Who slut-shames girls more: Men or Women?

Question

Things such as saying amount of sex you have = respect for yourself. Or saying if you sleep around you're a slut. Those kind of stupid things.

VegetaSSB · Accepted Answer

i do think that women do it more to other women as a form of social control of sex availability. Why? Simple, because the women that are easy to get to the muscular men with six packs or the pick up artist reduce the value of sex and then more women are pressed to give it in less optimal circunstances for female selectivity, that is all there really is to it, but also men that wanted to bang the easy to get to muscular and pick up artist men probably will shame because they get to fuck her and he gets nothing, as easy as this.

aheartofthesunrise · Accepted Answer

Men, I don't think those things are stupid either. After a certain amount of people, you may be considered undesirable by most people.

I'm not saying you should call them names or anything but if you're sleeping around so much or living that promiscuous lifestyle you can't be offended if others don't find you desirable.

So you can't go around attacking men that chose not to want to be involved with you because of your decisions.

kayleecb · Accepted Answer

I would say everyone is different and men and women equally do this, the reasons they do this are different though.
Usually when a a woman slut shames she feels inferior, jealous or she has been or wants to be more sexually promiscuous herself. It could also be because the woman hurt her by messing with her man.
Men do this because be they have something to hide and don't want you to trust anything she says or she turned him down/ hurt him. Or she really is just slept with all his friends lol

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You know, I hear men and women bandy the word around here pretty equally. Men often calling women sluts and women wondering if they would be called one for whatever thing they did. And then sometimes women will chime in with the slut-shaming too.

It all needs to stop.

If you don't vilify promiscuous men in the same breath, you're a hypocrite. And they are always hypocrites.

estoydorado1 · Accepted Answer

I think guys do it just as much as girls. Guys just tend to do it behind women's backs when they're with their homeboys. Other women are more likely to be catty or passive aggressive when it comes to women they think are promiscuous.

MrMysteryMan · Answer

Other women I'd say. It's a battle ground out there girls.

NJ_Casanova · Answer

Women... or the guy she turns Down, LOL.

maiave · Answer

Men.

passinby · Answer

Slut shaming is a woman thing and maybe a few guys that haven’t had much experience. I think women just see it as more of a threat to finding a guy or keeping the one they have.

Florancerose404 · Answer

Women, as I myself does!

Mr-chocolate · Answer

Women because women make to mistake of always talking about their sexual escapades to each other all of the time.

100musicmaniac · Answer

Men, but if you sleep around I think you're just lazy.

Tgec2003 · Answer

Women but men do it a lot too

bellybuttonlint · Answer

Women... this is no contest.

omgjassy · Answer

Equally

bearror6891 · Answer

women, they see another woman with many men and they are jealous. and they slut shame men who are with many women too

winterfox10 · Answer

Women are WAY WORSE about slut shaming than men are. Guys will just not be intimate with you if they think you are slutty, women will call you out and publicly humiliate you.

Heclingybad · Answer

Men use them then abuse them and women kick them while their down and vice versa. I think they go hand in hand the they both bash them almost tactically. Breaking their spirits and whatever social standings they might have had.