Guys, who have used the pull out method, Is it actually hard for you to pull out on time?

[Apple1996]

I know some guys say they have trouble pulling out before they cum but is that true?

[VinnyMac]

My Fiancèe and I despised using condoms because of the gross smell of most of them, the feel and simply because nothing can match skin on skin, a man's hard dick in a woman's tight pussy. We tried the birth control pill and the patch for a brief period of time, but they had bad reactions with my Fiancèe and even created health problems.

We began using the method and for 4 years it worked successfully without her becoming pregnant. I find that it is the position that is key and leads to a smaller margin of error. Doggystyle is the one method where I always felt that I had control and I recognized when I was close to the point of climax. If a man excersizes control they can sense when they're going to ejaculate and prepare themselves. If you haven't been having sex on a regular basis, cumming quickly does become much more difficult and you definitely have to be more careful. When you go slow then slowly raise the speed in which you are f*cking then you get a much better sense of how close you are. When you begin to feel like you are getting closer then you may need to slow down, pause for a break then continue from slow to fast, however many times you need to or until your partner can't take it anymore then you pull out. Practically all other positions are much harder becsuse pulling out is harder, like missionary, when she's on top, on her side or she's on her stomach and you're banging her that way. Many of these ways are more awkward and when you need to pull out it may be a little less easy to. Sometimes if you blow a giant load your cum may shoot all over her belly, her pussy, back and ass. I find it really hot to kiss her all over slowly licking my cum from her body. It's especially amazing if she's shaved smooth and you go down her eating her out with your cum in around her pussy.

This question really boils down to each guy. There are some men who cum quickly and can't really control when they ejaculate. If a guy had been fingerings you and earing you out you may have orgasmed once, a couple times or perhaps multiple times. When men go to f*ck a woman and her pussy is all wet, then a man will more than likely cum much faster. There's always going to be risk involved doing this because of precum among other reasons. I learned from the show Friend though that even condoms are not 100% fool proof (and they do write that on the box, lol 😆).

[anupamagrawal]

If you love your partner but at the same time hate the condoms, it is a sure shot and easy method because I don't want her to suffer to the consequenes of taking those pills and suffer.
Yes, I am a pull out man and totally satisfied not coming inside. When you make love - you should care too.

[Apple1996]

It is better to pull out then use birth control pills

[anupamagrawal]

Always and till eternity. No matter how safe the companies claim, a pill is bound to have one or the other side effects. So, enjoy the moment with someone who knows when to pull out and play safe :-)

[noamazia]

used it once and it depends how risky you want to make it and how well you know yourself. like i know i start ejaculation just before i start to feel good and i know when it will happen so its easy to predict when but must be done super quickly.

[Honest-Matt]

it's not hard if you don't peak when inside her, there's no point jumping out of the way of a train at the last second when 30 seconds before will be just as fine. Pull out early and just finish, no risk.

[Honest-Matt]

and by no risk, i mean no risk cumming inside, still lots of risk of pregnancy.

[matchrestore]

I've definitely prematurely pulled out, finding it takes a bit longer to finish than anticipated, but I've never not pulled out on time. Definitely looking forward to getting a vasectomy once my health insurance changes in April/May. No more pulling out!

[dontgetafemalecanine]

personal opinion, My sexual stimulation varies greatly. I really have no guarantee when reaching "about to" phase. Its damn difficult to pull out on time thats why you either make sure your sperm is infertile, you wear a condom or your partner (female) takes oral contraceptives or agrees to take emergency contraceptive pill straight after.

[summiter]

Yes it is difficult to pull out when an orgasm is approaching. The method does not work as precum can have some sperm in it. Use condoms every time and/or birth control pills etc.

[Apple1996]

It works for me

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I don't usually find it hard. But some dudes have told me about times they couldn't help themselves. It's all about their mental discipline.

[Mystery1900]

It's very hard as my urge is to thrust deeply when I cum. It's frustrating because I have to think about when I'm going to cum, rather than let myself go and enjoy the sex. I am also not thinking clearly during sex and give in to the moment, allowing myself to release inside her rather than pull out. For this reason we use condom although I would love to use another contraception that would allow me to cum inside her without condom.

[DonkeyDan]

No it's not hard to pull out in time, guys just use it as an excuse, or are so inexperienced they don't know when its time.

[jshm2]

It's why there are condoms, kiddo.

But really, if he's not in control while having sex, that is probably not a guy you want to be sticking around with

He lacks self control and discipline ; most such tend to be low life's and criminals to boot.

[20yearsolder]

Sure, quite often. Just pull it out a little early. It's not going to hurt anything if you or she has to stroke it a few extra times before you unload on her or in her mouth