Whispered 'I love you' during sex?

[Anonymous]

Me and my ex have been talking everyday for the past 4 months, and he's at uni so I don't see him very often. He came home this weekend and I kind of want a friends with benefits relationship with him, and we met up and I went to his and we slept together and we stopped he looked down at me and said 'i love you'. I didn't say anything back and just acted like I didn't hear. After we slept together I turned over and he kept pulling me and was trying to kiss me, and I eventually gave in. In the past he used to just go straight to sleep after sex so I was a bit :/ when he did it. I'm just a bit confused with that all this means and if it's OK to have a friends with benefits with him?

[SophieaWoods11]

sounds like me still has feelings for you, it's usually rare that a guy wants to say somenting like that during sex, or at least with the guys I have been with in the past would never say somenthing like that during sex. If you want just sex he's not the guy for that.

[jaykuza]

naahh... he wants more than just fwb. you decide whether you want just friends with benefits or more.

[MakeLoveNotWar]

He wants a real relationship with you.