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  • I do. Here is the realisation I have had a while ago: Most people are bad to average at sex. Just that girls talk way more about guys being bad than vice versa for various reasons. Mostly though because girls have higher demands as they are the ones who get to pick their mate while guys need to chase and hunt and be accepted.

    The reasons are a lot of different aspects, but I would say those are the key ones:

    - Insecurity
    - Not taking risks
    - Selfishness
    - Lack of creativity
    - Thinking "he/she came" means it was really good
    - Not being truthful to each other about likes and dislikes

    • To be a good lover one needs to be attentive, have empathy, be wanting to give pleasure, be creative, be self-critical and be bolt enough to try out what that specific partner likes and what not which always involves the risk of doing something wrong. Additionally a good idea is to just ask afterwards what the partner enjoyed and what not. Asking what they like and what not usually isn't too beneficial as a lot of people aren't too aware or only have a limited spectrum of experiences. And @ the girls here mocking the OP - girls are as bad as the guys quite a lot of girls complain about it. You aren't magically born being perfect lovers. Like every other skill in life it requires practice, experience and willingness to improve. Your arrogance is just an obstacle there. Here is a hint: Just because they guy shot his load, doesn't mean you were good. Any idiot can move a hand up and down until ejaculation comes - but being good at what you are doing is a whole different story.

    • I agree. They think just because it is easier for a guy to get off that she must be the better lover of the two. I have never known a girl that thought she was bad at sex, but plenty of women complain about men being bad. The fact is both genders need to learn to communicate their needs better, and to be more open to the possibility that they may not be great lovers if they want to improve.

  • Well.. I've had a few in the past. Each girl is different, I've only had two different girls do this to me. My ex; who did an alright job. I never forced them, and I never tried to shove my dick down there throat because that is just un-called for. Second, my current girlfriend; who did it once, and it wasn't the best... She is new to all this. But hey, I give her points for trying.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't know since I have never had a blowjob before. Come to think of it, I have never had a dickbefore either. I do have some pretty big balls on ooccasion, but they disappear quite often. Hhhh. Oh well. I can say that one of my exes still begs me for a blowjob. As a matter of fact, he asked me for one last weekend. You would think that years of me turning him down would tell him something. Anyway, I don't think he would beg so much if I was bad at it. Oh, and he has a girlfriend.

    • That don't mean u good at it he just want a bj

  • That's not particularly true it would be bad /the worst ever if she doesn't enjoy it. Women who truly enjoy it will blow your mind every time because she will use different materials and get really creative to give you maximum pleasure every time no matter what.

    • That's a positive reply, I like it.

    • yeah thats right, bad blowjob was everytime only from a girl who did not enjoy it

    • I agree with this response.

  • If she's not giving you good blowjobs then it is your job to teach her how to give good ones. It's as simple as that.

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  • Why was M capitalized?

  • That is not true. If the lady does not want to give you a blow job, then you will not feel the connection, and it will also likely it be the best she could do if she is not completely aroused by it or does not want to give you pleasure that way.

    From my experience, when I give him blow jobs, the best ones I ever give are the ones in which I desire to use my mouth on him, and am actually liking it, because he can really feel how much I enjoy giving him that. :)

    • Not be te best she could do*

  • I can give you the best blow to the fucking face :)
    KNUCKLE SANDWICH MOTHA FUCKA

    • Wow your hard core I wonder if you can beat me up?

    • Last line was... 😞

  • It is true in the majority of cases, but that's mainly because all women think they're fantastic in bed just as a matter of course.
    Basically if you're woman gives bad head it's your fault, all oral sex has gotta be like the weather channel; constant updates.
    Being open sexualy means that you've got to talk to each other and throw all of the bullshit that you learned in magazines out the window.

  • What's with all the anonymous "women must be this way" questions, is anyone else noticing this?

  • Well, you know what they say. If you want something done right, you gotta do it yourself.

    • That’s part of the reason why many women simply don’t give BJs; they’re afraid of “messing up” so they just evade doing it.

  • I don't agree. As long as she doesn't bite my d*ck it's a good bj to me. Sex is much better than bjs anyway so Idc if she's great at giving them or not

  • Who else agrees that most men can't lick well to save their lives?

    • I agree. .. lol

  • Let's not forget a lot of men give no oral or terrible oral, too.

    • Well said

  • I disagree. I think most girls give blow jobs. But even a bad bj is better than none at all.

    • You are fortunate to have never had a bad bj then.

    • Hope you're talking pre current wife. Lol 😛

    • @GraySailorsBride

      Who says I'm even talking about myself?

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  • how about this instead?
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    • Hahaha

    • Imagine the other way around

    • So this is how people make sausage slices.

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  • I don't know about other females but I love to give me my brother blowjobs.

    • Consider me 😁

    • Lmfao just realize I typed brother instead of boyfriend , fucking typo

    • I was just about to say. Your brother? Thank goodness that was a typo. Haha

  • i hate these types. deal breakers when they dont like to please.

  • I disagree.

  • It's true but I'd rather have a bad blowjob than no blowjob

  • Most women give average blow-jobs. It's obviously not an easy thing to do. To be honest, I prefer a hand-job.

  • I don't know.. how would you like a 6-8 inch long thing shoved to the back of your throat?

    • While I agree with your sentiment, most men are smaller than that.

    • @Anno_Domini 6-8 inches is about average and typical here. I only know one guy that is smaller. Girls tend to talk about their boyfriend's/husband's penis size when they first have sex. Some friends of mine and I actually had thos conversation recently. Out of all of us, the smallest penis was 6 3/4 inches and the largest was 12 inches. The girths varied from 5.5 inches around to 8 inches around. I do have a friend that wasn't involved in this conversation who is married to the guy with the 5 inch penis.

    • Most men are 5

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  • The women I've been with give great blowjobs

  • nope i dont agree.

  • I love giving my man a blow job. He cums every time and he has even complimented me on my "skills." He was the first guy I ever gave a blowjob too, prior to him I thought blowjobs were disgusting.

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