Who cares more about physical appearance?

[TommyWiseau69]

in my opinion its women. Women usually view tall height in men the most attractive and don't find guys that aren't muscular attractive. I've seen men with women of different body types. Even morbidly obese women with men that are much attractive than the woman. Can't really say the same the other way around. About 95% of men on apps are unattractive to women. It is about the same in real life as well. But many men like a lot of women on apps. It is also harder to change height than it is weight. Also, women that are the equivalent body type of men are more attractive.

Like skinny women are much more attractive than skinny men. Fat women are more attractive than fat men. Women also can wear make up but if a guy wears make up he'll be seen as gay/feminine and our natural looks are sometimes repulsive to a lot of women. Women might say men care about tit size and ass size, but thats not true. However, women would be more attracted to men that have a sculpted body and often times would some might consider that a dealbreaker. Some women care about dick size, but men don't care about vagina size. I could go on, but you get the point.

[MTC29]

I've seen a lot of beautiful women with very average looking men. In the case of my SO, who is very good looking, I was amazed at how ordinary her ex-husband was. He was dumpy and balding and just... well, not what I had imagined a woman as lovely as herself would have as a husband.

[kylee2437]

Everyone. Sorry it’s unrealistic to go for someone for their personality before their looks. You don’t think to eat a rotten apple when there’s a ripe one in front of you, that’s just how the human brain works.

[TommyWiseau69]

Its also unrealistic to think that height is the most important trait in a man

[kylee2437]

@tommywiseau69 where did I ever say it’s the most important? Your issue sounds personal

[TommyWiseau69]

Never said you said that, just saying.

[kylee2437]

@tommywiseau69 what’s it to you when a woman thinks that way? You think it’s an unrealistic mentality , so why go for someone with an unreal diff mentality. I’m not going to sit there and harp on the fact that there’s men that like petite , thin women. Why would I go for someone that doesn’t like my type?

[kylee2437]

Unrealistic *

[TommyWiseau69]

I agree, I guess it affects me more because it doesn't work in my favor. But just because a person has an attractive physical quality that doesn't always mean they are overall attractive like they can be an asshole. I think there's a balance between physical appearance and personality. Most people put more focus though with physical appearance.

[kylee2437]

@tommywiseau69 just saying, that’s a big statement, your end sentence. You feel that way because you have been rejected for your height meanwhile I’ve dated short men.

[TommyWiseau69]

I mean I don't know. I'm obviously attracted to women so I don't know what women really think and I can't make the choice. But at a glance, I don't think most women would be immediately attracted to short men. I could be wrong though. Then again I'm speaking from my own experience too.

[kylee2437]

But that also sounds like you are being the same as those women in a way though , right? Because You are paying attention to the women that least desire you instead of gaining confidence and not paying mind to those that don’t find you attractive

[TommyWiseau69]

Lol I don't purposely go for women that don't find me attractive, it just happens. Often times, women usually have to be very obvious and show good signs if they like a guy and thats how guys will know if they like him. I've never really had that though, but it was the other way around. I've liked a ton of girls but it just didn't work out. Guess thats just how it goes. Its a long search

[BarryLiverstone]

Most people care about how someone looks

[TommyWiseau69]

They do, but I'd say women are more likely to be more critical towards a guys physical appearance rather than the other way around. Its obvious

[BarryLiverstone]

So if that’s your opinion why ask the question? Seems like it’s less of a question and more of a statement

[TommyWiseau69]

Yeah thats my own opinion in regard to the question. Someone can disagree with me though

[BarryLiverstone]

But it doesn’t seem limited to this question. Seems like you have asked lots of questions primarily about height and looks. Don’t you wanna know about other things and discuss other parts of life?