Which one are you?

[Gwenhwyfar]

[Obtuse]

Vanilla/dom. Well, I took some test long ago that people asked on here.

== Results from bdsmtest. org ==
97% Dominant
73% Vanilla
67% Daddy/Mommy
54% Voyeur
45% Owner
42% Experimentalist
37% Exhibitionist
35% Brat tamer
34% Master/Mistress
31% Primal (Hunter)
16% Ageplayer
1% Rigger
1% Brat
1% Non-monogamist
0% Rope bunny
0% Slave
0% Degradee
0% Boy/Girl
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Submissive
0% Masochist
0% Degrader
0% Pet
0% Sadist
0% Switch

I don't have any sadistic or masochistic tendencies so you have to put aside ideas of dominance like tying girls up, or choking them, or slapping their butt, or anything like that. I'm a weird kind of vanilla dom. My idea of dominance just ties to control and protecting/serving others. It's not about hurting them or having my way with them or even dominating them.

[Obtuse]

I am a bit of a control freak. I don't like receiving BJs for long (I am not in control). I might like face-fucking where I would have that control, except I have no sadistic side and don't want to hurt her. I like going down on a woman -- some people might consider this sub -- I consider it dom and maybe even the most ultimate form of dominance since I'm entirely in control of her pleasure and she's at my mercy squirming. I don't like cowgirl position -- I get irritated with the lack of control and start grabbing her body and trying to move it with my hands until I lean up to lotus where I regain some control. My favorite position is doggy.

[Obtuse]

Someone told me I sound like a "servant leader" as a business analogy. That sounds about right. I want to lead but ultimately with the purpose of serving and protecting those who follow.

[Obtuse]

Also don't like girls undressing me and trying to seduce me. I undress her. I seduce her. I like to be in control. I protect her. She doesn't protect me.

[Gwenhwyfar]

That sounds awesome. And yeah, she would be at your mercy squirming.

[chriscdi]

i think im dom, i at least have the mindset of one 🤷🏽‍♂️

[Gwenhwyfar]

I had a feeling you would say that

[chriscdi]

what made you have that feeling? cause im a majestic king 🤔🙂

[Gwenhwyfar]

Just had a feeling you could dominate a girl into blissful ecstasy and make her use her own fingers to do it

[chriscdi]

wait i have done that, with my beautiful majestic words you know, now i see where you got that feeling from 🤔 carry on missy 😊

[Gwenhwyfar]

Now that you’ve given me permission, I’m defo gonna carry on with what I was doing 😊

[chriscdi]

good girl 😁👍

[Gwenhwyfar]

👍🌸💦

[Elliegirl]

I’m mostly a sub. Maybe mildly switch. It can be fun to take charge from time to time. But I’ve n the realm of bdsm, we’re pretty vanilla.

[Elliegirl]

* in the realm. Damn autocorrect smh 🤦‍♀️

[Gwenhwyfar]

I’m pretty much the same way. Check out Tharkold if you get bored sometime. The demons are fugly, but that’s a literal realm of BDSM 😊.

[thegirlfromthething]

Between sub and vanilla. I’d say I’m submissive but not into hardcore stuff like being tied up or choked.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Same. Though silk ropes can be fun as a once in a lifetime treat.

[Secret6620]

A completely vanilla submissive in the bedroom... Can't wait to finally get the courage to ask my partner to take me over the edge while I fulfill my fantasies

[Gwenhwyfar]

Super hot 😍

[Secret6620]

BLUSHES 🙈💓🎀

[Gwenhwyfar]

Get him to play with you under the tablecloth at a restaurant. Try and resist cumming while the waiter or waitress is standing there no matter how bad he teases your clit or vibrates your little spot.

[BeachMaster]

Sometimes like being in control of pleasure. Sometimes like them in control of it.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Cool

[Dargil]

I call it French Vanilla. A few kinks here and there.

[Kezzz]

I'm a dominant but I'm understanding when I need to be

[skittles2017]

I can be both depending on the woman I have in bed with me

[gibgabbs]

Sub. I love serving with my mouth.

[Orangeandturquoise]

A or D or just a very good AD haha

[Gwenhwyfar]

True 😊

[Orangeandturquoise]

Would you say that describes me well? Haha 😊

[Gwenhwyfar]

Totally 😊

[Meatboy02]

I like being dominant

[Gwenhwyfar]

Awesome 😊

[Meatboy02]

Yes haha so keep on my good side lol

[Meatboy02]

Or I'll have to teach you a lesson 😂😂

[ZSean]

Dom. at least from experiences so far it is much more fun to be in more control

[Gwenhwyfar]

Like at the concert?

[ZSean]

Haha that too. Yeah I mean I've had other actual sexual interactions besides that but yeah it def added to the being in control factor

[Gwenhwyfar]

You probs loved getting her panties all soaked...

[ZSean]

Haha that I did. definitely a turn on getting a girl worked up like that. I like how you remembered that haha

[Gwenhwyfar]

I bet she came at least once

[ZSean]

Haha probably especially with how agressive and how hard she was pressing

[Gwenhwyfar]

Grinding against your fingers in just the right spots

[ZSean]

Haha I feel like you really like that story. I def have some other interesting ones kinda exhibisionist (public wise if you want to hear) can always pm me

[QuietRunner]

Sometimes dom sometimes sub

[Gwenhwyfar]

I’m the same way, but more sub

[jon28805]

I'm probably mostly sub.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Cool

[TheMeditativeOwl]

I'm dom but not extremely dom

[Driveitlikeustoleit]

Definitely dom. But not overly dominant

[Gwenhwyfar]

Awesome

[Anonymous]

I didn't see my favorite color of power ranger so I'm going with number C : "waffle cone". Can't exactly say as to why but I think you'd agree such a voting option would be best placed under vanilla.

[Anonymous]

I feel mostly submissive and I sometimes wonder if it was because of my upbringing or if it's just in my DNA or if it's just I need to have higher testosterone

[Gwenhwyfar]

Might be DNA

[Opinion Owner]

I know that me personally I have always hated the gender-role that guys have to make the first move and be the initiator in starting a relationship, you could say it's probably the only thing I've always hated about being born a guy.

[Gwenhwyfar]

I guess I like being more passive, but I’m pretty good at flirting

[Opinion Owner]

Why am I not shocked or surprised, so you would never make the first move or ask a guy out first?

[Gwenhwyfar]

Maybe I did once or twice

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like you are implying you would never do it again

[Gwenhwyfar]

No. I would if I really liked him. But I’m more comfortable being asked out.

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like a good way to put it, you are just taking advantage of the status quo

[Gwenhwyfar]

I guess

[Anonymous]

I’m a sub without a dom. My SO is sort of a sub too.