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Who taught you about sex first and what age was this?

Although my cousin and i snuck to watch softcore HBO porn in 6th grade, it didn't teach me much. I didn't know what people were doing when they put their head down there and i didn't know which hole the thingys went in. For the longest we thought you peed from the clit lmao. All porn taught me was how to kiss and get your tits sucked. I didn't know what cum looked like (dont recall seeing it in softcore porn) and i just assumed an orgasm was a weird seizure cause of how the body shook.

I heard lyrics in songs and i even overheard my mom doing it with my sisters dad around age 5 but i didn't know how they made a baby. My mom never had the sex talk with me. She just always said, “You better not be doing anything you ain't got no business doing.”

I was so naive when it came to my first boyfriend at age 14. I fell for a lot of stuff and he could easily take advantage of me since he was basically the one teaching me. I didn't even know what a clit was until like 11th grade when my guy friend taught me through phone sex. That was age 17 and the first time i masturbated/orgasmed. My body shook so bad that it scared me and i never masturbated again until a month before i turned 21.

I didn't know what a cunt was until G@G. I watched hardcore porn at age 22. Out of curiousity, i spent a day watching how lesbians tribbed, how gay dudes took it in the bootyhole, how people gave blow/rimjobs, and how people came. I found it weird, odd, and somewhat disgusting. Lmao now i just stick to hetero porn cause the rest just ain't for me.

School was late with teaching us. Most of us had already naively, cluelessly been pressured into losing our virginitys in middle school aka junior high around ages 14-16. Our school didn't offer sex ed until 9th grade and by then it was a bit late to learn about the consequences (stds/pregnancy). Half of us had no idea what abortion was, yet a lot of the gurls let guys talk them into “drinking bleach” to kill their unborn babies. Sad #FeelFreeToList #ShareUrExperience
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  • Learned most of what I know from porn and google before school or my mother told me. I would share more but I can't do that anon. Also @DizzyDesii If your inbox can't be messaged by public we can't go private.

    • Oh and probably around 11-12 ish

    • Im sorry i didn't realize private wasn't an option

    • Lol. Its ok. If you want to know more you'll have to message me direct then :P

  • I learned from watching a show that I shouldn't have been watching when I was 8. 😂

    • Lol oh lordy. I know my story above is long but you should read it when you have the time, just to see how cluless i was

    • Omg 😂😂

    • Yea, sad :(

  • Probably middle school health class i finally understood why was happening then porn made way more sense😂

    • Lol please read my story above

  • Technically my parents, but learned the "good stuff" from my friends in middle school

    • Haha okay. I know my story above is long but you should read it when you have the time, just to see how cluless i was

    • Wow! That's a pretty insane story. You're a really late bloomer. Are you still a virgin? From your questions I thought you were quite knowledgeable. Lol I got the talk from my parents when I was like 5, because I asked them what a bojina is, but they only gave me the basic. I used to think women pee through their ass. lol 6th grade kids would use the word "boobs" and I didn't know what that was. I heard the word "clitoris" on South Park, and I only found out what it was from my friends, but even so I still had to Google it. I didn't know what a cunt was until last year when I heard it in a Till Lindemann song. I'm STILL learning new terminology. But I learned all the "good" stuff from my friend in 8th grade, because he watched a lot of porn. But I didn't realize what an ejaculation was until I was almost 13. He got me into porn and I fucked up several computers. We also didn't get school sex ed til 9th grade, and most kids knew more then the teacher. We didn't talk about oral.

    • My mom didn't even know all that shit. Lol 6th grade kids knew what Playboy was and I didn't. And I didn't understand why it was such a big deal that I was yelling boobless across the playground. For the porn, I first mainly looked at pics of nude women, as well as videos of them masturbating. And since I was only 12, I would try to find people my own age not realizing it was illegal. I would look at men too, not because I was gay, but I was curious what they looked like compared to me. And then later I started watching hetero porn and ejaculating to it. But I was confused as to why I have a foreskin and they don't. But I was exposed to a lot of nudity as a child, but I didn't see my first fully nude woman until I was 18. But I would get erections when I was as little as 5 years old and play with myself, and my parents would get freaked out by them, especially when they were giving me baths. So I thought there was something wrong with me. But I've always been one to get easily aroused.

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  • Sex Ed in 5th grade gave me loads of details.

    • Wow grade 5? My school didn't do it til grade 9. By then it was too late. I know my story above is long but you should read it when you have the time, just to see how cluless i was

    • Yeah my state is very proactive with sex education.

  • First, my dad talked about it with me at age twelve. He left the part about the women. Then during school (I was homeschooled), my mom explained the whole thing. I was twelve but she explained the same thing my dad told me but she told me what happens when women hit puberty. I then understood everything. Now, I know what to do with a girl. But sex doesn't come first. Initial attraction, dating, engagement, marriage, and then sex.

