Who makes the next move after making out? Is it usually the girl or the guy and what happens next?

OK, I am a virgin so I hope this question does not sound totally stupid. I have gotten to the kissing part. With tongues is very sexy. But then what? Who leads the way to the next step and what happens? And how do you stop before going all the way? It seems hard to stop once you start! Or am I missing something?
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When I say making out I also included caresses and hugs and touches of the boobs and stuff. I also know that some of these touches can "light the fire" down below... sometimes it feels like an electrical circuit. But I do feel I need advice about how to go from one stage to the next! I am so naive...
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It sounds like you are taking steps in the right direction..: and by that, I mean that you are doing what feels right and natural to you. Take your time, and go at your own pace.. Do what feels right!

  • There is no script. One person takes the initiative and the other either goes along with it or refuses.

    • yes i understand this... i would only refused at the last stage... for me anything else goes...

    • Okay. If you want something, just go for it.

Most Helpful Girl

  • The guy unless he's afraid then you have to initiate. My bf was afraid to get physical when making out until I asked for longer kisses then he took over, started to touch different places

    • Very helpful. I don't really have a bf but if you want to message me I have a few specific question too person for public viewing...

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