Which position is best for losing your virginity?

any position is gonna hurt but I wanna be on top for some reason I don't know why but I don't wanna do it and then be like nvm so yeah and can you guys tell me about the time you lost your virginity or took someone's virginity
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If you are on top you have to do most of the 'work' but you can control the depth of penetration, and the intensity, and rate of in and out.
    One of the two virgins I have been with liked the idea of her standing, at the end of the bed, while I kind of laid back, close to the end. She guided me in, and she chose how deep, and when, and all of everything, really, basically standing, and being able to control the depth of penetration, with her legs, bending just a little, or more, once inside.

  • Even if you weren't sure if you wanted to be on top or not, I'd suggest cowgirl because in this position you are dominant and have control of the flow... But you need to change position eventually, so I'd recommend missionary because in the position you are facing him and can push him away if he starts going faster and deeper which might be uncomfortable for a virgin girl...

Most Helpful Girls

  • When my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time, we did missionary with lube so it was not that painful. It was a different sensation so he did have to go slow.

  • if his dick is long enough, the spoons position is the best for the first time.
    i was given advice by an older sister and it really worked on me.

  • I think girl on top so you can control the penetration. I also agree with Harvest Moon that lube is very helpful.

  • I think for the first time missionary is the only position that you will feel comfortable to do.

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  • Legs open position.

  • Missionary.

  • It would seem top is best since you get to control it. Me and my now-ex both lost our virginity in the woods and had her up against a tree (standing up). Didn't want to make a mess of the bed but there was almost no blood anyway. For her it didn't hurt that much, just at first for a few seconds. Every girl is different.

  • Try the wheel barrel

  • Missionary in my opinion

  • Well if a girls a virgin a guy should perform missionary but if It's a guy who's the girl should perform cowgirl have control make things as comfortable as possible for both of you i was on bottom she was on top when i lost mine I've never took someones.

  • It doesn't always hurt when you're a virgin. Just use some lube to facilitate the process.

  • dat missionary

  • Missionary in my opinion

  • Missionary is probably best. It won't always hurt the first time

  • arabian goggle or inverted bowl