    • I gotta make sure to acknowledge my kids. I know my story above is long but you should read it when you have the time, just to see how cluless i was

    • I did read the whole thing.

    • Sad huh

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  • Exploring 😏 😂
    And some friends in the fifth grade

    • You were prob that kid to play “hide and go get it” in the bushes haha. I know my story above is long but you should read it when you have the time, just to see how cluless i was

    • Hahaha sex at ages around 14-16 happens but less as compared to older ages like some people do it in the school and many not

    • 😂and the porn story

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  • No one taught me (talk), but when I was 12 (before the Internet), my mom gave me a book about sex for that age. But before that, I had already read a book my parents had titled "Everything You Always Wanted To Know About Sex -- but were afraid to ask". And there were other books at the library, and magazines I'd find.

    But when I was little, I thought that girls peed out of their butts and that to have a baby, a man would pee inside the woman. :D

    • Lmao ew. Did u read my story tho

    • Yep. That's why I added that last part.

  • porn. beginning of 7th grade. 8th grader on school bus asked if i watch porn

  • My father. I was eleven

    • Check out my story above

  • TV, YouTube Channels.

    • I know my story above is long but you should read it when you have the time, just to see how cluless i was

    • I did read it😅. Many people world wide remain clueless even as adults. There is a lot to be done with sexual education.

    • True

  • No one did... i had a tape of a VHS... a bunch of movies... for some reason I fast forwarded... after the last movie... and I saw 80s porn... it was disgusting lol... but i was 7... and I knew it from then.

  • At 5 pants down with neighbor girl4. 2nd grade had a black girl show me her pus. 4th grade had a girl strip butt naked on a table for me and another boy. He watched while I rubbed myself against her. Around 8 me and the girl next door got caught with a girl2 years my younger. My sister was 6 years older it was her friends sister. Could never play with her again. Had girlfriend in kindergarten. Slept with her at 18. I usually knew more about a guru's anatomy because I read about it. In Highscool read Cosmo and such. I Could go on and on.

    • Was the kindergarten girl, wifey? And I know my story above is long but you should read it when you have the time, just to see how cluless i was

    • No I wasn't married but along with her and 2 others I slept with3 girls in one day. I never did that I was 18 or 19

  • Being Catholic, I went to Confraternity classes. When I was 14, a girl {from my older sister's catholic school} was a few years older than me was my instructor. She was Hot looking. Anyways, she wanted to teach me about sex. She let me kiss her on her lips and touch her in places. She wanted me to lie on the floor so she could suck me and maybe F#*k her. I was concerned about the curtains being opened and the lights being on, she got annoyed and lost her urge. I lost my opportunity to have sex with her, and I regret it to this day.

  • Porn and exploring 😂😂

    • Lol check out my story

  • Whatever nasty stuff was on the internet. I discovered masturbation completely on my own though before I could even ejaculate (I thought I was just weird and nobody else in the world did it), and also found that it was nicer when I thought about girls, so I started googling pictures of girls (that's probably what led me to discover stuff about sex and porn).

    • Lol. I know my story above is long but you should read it when you have the time, just to see how cluless i was

    • I did read it lol. We were both pretty clueless.

    • Lol yup

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  • I learned the basics from my peers at School. I guess the rest - like how to make a girl orgasm was learned through practical experience.

    I’ve always been into her pleasure way more than mine which probably explains why I actually find sex a litttle boring..

    • I know my story above is long but you should read it when you have the time, just to see how cluless i was

    • I read it honey... I felt sorry that you missed out on so much of the good stuff for so long... by the way.. I always read what you write.

    • Missed out? As far as im concerned i stil dont enjoy anything i mentioned above and regret ever taking part in it

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  • I have never had the talk really lol

    • Me either. Read my story above please

    • I thought your parents might avoid the subject because I feel like your family is pretty strict Christian since you're waiting for marriage? But wow you was late to the party with watching poen etc, the first time you orgasmed you shook so much it scared you into not doing it for 3 years :O That's a story and a half. i never had the talk, but my cousin showed me Paris Hiltons sex tape when I was 10ish and from then or maybe quite a while after, I started watching Porn and learned pretty much everythimg from porn. However, I was late to do anything with anyone else which happened at a friends house party I like all sorts of porn but nothing weird or cringy

    • I didn't get sex ed till 9th or 10th either although I knew most of it already somehow, seems a bit late to me as some, especially girls were throwing themselves around while others knew nothing and did nothing

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  • Few of my cousins and their friends taught me

    • I see

  • Internet and porn, lol
    i think i was 13 or 14

    • I know my story above is long but you should read it when you have the time, just to see how cluless i was

    • hey i also used to watch HBO Softcore porn, lol i was a kid back then haha

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