Where would be a good place to find an online FWB?

SpiritBear Xper 7

I’m just curious. Been lonely.

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Anonymous
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I have a male friend who finds women online that want and NEED to be told what to do.
It's crazy how many women are into the master/slave thing. If they can't find the real thing, they'll be open to having a cyber master.

But other than that... I don't think you'll find a girl open to an online thing like that. Sure, you can find online friends, but you're asking for some type of benefits to go along with that. Give it a shot.
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- SpiritBear
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  Really? Can you dm me? I gotta know more about this.
- Opinion Owner
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  I'll tell you all you need to know, but just here in the forum.
- SpiritBear
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  Sure. What site does he use and how does he get them to that convo?
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- Opinion Owner
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  https://www.pof.com
  
  So before I tell you, I just need to know... You just want online fun, right?
- SpiritBear
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  Online fun? Yeah sure! What kinda site is this?
- Opinion Owner
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  It's just a dating site, but I think it's the biggest site in the world, and it's free. What I meant was... you don't want to meet her in real life, but you just want online fun, right? This part is important, so I need to know.
- SpiritBear
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  Yes I want online fun
- Opinion Owner
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  Good, because that's going to be waaaaaay easier to get. Join that site, and contact women who are too far to meet. That might not make sense, but it will make it easier for them to open up to you. If they know you'll never meet, then you're less of a threat to them. (many are just lonely and want attention) Also, if you like older women, then raise up your age. Guys do that all the time, because they're looking for "cougars." If you send them your pic, they will obviously know that you're younger, but you can just tell them you're not interested in girls your age, and the site won't let you contact women who are more than 15 years older than you, so you had to fudge on the numbers. Like I said, guys do that all the time, and if you're upfront about it, the women find it flattering that they're attracting "cubs." They might not want a cub, but who wouldn't want to know that cubs find them attractive. OK? Are you ready for step two?
- SpiritBear
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  Yes. I am ready
- Opinion Owner
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  Make up a very nice and witty profile. Most guys don't write shit in their profiles, and that's a big mistake. Make them laugh! They will love that. The next step is to contact many, many women, but ONLY if they are a distance that's too far away to meet. This might sound strange that you're contacting someone that's too far away, but we can easily solve that! NEVER send out a "canned" copy and paste message. Let her know that your message is just for her. Ask her what kind of cat that is in the pic. What year is that cool truck.. How does she like living in the country... If you choose to go the cougar route, and she asks about it, just tell her you don't know why you're attracted to older women. You just don't know. Ask her if other young guys have contacted her. She will tell you that it happens all the time. Tell her that you can see why they are focusing on her! (NEVER act jealous) Phase 3?
- SpiritBear
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  I’m ready
- Opinion Owner
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  OK, they're still gonna wonder why you're searching outside your area. (distance)
  
  Just tell her that you're not trying to waste her time, but you were just curious about some of the things/pics she posted.
  Ask her what she thinks about online dating, and ask her for advice!!!
  
  (women will LOVE that you're just asking for advice)
  
  This site was invented by a guy from Turkey. He lives in America, but he was born in Turkey. This site is NOT about girls asking guys!
  This site is for guys asking girls. (I've seen the video)
  
  Let's face reality...
  In a bar/club setting... who needs the most advise?
  Girls or guys? That's a no-brainer.
  
  Tolga Tanriseven was in a bar with his friend.
  This is the founder of this site.
  
  Him and his friend were in the bar and noticing that guys were trying to pick up girls, and striking out.
  They came up with a brilliant concept. (GAG)
  
  They had a guy approach a group of girls in a bar, but instead of the guy trying to pick up one of them... the guy cleverly just asked the group of girls for advice! He wanted advice on how to approach the girl in the bar that he was drooling over!
  
  What do you think happened? Do you think the girls told him to fuck off?
  Nope! They took him under their wings and gave him all the secrets he needed to know.
  That's what you need to do on that dating site.
  Tell those women that you like cougars (if you do) and ask them how to get one.
  They will probably blow your mind!
  
