While on a date with someone you’re attracted to and they mention no sex until marriage, what will you say/do?

While on a date with someone you’re attracted to and they mention no sex until marriage, what will you say/do?
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  • We'll see about that! Is the first thing that would come to my mind and you would really have to be strong willed to not give in because I would drive you nuts kissing you, blowing in your ear sending chills all over and so much more, driving you crazy. Making the tables turn and I become pray. Sweet and innocent is how woman put up the front, trust me I know. Once I get them going they're like a starving kitty I tell you, a wild one at that looking at me like a poor innocent little mouse they can't wait to gobble up.

    No, it would all depend on how much I was into her. The first thing I would ask myself now that I've been robbed of everything I worked so hard to get from my first marriage is, "is this the woman I really want to wait for?"
    My first wife was the sweetest little girl and we were together for six years prior to marriage. I was sixteen and she was fifteen when we started dating and we held out for quite some time.

    After the first day of marriage everything was okay but the second day? Oh my God! It was like I never knew her and marriage is forever but I wanted a divorce after the fist month. She was someone I never knew, hell I never heard of a person just totally changing the way she did! I tried to stick it out because that's how it is meant to be but it turned into pure darkness, after sixteen years of misery, I couldn't take the nagging, cheating, and lies anymore. I told her I was filing for a divorce and I won't even tell you what she did to me but it wasn't right and definitely not what anybody deserved!

    I don't think I would hold out to be honest.

    After my first marriage I told myself that I would never do it again but then I started thinking, I couldn't judge all women because of the one woman.

  • Toodles kiddo.

  • But what CAN we do before marriage? Nothing like a good bargain!

  • I would tell them that it’s only sex, what’s the big deal?

    • That sud have been a Thumbs Up

    • It's never "only" sex.

    • @ObscuredBeyond you can make it more than sex, but it’s still just sex

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  • I would be very happy.

  • Well, that’s fine. I don’t pay for stuff and take you on lavish trips and give lavish gifts until marriage either. Fancy restaurants will also wait until marriage as well.

  • One of my requirements is sex before I would even propse, so if it's no sex until marriage, it's not relationship.

  • Blocked and deleted

  • I'm not dating for the sex so before or after marriage doesn't matter.🙂

  • Let’s set a date?

  • I would say goodbye

  • It was a pleasure meeting you!

  • Well I'd like to talk to them and be open and I don't know if that would manageable but I'd be open and say that. I'd also possibly want to ask there reasoning, out of curiosity. But both parties need to share there opinions on it and then come to a decision together whether to try to persue a relationship.

  • That's assuming that I would ever date again, I won't. But assuming I would that's the only way I would date.

  • Ok, but do you want at least intimacy?

  • Respectfully say adios

  • I’d be chill with that. I’m the same way

  • I've never been on a date, so its hard to answer

  • Done a runna.

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