Which feels better and which do you women prefer: vaginal or clitoral stimulation?

From an objective point of view, which feels better and which do you do more often?
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  • Thanks for A2A.

    Women are used to touch, and later masturbate only externally, especially as virgins, but also later in life.

    Since the sexual revolution, women and men were led to believe that the clitoris is the only sensitive area in a woman’s body, and that clitoral stimulation is necessary to achieve orgasm.

    Since then it’s been clit, clit, clit, clit, clit, clit, clit, clit.

    The clitoris is easy to find, easy to arouse, and easy to orgasm from.

    In comparison, experiencing a vaginal orgasm is a bit more complex;
    It takes much more openness, willingness, and surrender on the part of the woman;
    Patience, experience and persistence on the part of her partner;
    And various situational conditions (lifestyle, health, lack of stress, ambiance)

    I’m not saying that clitoral orgasms are a sin, or that they are bad, or that if you are only having them, there is something wrong with you.

    It’s good to accept where you are at, and know that more is yet to come.

    But just imagine:
    What if you could experience the vast range of orgasms? There are over 20 different kinds of them.

    The clitoris is a sacred, beautiful, crucial part of a woman’s body and sexuality.

    But it’s not the only place.

    There is a vast uncharted blissful world in there, in your vagina, waiting to be found, yearning to be honored, celebrated, and awakened.

    Women who experience real vaginal orgasms usually prefer those over clitoral orgasms, because they feel better – physically, emotionally, energetically, and spiritually.

    Ask a hundred women and get a hundred different answers. Ask the same woman on a hundred different days and you'll likely get a hundred different answers as well.

    There is no one answer to the question as every woman is different and what appeals on one day may not on the next due to an enormous number of factors.

    Hope it Helps.

    Thanks for A2A.

  • I have neither of those things but I just wanted to say that I miss you and will you come home soon because the kids are asking after you.

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  • The vagina itself, like, the vaginal walls, do not really contain much in the way of pleasure receptors. And the vagina has no mechanism by which to originate an orgasm.

    However, for some women, pressure to certain parts of the vaginal walls applies pressure to parts of the clitoris, so they may perceive this as vaginal pleasure.

    Only 30% of women can orgasm through simple vaginal penetration.

    So, is vaginal sex pleasurable? Yes, in general, it can be, even more so if the woman is fully aroused, or after she has had an orgasm. Is it AS pleasurable as direct stimulation to the clitoris? It appears not.

    • For you, does more circumference/girth make it more probable that you’ll orgasm from penetration? Meaning, does more girth necessarily feel better or not really?

    • Nope. Most women orgasm from direct clitoral stimulation, and the penis is not really shaped the right way for that for most women's bodies. But it's not like oneway to orgasm is the right way. Men and women are each very unique in the things that get them excited and push them to that orgasm. But more or less, we each need either our penis or our clitoris (which is the same organ but smaller) stimulated most of the time.

    • Okay, thanks a lot for your response, really helpful.

  • Clitoral stimulation is physiologically more stimulating than vaginal stimulation, because the clitoris has several times more the sensory nerve endings than the vagina. And of the vagina itself, almost all of the nerve endings are packed into the first outer one-third.
    That said, arousal can be mediated just as much (if not moreso) by the psychological experience as the physical stimulation. But, generally speaking, most women prefer clitoral or both. Stats show that the vast majority of women can't orgasm from vaginal intercourse alone.

  • I cum faster with clitoral stimulation, but vaginal feels better. So when my boyfriend does down on me I like to have him finger me hard and be sparing with the clit...

    • A finger feels good for you?

    • Yeah, probably since I haven't had full on sex yet. Or he is just that good lol

    • Lol okay, thanks for your response.

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  • They're both amazing in really different ways. Clitoral is easier but lately vaginal has been better.

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  • Vaginal is better for longer, built up pleasure but clitoral gets it there quickly and more intense.
    If I could only pick one I’d choose vaginal as it feels good in more than one way, but personally I love both at the same time

    • What about vaginal exactly is so appealing for you? Does more girth correlate to feeling better?