  Next phase?
- SpiritBear
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  I am ready
- Opinion Owner
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  Make friends with as many women as you can. Don't dominate the conversation, ask them about them. Ask them if you can help them, and give them advice. It all starts with making online friendships. Think about it.. What's the difference between 30 miles and 3,000 miles? We are just talking about cyber, so it doesn't really matter. AND... the sex topic will come up, but try and let them bring it up first. Ask a lot of questions and listen to what they have to say. In your title to this question, you said you wanted a friends with benefits. I was just telling you about a guy I know that's a cyber "master." He attracts slaves. If that's not what you want, then don't go in that direction. If you want a more mild type of cyber play, then just stick with that. Tell one of your ladies that you think women look so fucking hot in blue dresses! I can almost guarantee that she will make that happen for you! And remember what I said... don't get jealous! If she talks about a guy she's interested in meeting, then be very supportive of that. Even if you don't have good advice, just throw some out. Let her know that your only goal is her happiness, and it sucks that she's so far away.
- SpiritBear
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  Anything else?
- SpiritBear
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  Like how many girls I should talk to at once without being overcrowded?
- Opinion Owner
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  That all depends on how much time you have. You don't want to neglect them, so just go from there. Also, once you establish a friendship, try and get them off of the dating site, and onto a messaging app. (Some sites have censorship, and you don't want them reading/seeing some of the stuff you post) My friend has women send him pics that they want them to post online. That sounds crazy, but they are too shy to post them themselves. What type of pics? Naughty pics! Yes, I'm being very serious! Here's the thing... we all are insecure about ourselves. Some of his women want to know if guys find them attractive, so he posts their pics, and she can read the feedback from guys. Why doesn't she do this herself? Because she needs a "wingman" to take control! That's where you come in. Women CRAVE dominant guys. When the time is right, then just take over and let her know that you're in charge! It's a crazy fucking world, but it is what it is.
- SpiritBear
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  I’m a very straightforward and honest kinda guy, but not naturally dominant per se
- SpiritBear
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  Still a chance?
- Opinion Owner
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  Not much of a chance.
  The number one best selling book on EARTH, is romance novels.
  That's what you need to do. Don't go after her boobs and pussy, go after her mind.
  
  If you can do that... you get all the rest of her. That's why so many guys fuck up.
  You gotta be a smart cookie.
  The largest erogenous zone on a woman, is her brain.
- SpiritBear
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  Holy shit you’ve been helpful! I can’t thank you enough.
- Opinion Owner
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  If you want to thank me, then try it! Don't just talk about it, do it!!! It's a free fucking site! Join right now, and I'll help you write a profile! lol But think long and hard about your goal/age group, because I don't think you can change it. But keep in mind... I'm from the USA, so that's the only advice I can offer.
- SpiritBear
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  I’ll try and not pussy out on it. Thank you kind stranger. I hope I meet you again on here.
- Opinion Owner
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  Well, that's what this site is all about. In a strange way, I'm not just helping you, I'm helping all the women you contact. There are 7.5 billion people on Earth, and yet it can seem like a lonely place. :)
- SpiritBear
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  Thank you. Yeah. I’ll pass the favor on. Have a great life!
- Opinion Owner
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  Oh, and never talk about wanting a friends with benefits until you get to know them better. They might want the same thing, but they are too ashamed to talk about it.
Anonymous
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Hot or not lol , it’s like a hookup/friend making/dating app or tinder which is pretty much the same thing
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SonOfLucifer Xper 5
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Online fwb? How does that work
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- SpiritBear
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  Just sending nudes, but also being friends too

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Secret6620 Master
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Tinder🖤
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JC103 Guru
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Almost every dating app lol
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Géraldine_c777 Xper 2
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Ohh sweet baby, my heart with you
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- SpiritBear
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  What does that mean? That what I asked was kinda sad? Well, I know, and it's been 10+ months since I wrote this... but it still honestly applies. Do you have any good solutions?
- Géraldine_c777
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  Dm me to find out more about your story
- SpiritBear
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  I dm'd you. You there?
Cowboy6666 Master
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Tinder or GAG LOL
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- SpiritBear
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  GAG? Where would I do that?
- MemeMaester
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  Yeah GAG is pretty good for finding a sexting partner
- SpiritBear
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  @MemeMaster how would you even do that?
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- MemeMaester
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  Yuh chat with a cute girl, make her know you can satisfy her needs (if you can't then don't bother) smoothly, move to Snapchat and have fun
- SpiritBear
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  How do I chat with a cute girl? How does one initiate such things?
- MemeMaester
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  Ffs 🤦🏻‍♂️ tf are these questions
- SpiritBear
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  I’m being serious. How do I get a girl in my dms? Do I just ask a bunch of women like some pussy beggar?
- MemeMaester
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  Where tf is your common sense dude
- SpiritBear
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  I’m very new to this shit. I get tinder, but isn’t gag just a bit much?
- MemeMaester
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  "a bit much" ?
- SpiritBear
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  I don’t fucking know! I just don’t see many girls that would be down for that!
- MemeMaester
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  Ok then go to tinder i give up