White stuff in his boxers? is he lying to me?

I had sex with my husband last night around 9pm. He took a shower afterwards and put on new boxers. This morning he changed his boxers before work also.
When he came home, he changed all of his clothes and I picked them up and noticed a small white stain in the front of his boxers and some white stuff to the left in the front of his boxers.
I questioned him and he said it was because we had sex last night. He said he didn’t masturbate and he wasn’t even sexually aroused today. How could there be semen from us doing it last night at 9pm? That seems impossible because he urinated and that flushes semen out right?
what do you think?
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How could semen come out of his penis 10 or so hours after we had sex?
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For anyone who says I am insecure or crazy or asks why I checked his boxers in the first place: I do all the laundry and I saw it when I picked it up. He obviously didn’t care if I would see it or didn’t know it was there. Im worried that I’m being cheated on. I think that is a valid concern/fear that many people have had at some point in their lives.
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  • For one, urine doesn't really flush out much if anything, unless you have a high fiber diet with extremely high fluid intake. Second, white stuff could be anything from sodium chloride from sweat, to dandruff, lint, soap residue, or a byproduct of the "new boxers" construction and storage, (including dessicants) soft water deposits from a water softener, hard water deposits of calcium and lime, deodorant, talcum powder, incomplete rinsing of soap and conditioning products, chemicals in the water or food you guys take into your bodies, air quality, and semen, which continues too ooz out of the penis hours after ejaculation during sex, even with urination being frequent, and if any physician told you otherwise, or that it just comes out in one fell set of squirts, than you need too report that incompetent quack too the medical board immediately, before they kill someone.
    Worst case scenario, if he's waisting his seed on self pleasuring instead of vaginal soiling, (which he isn't going too open up too you about through interigation or accusations) or unfaithful activity outside the home, (still won't open up too you as long as he's in the hot seat) a little honey is a lot more effective than a lot of vinigor, in getting your answer.

    • Thanks for your answer. How would I go about it if I wanted to get him to open up and be honest with me? I know there’s no way to make someone tell the truth but you’re right that “honey is better.”

    • Inquiring about his health in relation too what you are finding should seem inoffensive enough, considering all the environmental hazards we are exposed too in today's industrial society. Exploring new intimate activities with him will give you a better idea of where his head, and body, are at sexually and also give you greater access too his general overall health.

    • @citizenkirk If you just dribble it won't. But if you have a normal flow of urine it should clear anything out of your urethra such as semen, or if you are into anal, doo doo too.

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  • He may have been aroused at work.
    Men get aroused numerous times a day, whether we are consciously aroused or not.
    An erection will casually come and go and we’ll barely notice. If we do notice it, we simply grab our crotch and adjust IT to a more comfortable position.
    Sometimes there is ejaculate in the precum from an erection. (Hence why pregnancy can occur even if a man does not reach orgasm within a woman.)
    Sometimes this can stain our underwear through out the day.
    Note that this wouldn’t be a huge drenching, cumshot stain, the size of a hand and such. But there will be coin-size stains, depending on how long the erection present.

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  • He is an adult male. Its normal to have fluid coming out of his penis. It happens to us women as well. Our vagina discharges fluid throughout the day. I mean if he is cheating their would be other signs. You cannot accuse him of something like that just because of a stain on a boxer

    • Lmao not just adults but all males 😂

  • he probably got a little turned on by something and just squeezed some nice juices out and doesn't wanna say anything cause its embarrassing

    • I actually hope you’re right however that’s kinda scary for me because he was at work all day.

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  • Look I doubt he was cheating because if that was the case he wouldn’t have cum on here underwear. Most likely he jacked off watching porn and he came and when he pulled up his pants the residue stained the cloth of the boxers. Chill tf out

  • if he was cheating the white stuff would be inside some girl, and who cares if he's jerking off?

  • Probably better than having some brown spots in that area... Maybe he was eating a donut and some of the cream fell in his pants. It happens. 👍

    • 😂 Thanks for the laugh! It was definitely either pre cum or cum in one spot though. What worries me is the other white stain that did kind of look like something else.

  • Bitch, I cum straight into my underwear when masturbating and it just soaks into the cloth, there is no "white residue," no clue what you're talking about.

    • i’m not a bitch and you obviously refer to me as one because you watch a lot of porn and have been taught to treat women like crap. nice one!

    • also, I never said he came in his boxers. i’m saying he came somewhere else and it was leftover after he peed or something. or he was possibly turned on by someone during his workday.

    • Like... can you even be certain it's semen? Why the hell would it be in the front? There are much more obvious things that give cheating away than "there was a white thing on his underwear."

  • That's nothing. You should trust more your husband. If you keep acting like that one day it will be true.

  • First of all. have you thought it might be your juices? I've never got nut on my boxers after sex. Only after masturbating. Do you make him feel ashamed to please himself? Only time I've ever got anything on my boxers is if my dick is covered in both our nuts when I get up to pee because women's pussy's always leave white stains on their panties before wash

  • Another crazy, insecure, controlling, manipulative, female.

    I doubt your husband is cheating but if he is because your crazy is driving him away.

  • Possible he leaked from your sexy sex. Possible he cheated. I’m guessing since you’re asking you have other evidence too...

    • Have you ever had semen leak out even after urinating after ejaculation? I don’t really have other evidence.

    • Eh... yeah, not so much that it leaves noticeable stains. But all dicks are different. Do you not trust him?

    • I forgot to mention that the night we had sex... around 4/5AM I woke up to him touching me but we never had sex again. He got up for work around 7AM. Then put on new boxers and clothes.

  • You are right, after a guy cums he has to pee. That’s how nature lets it get clean.

  • I think you are really insecure and paranoid...

  • If it’s just a small stain, it’s probably precum. He was probably aroused at some point in the day and had an erection and it leaked out. That’s not unusual for a man. My boyfriend frequently has erections in the morning and sometimes randomly during the day. He probably was just embarrassed to admit the obvious because he felt you’d react negatively. He may have masturbated during the day and is hiding it. There’s always the chance he could be having an affair on his lunch break at work. However, if he’s still seeking out sex with you regularly, then that is probably not the case. I wouldn’t get too excited unless you have more to go on.

  • It could have been a pre cum stain from being aroused at some point during the day. But if that were true, then why was he aroused? Keep an eye on things and see if you notice it more often.

    • I forgot to mention that the night 9pm we had sex... around 4/5AM I woke up to him touching me but we never had sex again. He got up for work around 7AM. Then put on new boxers and clothes. Could pre cum from him touching me but not having sex have come out and stained his new clothes a few hours later?

    • No, not hours later.

  • He probably just masturbated.

  • I'm not sure what it is
    Maybe just ask him?

  • He probably jacked off, and you shouldn't put him on the witness stand over this.

  • So why would he have came in the boxers thats stupid

    • It was just a tiny stain like what’s left over after ejaculating.

    • So you have big trust issues. To search in his boxers for little stains.

    • yes i do have trust issues because i’ve been lied to and cheated on before. I’m smart enough to know that he was either turned on by someone during his workday or he masturbated/cheated on me.

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  • If he was poking the receptionist at work, he would have left the white stuff inside her.

    • It was just a tiny stain.

  • No, you are just paranoid!!!

    • I definitely am paranoid. No to what?

    • no give him the benefit of the doubt and live your life!