Which gender is more likely to be a virgin nowadays?

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Most of you women would be virgins right now as we speak if you were born a man
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  • In this day and age I would say men.

    I have read multiple reports over the pasts several months that say most men are single while most women are not.

    This means that the bulk of women are sleeping around with only a few , high - level alpha males. The lowly beta males are not getting much action.

    I think much of it has to do with dating app, the loosing of sexual mores and also women's nature. Women always want the high quality unavailable man that is already taken. Every man knows that the ladies always go for men that are already spoken for.

    Right now I am single. I am 6'1 and hit the gym 2-3 times a week, I am not super buff but I have some decent tone on me. I will often catch women checking me out but this does not mean that getting a date is necessarily easy. When I tell a women I am single it changes her tone - I can almost see the fire in their eyes die out. They will start asking how come and what is wrong with you and basically their demeanor will become very negative , very fast.

    On the other hand , the times I have had a girlfriend I have noticed that other women will almost instantly take a shine to me - some will even go out out of their way to flirt. This is something I have seen many times since my college days:

    The spoken for man has many ladies after him while the single men gets no attention.

    Some years ago their was a story that I read in some long taken down redpill post on reddit. It goes something like this:

    A husband and wife are on vacation at a fun park. They spend some time walking around looking for a good ride that they can both have fun on. The husband sees one ride in particular that has very few people on it and almost no one in line.

    He says" Honey , look here! This ride looks cool and there is almost no one in line. Let's get in this one. We won't have to wait for hours to get on. We could be on that ride in just a few minutes. "

    His wife responds: "OK , but look at this one ride over there" she says, pointing out to some other ride just across the fun park. The husband looks and sees that the ride his wife is referring to is packed to the brim and must have at least several hundred people in line - all waiting their turn under the hot sun to get on the ride.

    The husband says : But dear, that one is packed!!! We will have to wait for hours just to ride on that thing!!"

    His wife responds: "Yes , but if it's packed that means it has to be good"

    • Very interesting take. But yes. I’ve heard it said that women chase after the guy whom other women seem to be interested in. They all flock to the same thing

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  • Being completely honest, I think women are still more likely to be virgins. Even though you have all the guys out there complaining about how easy it is for women to get sex compared to them who are not being successful, you have to factor in that there are still a lot of women who are surprisingly still virgins because they don't want to just give it up to any guy and many still do want to lose it to the right guy.

    It's a lot of 20something year-olds and even some women in their 30s who are these kinds of virgins and are not telling people that because they know they're going to be judged for it but also preyed on by men who crave virgins.

    As much as guys don't want to accept it, and as much as women want men to be unsuccessful with sex, a guy literally can always have an opportunity to get sex. And it's super easy to get sex from a woman who isn't attractive if you're really desperate. Even with women who are attractive, you can get sex if you really know how to handle yourself with them.

    • my case

    • @kitty71 And that's okay.

    • Disagree. Women tend to only fck chad thundercocks

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  • I was virgin till 22 and nobody believed I was a virgin.

    I don’t think it’s that uncommon as people think.

    For some reason, people assume if you are sexy and attractive - there’s no way for you to be virgin.

    • That's your personel choice. You could lose anytime you want but choose to be which is fine

  • I can't say. I mean, I'm sure there's lots of people in their 20s and 30s that are virgins still. They just keep hush about it. Even I'm still a virgin.

    • In general

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  • Men... bc a lot of men just don't want to sleep around with every chick they come across. They pride themselves of who they want to lose their virginity to with a unique girl.

    • Exactly!!

  • Definitely men, and that counts at any age, really.

    However, if you only count people who remain without sex by there own choice then it may be more women in the age group below 25.

  • I think it´s tricky to answer because any answer is an assumption. on the one hand it´s true that there are many women that don´t want to give their virginity to any guy and wait for a special guy. But on the other hand just because the chance of getting to have sex in principle since the number of women a guy can get in contact the number of guys that are virgin hasn´t gone down because the expectations in a guy have changed.

    It´s definetely true that true for some guys it has become easier to have sex but not for all. Because at the end of the day it´s a question of biology. Some guys don´t get to have sex because they have lost in the genetic lottery. Their genes don´t allow them to be big and muscular. They might get strong but they probably don´t get big muscles, they don´t have a deep voice, don´t have much beard as well. So might stay virgin for life or get lucky meeting a woman that is desperate to have sex with them.

    At the end of the day I´d guess it´s guys that are more likely to be still a virgin because they are supposed to play the active part in such a situation. The problem is that many young guys just don´t get what it takes to get into a relationship so they prefer porn instead. Virtual reality glasses are close to enter the market and it´s just a question of the time when the porn industry has found a way to show porn on them, too.

    Therefore the number of guys that have an erectile dysfunction before 40 might sky rock in the future.

    To be honest I don´t care what´s the true answer is. Because to me it´s not at all important and just a way to increase the current hysteria concerning dating and relationships.

  • It easy for women to find sex, that's why it more achievement for woman to keep legs close.

    Which gender is more likely to be a virgin nowadays?
  • I think men are a hundred times more likely to be virgins nowadays than women, and I'm equally sure that men, in general have substantially more difficulty having sex with a beautiful, desirable woman than a woman has finding an attractive guy to date.

    Thirdly, I honestly think that the harder it is for guys to get laid, the better it is for us to evolve into more thoughtful, courteous and considerate people.

    • Exactly. But you must understand women control access to sex and they’re still putting out way too easily for the demographic of men that fit the bill. Ie the Chad Thundercocks

    • @WhiteBoyChill I've noticed that, and it makes me so jealous, knowing that he's fucking her every weekend, without sacrificing anything at all, but she works me relentlessly, and demands that I pay her bills, buy her new shoes and outfits to wear when she's with him, etc.

    • That’s why average guys should just leave the dating market alltogether and we’ll become happier

  • Maybe if d! ck pics declined and guys didn’t say dumb things, they’d get laid more.

    • There's a youtuber that did a social experiment with a very good looking guy and he tested to see how far you could get away with saying dumb shit and being successful and the women still replied and wanted to meet him

    • Hahahahaha

  • Men but if you really just want to lose your virginity either gender can just get it done. The guy just need to pay for the service.

    • IF he's FUCKING UNDESIRABLE YES. He should pay. Every last penny. No sane women wants to reproduce with some no viable, unfit, no testosterone, old, grotesque male 🖕

    • People rarely want a kid the first time they have sex. Even the women at the bottom of the attraction scale would need to pay, even guys has a limit on what they have sex with. So no need for such harch language.

  • Worldwide? I have no idea. In the US it's women, but only slightly. The statistics I could find give the median age of sexual debut in the US as 16.8 years for males, 17.2 years for females.

  • It has always been men. Male lines are much more likely to end than women's.

  • Men 100%

  • Everyone, regardless of gender, is a virgin... until they're not.

  • Women tend to have worse morals so more of them have multiple casual sexual partners.

    I know that some people will say the difference is just because of the 80/20 thing, but the unattractive women have a hard time too.

    And there are attractive men that get approached by women that don't have casual sex because their morals are better than that.

  • Men. But not for lack of trying but they keep talking.

    • Gurantee most of you girls if you were born a guy would still be virgins right now

    • Ngl the girl in her pfp would definitely be a virgin as a male

  • Depends on age. 15-24, guys.

  • Woman

  • Hard data indicated men are more likely to be virgins these days due to the combination of online data and female selectivity.

  • Men ofc

  • Don't worry, purity culture fucks us all

    • I'm actually a virgin and y'all make me embarrassed.

  • The boys.

  • it is men. It is much easier for women to get sex. This is very discriminatory.

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