Who is to blame if guys ogle at a skimpily clad girl? The guys or the girls?

[Anonymous]

A girl walks into a shop showing cleavage and baring her bellybutton. She might as well have been topless. Guys start ogling at her, even when accompanied by their girlfriends/wife. This girl then claims - have I walked into a den of perverts?

Who is to blame? Guys who look lustfully at girls or girls who attract the lust of guys?

[ohsheeT]

I'm really disappointed because I've been in those stores and I've never got my ogle never new we had one I've called many stores to see if I could buy one but most stores are sold out or don't carry them. Maybe you can tell me where to get one.

Up date. I did find a friend that said when she's in a store with guys she starts oglining over guys bulges I asked her where she got her oogle at and she told me where do I think she got it at the fucking store now I looked up in the Yellow Pages for the fucking store I can't find it I asked her what they sold there she said stupid they sell every fucking thing I guess I'm just not meant to have an oogle

[megabamse]

If you see a car crash you know you should not really look, but you simply can't help it and look anyway. When something stands out in any way shape or form, us humans tend to look at it a bit more then normal. Don't matter what stands out or the gender that looks, we all do it. And often it seams that woman will be the one that looks more at the skimpily dressed girl then the men. How ever its a difference between taking a double take, it's something completely different if you don't look away at all. Then it's the lookers fault sort of. But the girl should understand that people will look.

[Katie1964]

I guess the girl.

Guys are going to be guys, they are just that way. (We do the same, we just hide it better). They can try to hide it but they are going to look. She did that on purpose.

[4ngelic]

both. the girl for dressing like that fully knowing what might happen, and the dudes for not having the manners to look very discreetely

[NamerOfStars]

"Blame"? Lust is a sin only in the way that thirst is. A pervert would be the one who doesn't ogle, since he's defying nature.

It's no different than a fire elemental walking into a shop and calling the people who DO recoil from the heat "perverts".

[ObscuredBeyond]

She knows what she's doing. Oggling is a natural response. But under the circumstances, if the man makes no effort to resist, he's also at fault. I don't believe the blame can fall on a single party. Each is responsible for their own thoughts and actions. That includes her for being stupid.

[rachel776]

you can look but don't stare or approach

[LazerBean]

If you choose to do something that tends to get a certain reaction, then you have no right to complain when you get that reaction.

[Asker]

Can't these guys keep there lust in check, particularly when they are with there SO?

[LazerBean]

Who cares?

[najekim]

Ah! But what if the SO "ogles" after you too?

[LazerBean]

Are you talking to me? If so, I don't know what you mean

[boggboss]

If I stair at a naked girl whilst with my partner I am to blame

[boggboss]

That being said I dont think she would have a leg to stand on by complaining

[Dargil]

There is no blame to be assigned. She contributes to Art Appreciation.

[misogynistic_pig]

It's the woman's fault, if anything the average American woman has an unattractive body so I'd be disgusted by the sight.

[CountryWanderer]

The guys. They can choose not to ogle.

[EpicSnail]

If women can dress however they want, guys should be able to point their eyeballs anywhere they want.

[VikingWarLord]

No one is to blame.

I wish we could admire the sexiness of other people without feeling SHAME.

You've been taught to have SHAME for something as natural as drinking water.

[Mansearching]

If a girl wears something skimppy. She's doing it for a reason. No room to complain. But if the guys are looking and ogling while with there s/o, that's just rude. There s/o should be upset with them not her. Most of the time my girlfriend notices something like that before I do and she points it out to me. I look but not ogle. I just smh and move on.

Tbh... at anytime a woman can walk naked in front of me and I'll have no reaction. I just move on.

[BarryLiverstone]

What’s the blame? This is common here in Florida, gets hot at the beach

[Asker]

Not at beach, in a citycentre shop.

[AydenHazor]

Guys are responsible for themselves, regardless of what a woman wears.

[LiamJHayden]

If the guy is single, who cares? When with the SO, though, guys need to be prepared for that and not stare. If he has a pulse, he will notice, but he needs to avoid disrespecting his lady.

[bananathunder]

I'll take a sneak peek but not be rude about it lol

[Buttajah]

The person ogling. Exercising both self restraint and respect for my partner in
her absence is key.

[riverrat3]

It is rude to stare

[Anonymous]

Woman

[Anonymous]

Do girls still not understand that guys are going to look if you’re showing a lot of skin? It’s still no excuse to ogle someone but it’s less likely to happen if she’s dressed decently.

[Anonymous]

I would say it is the young lady who came into the shop scantily clad. She's wanting attention by others so she wants to get their attention. Men have a tendency to constantly look at women no matter if there's candidly clad or naked it's their nature. Women love to get the attention of a man. When they get their attention they sometimes have a tendency to overindulge that attention. Stately dressed women create perverts.