    • The stretch, the fullness, bumping my cervix after I’ve orgasmed is pleasurable for me and my husband is just the right size to hit my g-spot with penetration

    • So, more girth=feeling better?

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  • I didn't even know what a clit was until i started playin with myself at age 20 lmao. So before then when my ex played with me, i only enjoyed vaginal stimulation from his finger. However i prefer nipple stimulation over both

  • Vaginal feels better, clitoral more often.

    • What about vaginal does it make it feel better? The clitoris has tremendously more sensitivity.

    • The strength and speed of the thrusts of vaginal. Even though clitoral has more stimulation it is not as intense to orgasm from.

    • Would you say a man with more girth gives you a higher probability of orgasm through vaginas or not necessarily?

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  • The girls I have had sex with say they get off easier of the clit is involved.

    • Yeah, but does that make it necessarily feel better?

    • They do not seem to complain about their orgasms.

    • Okay, thanks for your response man.

  • How would I choose one? BOTH.

    • Which feels better objectively speaking? A guy who’s performs oral on you with mastery technique or penetration in your favorite position? Just penetration, no clitoral stimulation.

    • I can't choose. I always end up doing both no matter what. My sex life isn't limited.

    • I know but you have to pick one.

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  • Most women prefer clitoral.
    I prefer vaginal, lol.

    • Would you say that vaginal feels better objectively speaking or is it because you imagine a man penetrating you, which makes it feel better in your head? I think that’s the appeal of penetration to be honest. It probably doesn’t feel as good as clitoral stimulation but since you can imagine a man penetrating more so, it might have more of an appeal.

    • You got the right idea.

  • Vaginal for me! Clitoral stimulation is nice, but vaginal stimulation just feels so much better.

    • Does more girth equate to better?

    • Up to a certain point, yes. Enough for a stretched and filled feeling while he’s inside me is good, but too much girth just hurts.

    • Okay, thanks Elliegirl

  • Clitoral, absolutely.

  • It's my understanding that not all women can even have an orgasm from vaginal stimulation. It's also my understanding that the distance between the clitoris and the vaginal opening has something to do with it.

    The nerves that make the clitoris so sensitive form a "stalk" that extends inside the woman's body and terminates on the surface of the interior of the vagina - at the G-Spot. It also extends laterally down the sides of the vulva, close to the surface. Assuming what I said above is true, perhaps it's the angle of this nerve bundle relative to the clitoris that makes the difference.

    As to what feels better, my experience is that clitoral orgasms are easier to achieve but not as intense. If a woman is capable of getting off through vaginal stimulation, it's a much more profound experience. From what I can tell, that is.

  • Vaginal feels better in my experience

    • Curious, does more girth feel better or not necessarily?

    • Not many girls can't really tell the difference in the actual feel just that the clit has more of a sensation which makes them feel its better

    • I meant, does more girth feel better vaginally or not necessarily?

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  • Clitoral, but ONLY if done right.

    • I see. Also, I’m curious, does more girth/thickness necessarily feel better for you during vaginal?

    • Yeah, but even the smallest tool could feel good if the technique is right

    • Okay, thanks a lot

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  • Probably clitoral since it's the most sensitive thing on a woman's body..

  • Both

    • Okay thanks

  • Vaginal is better for me

    • Does more girth=better feeling? Or not

    • I've only been with one guy so I really couldn't compare

    • Oh really? Okay, well, thanks for your response TuMeManques

  • Both at the same time mmmmm 😋

    • Of course always, but which would you say feels better overall? Meaning, does penetration without clitoral stimulation feel better than clitoral stimulation alone?

    • That's a tricky one. I like both separately. I'd have to say cliteral is best

    • Spell check 😂

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  • They both feel good but clitoral stimulation.

    • Feels better.

  • For me I think clitoris has more stimulation than the vagina

  • I prefer my clitoris getting stimulated

  • Why did you invite me to answer this? Lol

  • I don't have a vag or a clit big boy ;)

    • I could’ve sworn...

    • You'll need to conduct thorough investigations after the holidays

    • I’ll just take your word for it. I don’t want to go snooping in deep dark places

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