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Sexual Health Which sex position is the best for a virgin girl?
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I've heard from many that missionary may not be considered to be the best for a virgin girl and that the spoon may be the best since it is less intense penetration but then some people say girl on top is good for the first time as well because the girl can control the amount of length is going inside her, so I'm not sure!
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Oh and when I mean the best I mean the less painful one !
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20 22Missionary is most suitable.
no why would you think this?
I'll say none of the above. It doesn't matter which position it may be. Anytime a guy penetrate a girl, it's going to hurt no matter what.
Yeah but clearly if someone had doggy that would be even more painful compared to missionary
Overall it depends on the guy and girl. Cause a virgin girl wanted to do Doggystyle with me. And she loved it even though she bleed a little.
Honestly, missionary is the best for a virgin cuz if you try to have sex when you're on top, it's definitely not comfortable. Ridding is after a few times. It's hard to do your first few times. So missionary eases you into it. Especially if you're really tight and don't do anything to yourself.
I would say if the lady is light, standing congress. If not, ever considered the modified missionary? Or maybe the downward doggie?
Any position for anal sex and oral sex since then you can still remain a "technical" virgin :-P
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missionary definitely.
It's the 69.
That is not intercourse taht is oral sex
@kitty71 Never said it couldn't be oral.
Missionary..
The one where you press your legs together and wait for your wedding night.
... Nah
Cowgirl because you control the situation.
Missionary. Get a clear view of each other for your very first time. It's your first and, therefore, an emotionally momentous situation too. If he loves you, it is emotionally momentous for him too. Let him have the pleasure of watching your expressions. If he's a virgin too, you must both get a clear view of each other.
I agree with spoon, actually. Girl on top can be harder to figure out how to control depth until you’ve tried it a few times. Girl on top the way it’s shown in porn actually hits the cervix really easy.
Missionary tends to be common because it’s easy to change it up. You can spread yourself open more, use pillows, etc. The guy needs to be mindful, though, because he can push in too hard or too fast. Plus, if he puts all of his weight on you, it’s easy to feel out of breath and squished.
Honestly, it’s most important to understand the value of the clitoris and full female arousal. Being lubricated just enough to push the penis in shouldn’t be considered aroused enough. We actually change shape inside, too, when we’re really excited. Not to mention, actual lubrication isn’t just the natural sort of moist state of the vagina. So insist of lots of foreplay in a way that works for you.
When I had my first time, we started in missionary. It's good because you can lie there and try to relax so you're not too tense cuz then it'll hurt and if he's a good guy, which he better be, he'll go real slow so you're not uncomfortable. I was with my boyfriend of 1.5 years at the time (which is 2+ years now) whom I trust more than anyone and he was very patient and it didn't hurt at all. I ended up asking to get on top halfway through and it felt amazing and that's the position we both finished in.
I liked him on top so that way he just went in me and I got it. He knew what to do then it was all good.
Me on top was good for me
On top—you control penetration and flow
Flow?