed to.

[anon1903]

- when your partner's being unresponsive
- when it feels like it's draining required energy
- when you can do with out it

Dirty talk isn't compulsory.

[7771999]

So you're just being quiet instead? I guess that works 🤔

[anon1903]

What do you mean?

[7771999]

Like. Obviously you'd probably moan or something, I dunno. But not saying anything dirty at all? Sounds like the two are super focused then 🤣

[anon1903]

I'm the quuen of dirty talk. I'm a writer if you must know.

[7771999]

Omg. You probably write erotic novels 👀

[anon1903]

Not really. Not always at least.

[7771999]

So what do you write mostly? Also, is it a hobby or something more?

[anon1903]

Whichever the reader desires. Young adult, drama, thriller.

[7771999]

Oh. Your write short stories from requests? Cool

[anon1903]

Few are requested, yes. Not all.

[7771999]

I'd like to read some, if they're not too long (I'm a slow reader 💀) 🙃

[anon1903]

Sure. Read some of the takes to get a good idea.

[7771999]

Just hit me up if you want 👏🏻

[anon1903]

I will. Do you read poetry?

[7771999]

Not often. I do find it charming to read though

[anon1903]

Then I'd hit me up in my spare. I'm a college poet as well.

[7771999]

That's so cool. Do you feel nervous showing people your work?

[anon1903]

As a matter of fact, I do.

[7771999]

I'd be super worried 💀

[anon1903]

You aren't helping.😮

[7771999]

Sorry 🙈 I'm not a mean person

[anon1903]

I'll give you that.

[exitseven]

I don't mind it until it gets weird.

[RelevantJ]

When ya start making my ass laugh or bored. Like shut da fuck up and stick it in

[7771999]

Making you laugh could maybe help though. I dunno 🤣

[RelevantJ]

Nah i mean like cuz it's corny af. Then I'm like bruh ya just ruined it.

[7771999]

Ah, alright. You don't want to have sex and feel like you're in a comedy 😂😂

[RelevantJ]

Nah, the opposite.

[7771999]

Yes. I think a comedic atmosphere would definitely ruin it

[In_Trance]

The limit is wherever you put it

[7771999]

Correct

[Maturewife66]

None

[Anonymous]

Is a very thin line between sexy dirty and rubbish dirty tho. Let's say when I hear "I wanna eat that sexy pussy of yours" that's hot, but when I hear "I'll f#ck your cunt so hard, you stupid bitch" that's trash, complete turn off

[7771999]

Hahahah. Got it 🤣 "... you stupid bitch..." 💀