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Which is better wet or tightness when you do the deed?

i’m curious like i bet it feels better for guys because for women it’s just an object going in and out but for guys they get to feel the warmth and secure inside aha
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  • Mine is much thicker than average. Never encountered a woman that was loose per say but some certainly were tighter than others.

    There generally 3 types of gals, 1 as she gets wet her pussy doesn't necessarily loosen up during foreplay, she may or may not loosen up when she orgasms. 1 that does loosen up during foreplay but remains that way throughout and another kind that she will loosen up slightly during foreplay and fully loosen up after her orgasm.

    I rather she be dripping wet and not tight than tight but not very wet.

    When she has wetness but not tightness? If I'm doing her in doggy position then there won't be any differences as I had already decided I would be doing her hard.

    If she is being done in missionary position then I would slowly insert the head into her.

    If it was tight to enter her, then I would lower my hips, raise her knees a bit more and then insert into her 1-2" at a time till it is all in her. Thrusting I won't add any upward angle but some of the strokes will have a slight circular motions to it. After she orgasms then I may add more circular motions to the thrust till I orgasm. The 2nd and 3rd time would mostly be the same though the 3rd after she orgasms I would add some upward angle and more circular motion to the thrust.

    If it was less tight to enter her, then I would raise my hips a bit, use my knees to spread her legs a bit more and then I would put lots of strength to insert around 7" of my dick into her. Thrusting, I will add some upward angle and the strokes will have circular motions to it. After she orgasms, I may move her to doggy position where I would do her a bit harder till I orgasm. The 2nd time, I will put lots of strength so most of my dick enters her pussy in that 1 stroke and this will be the usual from then on. 3rd would be doggy which will be hard from the start to finish.

    4th time onwards? The one that was tight to enter would be done the same way as the one that was easier to enter and by the 7th time or so there won't be any difference.

  • Wetness is pretty essential to sex, yeah sure you can use lube but if she's not wet, she's not ready for sex. Tightness is all very nice but it's subjective, if the guy has a thick cock then tightness isn't an issue, if he's got a pencil dick then tightness is all important.

    • this is so true lol

    • There will come a time in life when lube will become a necessity...

    • Thanks for the MHO

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  • Wet is always better. Shows the woman is actually enjoying it and into it.

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  • Well if it's just an object going in and out of you I would get up and walk away because the guy clearly doesn't know what he's doing because where the guy is doing it right you're going to feel him you're going to feel something so beautiful he will turn you inside out it will be so intense so hot so beautiful you will be soaking wet and you will not be able to stop coming your pussy will pulsate. And every time the DePaul Sage you will come and it will become a point in time where you cannot stop that's when you have become one it's not an object you are one with that person and it is so very beautiful no I don't like tightness I like wetness because then I can use it the way I want to use it I can make her feel of what I want her to feel if it's tight and I have not got her hot enough yet and he's going to go very very slow motion until I get her soaking wet because there is a sensation I want her to feel coming from me and the way that I do it and the way that I will do it is by looking into her eyes reading the color of her cheeks the way that she breathes the way that she moans because if I can do all that and she's telling me exactly what she wants at that moment without saying one word and we are one no it's all you feel is an object going in and out of you I would get up and walk away it's not even worth it

    • i dont mean it literally buddy chill

    • just saying how guys have it better probably

    • Well I don't know if guys have it better I think everybody has it been and it's only going to be better because you make it that way. I mean you could be talking about anything but if you're talkin about sex I don't know about that because all I know is where I take myself I love it but I can only get myself there when I'm doing the same thing to a woman because I want her to feel the exact same thing are deeper but in order to get there you have to allow and love yourself to get there and same with the I mean I have some intense orgasms I mean intense but I can tell just by the look on the girl's face that I'm with she's having the same intense orgasm or better I really don't know it's very interesting all I know is that the deeper the harder that I can get the girl in with two have a good for orgasm I'm going to get that same one so I mean and make sure I please her and not everybody has the same exact orgasm anyway so I think whatever you put into it is what you get out of it

  • Nah, kiddo. That's like asking if salt or pepper is "better."

    You need the right mixture of both to get a good experience.

    You'll learn that and more, in later life.

    • Not a great analogy as I don't like pepper, just salt.

  • Cream all over your stomach to your ass please

  • Tightness - no doubt about it. If she's not wet, I can always add lubrication. I can't make it any tighter.

    • Topical astringents can temporarily shrink the vagina- - - - -

  • If it's too tight then there us no sex without the wetness

    • "Too tight"? No such thing. Just add lube.

    • @SinceYouAsked I don't want to sound like I am bragging here, but some men don't always fit in some women and I don't like lube.

  • Wet.

  • Hmmmm, i think if it feels tight when you put the head in but when you feel that wetness, it's not so badly. If it's too wet your cock will slide right out, it's happened to be before with one girl, then I've also fucked a very tight pussy pussy before and i couldnt wait to pull out to cum as i couldnt di it in her.

  • My dick is warm too missy.
    They sure make a lot of noise and squirm around in pleasure for such an unremarkable sensation.

  • I have to say the tightness is a lot better and also it is she is too wet while I am thrusting and can come out eaiser that why I mostly let her do cowgirl position.

  • Wet……

  • Wetness…. You can’t fake that….

  • not just feel but taste too... ;)

  • A wet New Jersey Turnpike is better than a dry New England creek bridge.

  • wetness... is a Must...

  • Wetness is a must or lube but tightness makes it feel better.

  • Wetness is essential, tightness no problem

  • Its a awesome feeling

  • Wet is better.

  • Wet is better

  • best one got the blend of both.

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