Which one you prefer to masturbate to?

And why?

Porn
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Sexting
Vote B
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  • Never sexting. The problem with sexting to me is that I can never find a woman who isn't unoriginal.

    "My P* is so wet and I want your hard C* inside me."

    That's boring and so unoriginal. High school dropout level. Might as well type, "I'm dumb and lack any sense of originality. Here are my titties!"

    Any woman who doesn't disappoint me this way would never sext in the first place.

    Porno is mostly disappointing to me but I can search for something interesting. Skip skip skip skip skip.

    • Perfect example of how not to sext yes.

    • You're right, that is boring. Very much so. It reads like a script, which isn't how it should be. Sponteneity is important, and being able to improvise on the spot. A sense of humour helps too, and it also helps to actually be really horny when you're doing it (and not just pretending to be for the sake of the other person).

    • @Siri137 How would a maximally spontaneous, poetic, sexting session read like?

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Most guys are visual so porn but if I am sexting with a girl I know and know how banging her body i high get really turn on and if we are sexting with pics or short clips of each other masturbating and cumming that’s what I prefer. It always great knowing me and a real person is getting off with me.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I usually like to masturbate to porn because I suck at sexting. I can do either, but I'm not really that imaginative to be able to do the erp and shit that a lot of people are into. Don't get me wrong; I love having a sexy chat with a sexy guy. But sometimes it's easier for me to get off if I get to see a hot vid of a dude with a bwc fucking the shit out of some lucky girl. I grab my 16 inch dildo and try to pretend that I'm the bitch getting her pussy ruined by an alpha male.

    • Sexting is sending and receiving sexually explicit messages, photos, and/or videos. Since you like the videos you can add those to your sexting. That can elevate your enjoyment of sexting. In any case, the exchange of visual images - photos or videos - can increase your enjoyment.

    • Don't overthink what you're going to say, just tell him "oh, I really wanna do ___!" Listen to some audiobooks and stuff to learn more about how to be descriptive, and talk about facial expressions, emotions felt, and what you're thinking while doing something. If I do say so myself, I'm a poet at such things, even when I'm drunk. Thanks to audiobooks I've read, which taught me how to be so descriptive😊

    • @Rangers Damn, that sounds like a lot of work...

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  • Porn, although I have done it while sexting too.

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  • Sexting is more personal to me because my partner is actually responding to me and there would be that emotional connection, as temporary as it may be. Porn is nice, too, though, because the visuals and everything. But back when I had a webcam I would sometimes videocall girls on Discord and then I could have the best of both worlds.

  • The sexting I have done has been with someone I know. Explicit pictures that each of us want. It just doesn't get better!

  • Sexting I would consider more real that simply watching porn , maybe a video call then a series of messages.

  • Definitely sexting

  • Lately, I've enjoyed sexted while stroking. It's always better with a friend. I have a few that I hookup with here and on other sites. One is usually around and feeling playful.

    I like messaging in cinemagraphic detail what I'd be doing if we were together. The roleplay evolves based upon her feedback. Finishing while typing can be difficult, but we always seem to manage.

    fwiw, I don't have as good a time watching porn. It's distracting how fake it is.

  • Definitely sexting with a girl, it can be a huge turn on if we're both feeling very sexual !

    For example:

    "Hi Disha, what are you wearing right now?"

    "Nothing"

    "Nothing -- omggggg !"

    You get the idea, right )

  • Sexting for sure, but a good sexting partner can be hard to find sometimes. But depends on how I feel.

    • Saw a bunch of you say sexting is boring and then a bunch of you describe examples of the boring stuff. Yes the cliche sending each other dirty talk is absolutely boring to me as well. Doesn't matter how good of a writer she is ill never enjoy sexting that is only that. But in my opinion if that is what your doing during sexting you haven't even been close to whats so fun about it. The way I sext is completely different. Its instruction based, telling each other exactly how to pleasure. Basically giving each other control over your bodies trough words and doing relentless teasing that way. Girls who are new to that but want to return the favor and drive me wild I teach my techniques and them varying it up is what makes it fun. The fact your toying with each others build up and its up to the partner to stop being a tease and finally let you cum already is hot. Has a bit of a dom/sub element to it if you want to play it that way, but you can also turn it into a bargaining game where you for exanple have to convince the other to let you cum and its just this intense nutual tease fest. Its stuff like that that makes it less predictable than porn and what keeps it so fun. If all you are doing is sending descriptions of dirty talk you might as well watch porn.

  • sexting with pictures! that's super hot. knowing the person over some thot is so much better

  • Both

  • I'm a guys, and we guys are visual creatures.

  • Neither. I quit porn years ago, not for moral reasons, quite the opposite, made my sex life exponentially better.

  • I've never sexted with anyone.

  • Definitely porn. I've never really gotten into sexting.

  • What am I gonna do, sit there and try to read shit while I'm spankin"?

  • I like them both but if I have the time I like sexting because it's a little more real and gives a nice variety then just watching random porn

  • Sexting if the other person is good at it and doesn't do things like changing the subject. It is more personal than porn so it's more of a turn-on.

  • When you know... You know ;)

  • Sexting.
    The dirty talk whether with girlfriend or strangers is a much better turn on than watching porn.

  • I've watched porn since I was 12 years old... It's a bit old now. I prefer a real partner to sext with. Not A. I. either. I want to know the minds of the girls I sext. I want to know what turns them on, what their limits are and everything else in between. I love to sext.

  • The safer one

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